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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Should there be a spark at the start of a relationship? Or does it grow with time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - Hi Aunts and Uncles My questiom is simple Should there be a spark at the start of a relationship? Five months in now and im just not feeling it... She tells me she loves me a lot which makes me think lots there for her.... Should i end this ...

Some basic rules that will help you to have better dating experiences. Can you add to the list?

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31 October 2012 (M) - It's been a while since I was last here, and I've changed A LOT since then. I'm currently in college, single, and looking into a lot of things I haven't thought about before, until I made the friends I have in college. Haha. Well, I'm learni...

Why do I still think about my old crush, especially when I'm upset

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - My last flame/crush was a nice guy. He wasnt my usual bartender or rock-star with rip jean n tatts[it a style that most of them had]But we notice each other from cross the room at uni coffee shop, both us got caught checking the other out. . Ke...

What is the reason? I texted him for the first time, said my name in the text, and he has not replied?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - To keep it short, im 80% sure that my crush actually likes me back. So a week ago my friend Nick helped me ask for his number, he seemed to be a little bit happy about this and he knew i was the one who wanted his number. And he acutally said 'rem...

Why does he need to date one last girl before he can commit to me? Should I wait while he does this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Help me please ? I am devastated by the fact that the guy I am dating told me he needs meet one girl to be sure he really loves? The guy I date said he thinks he loves me and we have been seeing each other for 3 months now. We were making pla...

How do I come out to my Mom and tell her that I'm a Lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Modnote: Your very long post was shortened as below is the crux of your question, which is clear,and is below. Your extensive account of prior events do demonstrate that you prefer girls and believe you are a Lesbian. But your question is the ...

This is a very bad situation, but who do I choose ? And how do I solve this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (M) - ok, worst situation ever. the type that makes a man not feel like a man. ill try to keep this extra short.. this all started 2 and a half years ago. at the time i had been with my girlfriend for seven years. we fought all the time. arguing. s...

Am I over reacting? Can I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a rough start to our relationship. We started out rocky...but we did dated and we've been together for 2 months (6 months prior online). I wasnt really honest with him, I was a virgin and we both had sex (he was a virgin...

I can't understand his "on" and "off" signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - I am a gay guy having a crush on another guy.. but the problem is he was flirting with me for quite some time, and at the beginning I was not sure of it. From time to time he gives out certain looks at me. We enjoy being together, he calls me to go ...

Is telling the truth one option? How do I get out of this tangled web of lies that I created? My Imaginary Gay Boyfriend is causing problems with my ex and I

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive. Firstly let me just say that I am a really honest guy, who doesn't normally lie (truth) (Hard to believe when you hear my story). But one lie I told recently has snowballed into ...

Just want to be friends. Should I be afraid to text him? Because I don't want to seem desperate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - So about two months ago, my crush's girlfriend broke up with him. Until then I didn't really know him, but we're in the same major and he likes to hug people so he'd always give me a hug. After a while I got his number and we talked and flirt...

Does he actually not like me and is he showing me that by pretty much ignoring me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - I dated a guy for several months, we broke up for 6 months and I saw him again and we reconnected. It was what seemed a fresh start where we talked about how we hoped to have a future together. But he is in the military and got stationed on the...

Help!!! How can you be in love with someone you have never seen???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - Hi I really need some advice. I have been talkin to a guy over the phone for 4 months. I know him since over a year since we used to Facebook chat regularly. I'm 18 and he is 25. Our families know each other very well and are practically fami...

I don't approve of boyfriends friendship with this girl. what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been arguing for the past few days about his friendship with a girl who continuously flirts with him. he says the flirting has stopped after the first time I confronted him about her texting him saying"call me so j can give...

Do you think he wants me just for sex? He admits he had a STD test recently. Could he be a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - So I've been seeing this guy and we've been on three dates. He initiated everything from asking me for my number, to arranging for our dates, to paying for each one of them. Yesterday he invited me for drinks with his friends. They were mostly ...

I want to be more than a friend and study buddy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (?) - Hey everyone, I met this girl in university, I noticed her the first time she walked into the room, she sat by me. I never talked to her because I didn't want to fall for her. A few classes later, she talked to me. The first thing she said to me w...

He is a player and a liar, and I had sex with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I met this guy on a dating app. He came over in the weekend we drank some ciroc the biggest bottle between me and him we finished it, we was in my kitchen and he was trying to take my pants off and I looked at him and I said no, so he let me be. I ...

