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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I hate making plans or looking forward to something which will never happen because i HATE the feeling of dissappointment. I been talking to this girl for like 2 months and we have now met twice, we kissed second time and she was telling me how glad she was we did and SHE set a day to meet her which SHE is free on for next time.She has been talking to me normally, but last 2 days her conversations have been simple unless i really engage her.I asked her 3 days before if she can still make it, she said yes.But she hasn't brought it up, and i feel like i don't want to ask again, to pressure her or anything. But i like her, and argghh i just dont know..fullstop.. Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (21 October 2012):
 I don't see pressure here. Only 2 dates in 2 months will make me forget about a guy. I like to meet at least once a week, twice a week even better. Anything less than that it's like out of sight out of mine. That's just me. Everyone's different with their needs. You can't let fear of disappointment stop you from pursuing. She might see it as lack of interest. If your busy schedules are what stopping you then you have to decide if this person is right for you, and on your part, adjust your schedule so you could allow more time for dating.
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