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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

What's wrong with this guy!? Why does he keep being hot and then cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - My friend told this guy I like him. Ever since then, he's been staring at me, flirting with me, calling me pet names. Usually, this is the type of thing that would make a girl think that a guy is into her. But last I heard, he was still hung up...

Her actions feel disrespectful. Do her actions suggest that she is not as committed to me, as I have felt towards her?

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30 November 2012 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for over 2 months. At first everything was great, but now I'm not so sure. Things are off and on. One day she loves me the next she hates me. The only way she will ever say "I love you" is if I say it first. Sh...

We were getting along fantastically until I told her how taken I was with her, now I don't hear from her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - You guys have prevented me from making some monumental blunders in the past..see some of my past posts..But I've NEVER needed your help more than I do now! Scenario: I live in Wash, DC. I'm cycling back from tennis practice when I hear, from acr...

What are my chances? I thought it was mutual love from the start. But is she having doubts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago love at first site on both sides. She is still married and has a kid with this Guy. He lives in another state so I'm not worries but they saw each other a few weeks ago at their daughter's birthday party a...

Was she testing to see if I'm actually interested? Should I ask her out? Or was she just bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I have been talking to this girl I have known for two years. We have been chatting a lot recently and she has been asking me to meet her. I have been busy so have not been able to. She has been texting me a lot and hints she wants me to take her...

Why don't I ever attract girls I want to spend time with? Could my personal issues be a reason some girls avoid me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I only attract the really weird and creepy ones that I don't find attractive. People have told me that I am really cute and that I can be a guy who girls are attracted to, but that's only a few of my friends because they're people I know and can ...

I have a boyfriend but I have feelings for a girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, During my time off school I met a wonderful man who is now my boyfriend. He's a great guy, somewhat older and mature, and understands me better than anyone. Even though I moved to another state, we decided to remain together. We've be...

I really like this guy at the gym, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - What do I do about this guy? I really like him:(? There's this cute guy who works at the gym where I've been going for 4months now. He's cute and I really like him. He's quiet, keeps to himself and he seem really passionate about his job....

Is he just being polite by accepting my affection, or could he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - There's a guy I'm friends with, that I really like. I had a crush on him last year, that didn't go any where, and I'm still unclear as to whether he ever felt the same about me or not. We lost touch for just over a year, and we started hanging out ...

What is going on with this guy, and why am I wasting time on him when there are other guys who put out more effort?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Back in June this guy I knew vaguely from high school started talking to me. We ended up going out now and then over the summer and eventually hooked up. Everyone warned me he was kind of weird, that he wasn't the type to want to have a girlfriend ...

Why does he not want to chat with me anymore? He said he'd marry me but then started talking about sex all the time, since then I've hardly heard from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - DC, I had a crush on a guy for close to four years; we flirted, and then when we(me) finally opened up, he told me he had a girlfriend, that he loves and would marry one day. He said we could only be friends..but he immediately offered to hang out ...

I have an unexplainable attraction to someone that I shouldn't have

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Just another psychological curiosity. I’m not quite sure how to describe him, I guess an old crush or attractions. He wasn’t my usual bartender or rock-star with rip jean n tatts[it a style that I am most attracted to] We notice each other fro...

I really like him, but I don't think he likes me, even though he flirts with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - So, I met this freshman(I'm a junior) boy this year of school. He seemed great and all at first, but dorky and young. He started flirting with me, or so I and everyone else thought. He always spends lunch with me, he takes my phone, he messes with ...

How do I get over this cheating guy? He's just found out his ex is pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Ok soo I have this really huge crush on a senior nd well we've been talking nd been friends for about a year now ok Hey asked me out over the summer but I said I wasn't ready I then asked him when I was ready. He said I'm not ready I'm starting...

Am I just trying to see something that is not there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - So I am wondering if anyone out there is an expert on body language. Theres this person in my life who well I find quite attractive. The problem is he has a matter of authority above me and is responible for my performance in what I do. I am not ...

He did not want to date me but is now jealous that I am dating other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Hello Cupids. What is it with men??? I have had a friendship with a guy for a year or more. We have flirted and clearly there was an attraction between us. We get along great, laugh together, have chemistry...yadda yadda yadda......

