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writes: Sooo basically I'm having a crush on a girl who I don't know THAT well. We attend the same college, although she's quite a bit older than me (9 years), but aren't taking any classes together. We met at the beginning of the year at this opening drink that was organized and we talked pretty extensively, a few hours I guess, and she actually confided in me a bit with some personal things. When I decided it was time for me to leave, she said she was going to leave as well and we travelled back together for a bit and talked more. After that, I added her on Facebook and she wrote me a message saying she enjoyed our chat. We didn't speak much after that, but saw each other a few times. When we did it see each other it was really nice and there might have been some tension and flirting there but I might have also made that up ;)Last week though, for some weird reason we ended up emailing a lot on one day, and still some more in the days after. Again, we spoke about some rather personal things, but it was also nice and we joked and there were some ambiguous sentences but nothing too crazy. Nothing that proves me she likes me back at least.I'm not sure what I'm trying to get out of this, it's not like I'm looking for a relationship right now, but I really like talking with her and it feels quite natural. I thought she felt the same way, considering the things she told me and how often we emailed (over 40 I think), but she didn't reply to my last email. We exchanged our last emails on Thursday and it's Tuesday now, I feel like I want to email her but I don't know if I should, as it was me who sent the last one. There's no clear reason, to me, why she stopped responding. Any insights as to what I should/could do, would be appreciated.
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reader, springerspaniel  +, writes (24 October 2012):
There could be loads of reasons why she hasnt e-mailed you,she might have had to go away urgently or her laptop has died.
Dont worry over nothing,
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