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male
age
30-35,
*otwaterlover
writes:hello,i am a boy, and i am in crush in another guy. i am a exchange student here in an foriegn country, and the guy i like is a local french. im not sure about his sexuality, but im sure he is not in to me, though, he treats me very good, in spite of only knowing me for just one month, he gave me his old mobile and spent hours accompanying me to find a new residental. he is really the best person i ever met, and i cant stop thingking that why is he so good to me? i will be here for only 4 months, and now it has come to nearly the midle part of my stay. i consider it hard to make genuine friends in this kind of situation, and i assume most people wont make real friends with exchange students in their school, so why is he so good to me, is there a chance?we will go out on a trip for 8 days in the coming vocation, just me and him, strange right? i want to ask you guys how can i really seduce hiim into gay, or at least do somethings to let him have some feelings on me?some facts:he has no and never had gfhe does not know i am gayi do not speak french, we have to comunicate in english
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 October 2012):
 You ask why he is so good to you and my guess is that he thinks you are a nice guy and he enjoys your company and he sees you as a friend. I cannot tell you if he is gay or not, but I can tell you that there is no way you can make him have feelings for you or to take the friendship to the next level if he does not look at you like that. I think the best thing for you to do is to maybe ask him some questions about himself. Ask him has he ever been with a guy ect and try and figure out how his feelings are towards that. If he seems open enough then I think you should be honest with him and tell him you are gay and see how things go then. Good luck.
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