Was she just being polite, or is she interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - Hi I have a question guys or girls. I asked a girl I like for her number. We talked briefly once before. We are both working in the hospital. I am a student on my last year and she is working as an undergrad nurse. I was finishing my night shift (...

Does anyone else find certain accents sexy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - I'm from up north and study at university here, this girl I met one night she's from London, but when I saw her in the bar I thought she was beautiful and then when she introduced herself her British accent caught my attention immediately! I lo...

How can I find out if this girl likes me without putting myself completely out there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - By nature, I have always been a bit on the anti-social side. I'm more comfortable in my own company rather than with most people I know. However, there is this girl that has started to work on my floor over a week ago. I instantly had a ...

I told her that I liked her despite her having a new boyfriend but the conversation didnt go anywhere, have I ruined our friendship? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - there is this girl that i've known since my college days. today, i discovered that she now has a new boyfriend ( which really came a bit of a shock for me). i never even once thought before that i like her at the that we are attending the same ...

I have a problem with a girl, I don't know if she is mad at me but she's not answering my messages!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - Hi everyone. I have problem with one girl, I dont know if she is mad on me because of something, but she's now not answering on my messages, we the most of the time. She is not answering when Im not in town where she lives. Everything starts about 2 ...

Question for the girls out there about responding to texts!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - I've a question for the girls out there about responding to texts. Ok.....I'll give a quick example on my situation and then you can hopefully ease my impatient side. I was with this girl at my friends 21st Birthday. She was a lovely girl ...

How would u interperet the way this girl is, do you think she liked me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - Hi I wonder if anyone out there can advise me with the following situation..... In the pub I frequent a few weeks ago a new girl has started, she has started working on the bar and she was always very talkative, I ended up having a few conversati...

Why did my teacher only invite me and none of the other students to his birthday party? He's 24 Does he love me?.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I've have been in the big trouble! I have fallen in love with my teacher, and I wonder if he loves me too. The way he looks at me and he also looks at me a lot! My friends already thought I'm crazy. They said it's impossible to love the teacher ...

How should I react when he ignores me?...Because I still like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I started liking a guy in my class... he flirted a lot with me when compared to other girls..after giving it a long thought i told him i liked him... he replied that it's not that he ..but doesnt like me or anything...but it was not a good time ...

Is this just a sweet gesture or is he romantically interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I've known this guy for over 2 years now, we're very good friends. I did fall for him sometime ago (and I did tell him, we just had a very down to earth conversation about it), but we can't be together for whatever reason, anyway my feelings...

Are there enough signs here to indicate that he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - So I am really confused by this guy. We work together, and we spend a lot of our free time together too as we have the same hobby. I really like him, and I think he likes me, but I wonder after nearly 3 months why he hasn't made a move yet, and in a ...

I want my ex girlfriend back in my life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - so the problem is my ex gf who broke off with me 9 months ago started talking to me again after a month. I loved it, i loved her like crazy. When we started talking again, we tried to be just friends but did stuff that wasnt just friend ...

Should I believe that my bf is not attracted to this young woman who is going to be his room-mate soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - My bf and I have lived together for the last year or so, and our roommate split suddenly and we needed someone who could move in asap and afford to pay rent. Unfortunately, this wound up being my high school friend (this was honestly the only opt...

I have a huge crush on this boy but he's not in any of my classes. Is there anything I can do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - So, I have a huge crush on a kid that was in all my classes last year and toward the end of the year, I felt like he was starting to like me too. He would tease me and be mean and joke with me a lot. But, this year, he's not in any of my classes....

I'm in love with my friend, but am feeling threatened by my teacher, who openly flirts with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I'm in love with my close friend. I don't think anything will happen between us as I'm sure he doesn't see me that way - and anyway, he's only just split up with his girlfriend (who cheated on him), so I'm just keeping quiet. At our sixth form y...

My crush only thinks of me as his little sister's friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I have a crush on my best friends's brother. I cant stop thinking about him. I want to tell her that I like her brother, but I don't know how to. Ususally I just say it but in this case should I tell her slowly. I just turned 13 and he's going to be ...

Could somebody fill me in to why he's wanting to hang out, then bailing last second?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I had posted a question about this same guy before (not quite a question like this), but only recieved one answer. I asked to see if people could tell me if it sounds like this guy has a crush on me. I've been so confused with this guy, honestly...