Is this just a rebound move on my part, considering I only just broke up with my Gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - Hey- This may be a bit silly, but I was just wondering and I wanted to know what everyone thought. My girlfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me out of nowhere about a month ago (there was distance, and a lot of outside circumstanc...

I'm a guy who wants a relationship and just treat her right. So how do I make this happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - hi everyone, i've been speaking to thisgirl on facebook/tumblr etc. for a few months now and we met up once with her friends. then we organised to meet but the day before she stopped talking to me and we didn't end up going out. then she starte...

Would it be best to wait? New relationship: Is there really anytime where sex is to soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - after having my daughter 5 months ago, and her father leaving me while i was pregnant .. I Finally met someone amazing . He Makes me laugh , has a great personality , extreamly attractive , has a lot of things going for himself There's nothi...

He's been an idiot to me. And now he's asking me what I'll name my children? is he just messing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I have history with a guy I've known since I was three. He's the same age as me, (15/16) and he's been a bit of a pain to me. He's messed with my feeling, said he liked me when he didn't, kissed me and used me. I've loved him for three years ...

My ex is pleading for me to come back. How do I tell him I've fallen in love with another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - Ok so I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 and a half years about a month ago. I just didn't feel like I was in love anymore and I want to feel this way and be happy/not miserable for the rest of my life. We had two dogs and lived together in a fairly ...

I don't want to creep him out by telling him how I feel... what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I am 16 years old and passionately in love with someone who doesn't feel the same for me. He knows I like him but not that I love him. I can't seem to be able to tell him. I love him so much, physically and mentally. I cant imagine life without ...

I doubt myself. I never feel like I'm good enough What do I need to make things feel better for me?

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25 October 2012 (F) - I just recently got in to a relationship, at first I had a massive crush on him and he did too. We met at a party a few weeks ago. He was ever so sweet and adorable, but we didn't really "click" if that makes sense. At the end of the night we did...

Would it seem desperate to visit a guy in another state that I have only met once?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - A few weeks ago, I took a weekend trip with some friends to a city a few hours away from where we live. They had a conference to attend so I mostly spent the weekend exploring the city on my own. The night before we returned home, I ran...

Girls if a guy asks you out and you say no, then is it awkward for ever after between him and you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - I have never dated very much. My one and only girlfriend, with her, things just happened as if I didn't have control. I said things I wouldn't normally have said, I was forward and thats why things worked out. I was assertive. Usually though,...

Do I need professional help? I STILL can't get my ex brother-in-law out of my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - Can't get ex brother-in-law out of my mind! I'm going to try and make a long story short! I'm still attracted to and in love with my ex brother in law and I can't get him out of my mind! It's driving me crazy! We has sex one time, and use ...

I've been crushing on him for years and I find out he's gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - So for about 5 years I have liked this guy. I have really strong feelings for him. I thought he liked me to the way he used to look at me. We used to be really good friends until we started hanging out with other people. Now he's popular and hangs ...

I really like this guy, but he has recently become involved with my friend. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - I really like this guy, but he and my friend are slightly involved, they're nowhere near official but I know they both like each other, i've recently started speaking to him more, he's amazing, but he and my friend are the same religion and have ...

We cant have a relationship but I cant stop thinking about kissing him! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - Hi there, i am really good friends with a guy that i realise i am starting to feel things for. I feel jealous at the thought of him dating other people, i can't take my eyes off him and i can't help but be extremely attracted to him. I've tr...

I'm twice her age. Why does she flirt? Should I flirt back with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Why does she flirt? Should I flirt back with her? A girl, 19, who I am friends with, and I am 40. We work together once a week and sometimes end up at the same events. She flirts with me about 1/2 the time. like sometimes she doesnt at all and ot...

Is he worth my time? Can I believe him or is he stringing me along? he says he loves me, that he would like to marry me one day.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - first of all I’m just looking for advice not for people to judge me. Well I am 18 years old and there is one guy that is about 15 years older than me. He would always flirt with me and he would say stuff to my sister so she could tell me. Ab...

Should I try to start something with my sister's guy friend who she treats badly. And should I open up to him and tell him that I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Recently my sister has been dating this guy he is ropughly 21 years old, and I really like him I'm a guy and underaged. I think he likes me back. My sister doesn't really want him she just uses him to buy her stuff, and she talks to other guys. ...

