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writes:Hi there, i am really good friends with a guy that i realise i am starting to feel things for. I feel jealous at the thought of him dating other people, i can't take my eyes off him and i can't help but be extremely attracted to him. I've tried to get over him but it's not happening. I know that we can't have a relationship (it's a long story but i just know that it won't happen) but i would really like to kiss him! However, i'm really scared and shy to do anything. Also, i'm terrified of making things awkward with him. What do you think i should do? Any opinions or advice would be really helpful. thank you xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2012): okay so you say you cant be with him. well, you know you like him very much and you like kissing him and being with him. but you claim you cant be with him i say that you confront him on this with out any pressure, and see what he has to say because you wont know until you try, comunacation is a good thing. im saying to make a fool of your self and go crazy but sit down and talk to him with kindness and ease your way through and get answers in a round about way. and if that dont work than you can leave it alone, and atleast you tried and you know in your heart that you did try and it will ease your mind and make it easy for you to move on.
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reader, appled  +, writes (24 October 2012):
It depends does he have a girlfriend or do you work together?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 October 2012):
 if you KNOW you can't have a relationship with him then I think for your own peace of mind it's best to distance yourself from him as much as possible.
I mean when I'm dieting I don't surround myself with things I can't have... why should you torment yourself that way?
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reader, kenny  +, writes (24 October 2012):
 If you can't have a relationship with him, either now or in the future then i think that doing things like kissing is just going to torment you further for you and him. I think from what you have said the best option here would be to go your seperate ways and find someone that you can have a relationship with.
Good luck
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reader, Pumafruit +, writes (24 October 2012):
You need to ween yourself off him, you need a new crush to distract yourself. Or simply convince yourself he doesn't like you in return, if you have hope he feels the same it just escalates the feelings.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 October 2012):
 Well if you are completely sure that you will never be able to have a relationship with him then I would strongly advice against trying to kiss him. The simple reason being if you kiss him then it will only make your feelings stronger and in the end will hurt you more.
If you are completely sure that there is no future for the both of you then you should try your hardest to keep your distance from him and look in different directions for a guy who you can have a future with. Good luck.
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