How do I talk to the cute girls at the coffee shop without coming across as creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - I go to this coffee shop alot to study and there is always a couple cute girls there and i always want to go up to them and talk to them but i don't ever know what to say to not seem like a creeper or a weirdo. any advice?...

Did I miss something here? Wasn't she flirting with me? Or did I read it wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - Dear cupid, I have a classmate that for a little bit was calling me bebe and taking pictures of me or basically anything and sending it to me and was texting me and calling me at all times also trying to set up movies or wine nights or dinner...

How do I get over my married lover who is also the father of my daughter? I've tried, but it's so difficult.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - MY daughter's father and i broke up 9 months ago. I'm still not over him. We have a 15 month old daughter together, he is married and is having another baby. I know you might think what do i want with him? It's not that i want him its more so i c...

The much younger man denied flirting with me but I cant seem to get over him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I am 45 years of age divorced, I met this most wonderful young man but he is 22 years of age although he looks like about 30 he is very mature and intelligent much more than some men my age ,he started flirting with me at work which was very ...

I am in love but he doesn't want to commit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I'm in love with someone who at the moment doesn't to commit to a relationship. Right now, we both are good friends, we help each other, hang out, text and call each other regularly. We have grown to trust each other and have each others'backs. When ...

Did I miss my chance with her by waiting too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - "Dear Cupid" or whatever, I really like this girl, and we're in a complicated situation. Well, I am in band and I play trumpet, and she was on dance team, and I have liked her since the first week of school. Well, after our first home football...

I want to give myself the same pain he said I caused him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - My friend and I had this experience with this older man and at first he showed me attention, etc. but once he saw my friend he completely forgot about me and started being rude to me and then one time he said he almost died and blamed it on me and ...

What can I do to get him to notice me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Hi. So there is this guy that I like. I am 15, he is 16. The thing is, we used to sit near each other in class, so it was easier to kind of get up the nerve to talk to him, I did a couple of times. He's hilarious and very nice. The thing is, we dont ...

Girl I like is always with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (M) - I like this girl in college. I've never talked to her and she's in none of my classes. I see her around campus and in the library almost everyday. I'm pretty certain she finds me attractive. We've exchanged repeated and extended eye contact. I've ...

Is there something I should be doing?? I really like him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - So, I have a huge crush on a kid that was in all my classes last year and toward the end of the year, I felt like he was starting to like me too. He would tease me and be mean and joke with me a lot. But, this year, he's not in any of my classes. ...

Two guys and me. I love them both. But how can I handle this situation when school resumes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - ok....so i am i guess your could say in love(just for the sake of simple words) with two guys. one guy i have dated about three or four times but i have broken up with him after a week or so because my best friend likes him. so i dated one guy ...

He kissed me so I thought he liked me, but I guess not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Okay so monday 11/12/12 i got my first kiss with this boy named emmanual. The 1st time i saw him i didnt like him but as weeks went by i started liking him more n more. I stayed after on monday for track n steppers. When he got on the bus he kissed ...

My crush knows that I like him and says he'll treat me normal. What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 November 2012 (F) - Hey agony aunts and uncles; I hope that you're doing fine. Anyway, it has been really awkward recently as long story short, my friends told my crush that I like him. It's terrible; apparently he knew all along. (Kind of) However, he promised...

Does my crush maybe like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

22 November 2012 (?) - So the guy I like came over to my cousins house(where I'm living) to borrow her truck because he's moving out of his ex's house. We started watching movies and I had my legs stretched out and my crush moved closer to where his legs were touching ...

Should I make the first move? How???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 November 2012 (F) - I really like this boy that i work with he's such a sweetheart, so cute and we have a lot in common, we always talk i would defiantly consider us friends but i want us to be more then friends. Whenever i see him i get butterflies and i think about ...

It doesn't feel like a crush, it feels two sided! But is it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - Hey all, I have posted before about a guy at work. And i took on board people's views e.g that he is being friendly and that work relationships aren't really a good path to go down because all the problems. But there's been a update and would ...

What am I? Is what I am feeling a normal part of going through puberty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 November 2012 (M) - ok im 13 going through puberty and i don't know what im going through. I like girls ( I HAVE A GF) but i look at boys sometimes, girls too. Though I only look when im horny. When I'm horny a lot i do masturbate. I look some gay porn pics Now I need...