A
male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:First off, this is NOT just a teen phase or something when you read it. Ok, so I really like this girl P, and she just got out of a short term relationship where she got cheated on. I am a trumpet player, and she is in our high school marching band. Ok, so some of her friends want us to date, and a lot of my friends want us to date, even MY MOM thinks we look like a couple. The thing is, her best freind, M who is also my friend, doesn't, and then my freind W, who is M's best guy friend and is dating P's freind, X , and he doesn't want us to date. Well, anyways, X wants us to date, mainly because she is dating w and she thinks that she could hook us up and that we'd be "cute together". And W's best freind, S , told me today when we were leaving the band competition, that we looked like we'd be a cute couple. So, basically, almost every one of our freinds, except M and W want us to date, and she probably won't just because of M, and M probably won't change her mind unless W changes his...What do i do?
View related questions:
player Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 October 2012):
 I got a bit confused with the alphabet soup, but basically I think the only possible advice is : do what you want. If you want to ask her out, ask her out. You are living your own life, not your friends' life. You have to make yourself happy, not your friends.
At your age, easier said than done, I know- it takes guts...peer pressure can be strong.
Then again, if she ( P ) likes you, she would not say no just to please her friend M ! If she does this ( turn you down JUST because her friend does not agree ) then she is stupid, weak and too immature for dating yet, - so , no great loss for you.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2012): Excusme, what? Are you going to listen to your friends who to date? And when you grow up who to marry?
How about having a mind of your own. Do you guys want to date, or the whole world, your friends, her friends, who else have to decide fir you and give you an approval? So what some people for some weird for me reason have a saying in it, are you going to listen to them who they want you to date?
...............................
|
