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writes:So, I met this freshman(I'm a junior) boy this year of school. He seemed great and all at first, but dorky and young. He started flirting with me, or so I and everyone else thought. He always spends lunch with me, he takes my phone, he messes with me, and he teases me.(Now, I'm not good at explaining, and I'm probably leaving out some other stuff, but that's what I can remember from him flirting with me.) Well, I don't know if he even likes me though, like all my friends say, cause he told me straight up he likes this girl at my school who's a cheerleader, so I know he couldn't possibly like me, cause I ain't a cheerleader... I don't know what to do, cause I like him a lot now...but all of the flirting has actually...stopped.... So..I know it may be obvious...but I want..your opinions...does he like me or not? Cause if not...I guess I should work on getting over him..
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 November 2012):
 maybe he likes both of you. no crime in that at your age.
if you like him why don't you ask him to do something outside of school so you guys can get to know each other?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 November 2012):
 In the US guys are raised to believe that "cheer leaders" are the "standard" in High School. As in, if you date a cheer leader you will instantly be "DA MAN!" and become popular.
Just like girls are thought that going out with the captain of the football team is the pinnacle of High School life.
It could be that he said he liked this cheerleader, so he wouldn't look like a dork to you. As in, he was trying to seem more aloof and "mysterious" as opposed to clingy or desperate for you to date him.
Honestly, he sounds young, inexperienced and immature.
I would "work" on getting over him. If he really DID like you he should have had the GUTS to ask you out or talk to you instead of all the "flirting" and horseplay.
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reader, Jennifer P.  +, writes (28 November 2012):
 After I read it, I have two thoughts of this.One, the reason he told you he likes that girl who is a cheerleader ia because he didn't want you to know he likes you (He tried to divert your thought)Two, He might like you at first but after he met that girl, he changed his mind. She distracts him. Even if he stopped flirting with you, you should keep talking with him and giving him the best advice like the best friend always does. And keep waiting. Because one day he will starts flirting with you again.Don't give up!
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