No one knows I like guys. So how can I get rid of this crush I have on a guy at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - So, recently I have started to like this guy at my school, but I'm a guy as well, I'm always thinking and looking at him during school but I know he wouldn't want to be with me. I just really want to know how I can probably forget about him, or ...

40 emails between us, and then she stopped responding? What am I supposed to make of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Sooo basically I'm having a crush on a girl who I don't know THAT well. We attend the same college, although she's quite a bit older than me (9 years), but aren't taking any classes together. We met at the beginning of the year at this opening ...

Why do I keep on wanting what I can't have, namely: married men? Is there something wrong with me? What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Why do I go for married men? Even though I know it never works! I really like this guy, who is quite a lot older than I am; and married! He confessed he had fallen for me, I tried to convince him he hadn't because he was married, but I knew that ...

Ok I'm lost, does she like me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - So there is this woman at work who i like. We only see each other for short amounts of time since we are both very busy (usually on opposite sides of the building) I'm not sure if she likes girls or shes straight and playing around with me. ...

Was inviting him to a movie, as just a friend, the wrong thing to do? I have a crush on him. He does have a GF as well.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, I really like this guy at my school, but he is a going out with a friend, of mine right. I reassured him that I don't mind being just friends and that I wouldn't dare interfere with his relationship because I care about him and I care a...

He 'likes' so many sexy girls on FB. What should be my plan of action tl deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - Hi there. I have a bit of an issue and was wondering what you guys and girls think. My boyfriend of less than a year has started "liking" pages on fb that feature bikini-clad/naked girls that post daily pictures. He liked one today and it really h...

What was this guy's intention? Does he think he is entitled in some way to treat me so poorly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - i met this guy at the club he invited me to come over his friends' birthday party. I thought I was his date but he ditched me as soon as I got there. there were all complete strangers and I didn't know what to do. so I said I have to go hom...

At school: what can I do to stop people teasing me about this boy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I am in love with a guy at my school. He is so amazing and is so beautiful everyone knows I like him including him but I get teased a lot of the time from the people who sit near me in tutor. One morning I was upset and someone told me to just ...

I'm not sure about his sexuality but I'd like to be more than friends in the time we have together

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - hello, i am a boy, and i am in crush in another guy. i am a exchange student here in an foriegn country, and the guy i like is a local french. im not sure about his sexuality, but im sure he is not in to me, though, he treats me very good, in sp...

My studies are suffering from having a crush!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - Hello I am a student in middle-school(Korea) and I am school vice-president. I am the top in my school in grades and I have many friends(btw I am korean but I am fluent in English). Whenever I like someone, I felt good when something we did matched ...

In Love with a boy I can't have help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - Here goes i was talking to this amazing lad for about a year on facebook yesterday we met uo for about 5 minutes and i felt something ive never felt with anyone else before and i know i love him its not lust etc, and i know he doesnt feel the same, ...

She has a Major Crush on my boyfriend. We are both fed up with her. How do we get her to leave us alone for good

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend works with a girl who loves my boyfriend. When her boyfriend broke up with her she was crying and my boyfriend listened to her and helped her. Everything was fine at that moment. But since then she has developed a major crush on my ...

Guilty? maybe? Is the reason I can't ask out this other girl because I'm worried about hurting her further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - There are at least two girls at school who fancy me. Possibly a third. One of them I'm really good friends with but she hasn't mentioned it yet, but people think she does fancy me. One of them likes me and I like her back but I'm friends with...

Can I ask her again if she can still make it? I hate the disappointment if something planned for does not happen

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - I hate making plans or looking forward to something which will never happen because i HATE the feeling of dissappointment. I been talking to this girl for like 2 months and we have now met twice, we kissed second time and she was telling me how g...

Do I listen to some of my friends who say don't date her? Or do I just go ahead and ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4414 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - First off, this is NOT just a teen phase or something when you read it. Ok, so I really like this girl P, and she just got out of a short term relationship where she got cheated on. I am a trumpet player, and she is in our high school marching ...

I feel so guilty about crushing on this girl at Uni who may or may not be gay. Especially considering that I have a LDR Gf who I adore. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - This is going to sound really messed up but ever since I started uni I have had a huge crush on a girl that works at the uni who has a really gay vibe about her. She dresses quite butch, but I have a feeling she's straight because I've seen her arou...

How do I get the attention of my crush?

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20 October 2012 (F) - i really want my crush to like me, he doesn't come to my school anymore, but i do confirmation classes with him. i don't think i've ever wanted someone this bad for this long. so give me your strongest advices. the thing is that everyone likes this ...