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writes:So for about 5 years I have liked this guy. I have really strong feelings for him. I thought he liked me to the way he used to look at me. We used to be really good friends until we started hanging out with other people. Now he's popular and hangs with all the girls. We still see each other when we bowl on Fridays and he looks at me in a weird way but I don't know what it means. Ok now just this past week I found out he is gay. This hurts me so much and I am upset because all of these years I was going on hope that we could still be together but now it seems impossible and now I have nothing to go on! What should I do? He might be bi but I'm not sure? I don't know if he will even want to be friends since his current so called friends don't like me? I'm helpless and don't know what to do? Please help me??? I have never felt like this before! I know I love him its been soo many years of this! Now that I'm older it has only gotten worse please help! My question is what do I do? Should I be friends or just get over it? If I should get over it how?
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reader, Atsweet1 +, writes (25 October 2012):
 I would think he is always go cheat with men, because tha'ts supposed to be superior to having sex with women. But I would be his friend. I have liked a lot of bi or gay men and they like me because I'm very aggressive and tom boyish. Dont have the right equipment like my Mom would say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2012): Has this guy ever given you any real reasons to think he likes you? It's been five years, and after all that time, you find out he might be gay. I think you either need to approach him and find out for sure, or just forget about it. Even if he is gay, there are tons of fish in the sea. Don't get hung up on a guy that shows you the least bit of attention. Read or watch "He's Just Not That Into You"... It's kind of a girly story, but has a lot of good points.
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