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writes:Just another psychological curiosity.I’m not quite sure how to describe him, I guess an old crush or attractions. He wasn’t my usual bartender or rock-star with rip jean n tatts[it a style that I am most attracted to] We notice each other from across the room at uni coffee shop, both us got caught checking the other out. . Kept smiling, stealing secret glance while still being engaging with our own friends, i was so looking forward to bumming into him again with out our friends? Judging from smile he was I think he was thinking the same thing.Sadly not even hour later we found out he was new sociology professor.My hope of any possibility happen went out the window. We both so embarrassed couldn't looks each other in face. i had yell out my group need help for him to come over to my group. [No his not married, his 9years older, n his close mate of with one my network mate, and no I will never act on it. Despite very strong attractions I also respect him too much to ever put him in a position that will hurt is career or mine]After that we tried to forget and were quite professional. Once we walk into the classroom it clear his teacher n i student, with a small typical small talk. i,.e ‘hi how are you, how was ur weekends.’ no mix feelings, n not dirty thoughts in class.[for me anyway]I cant really explain it, or why. But once we’re out the classroom, this guy has some sort of magickal powers over me. I can’t help but to be hopelessly attracted to him. One smile [even the most innocent one, when say hey to class or about my theory of feminism] and I swear blushing myself blush. And somehow really sexy too which mean I have bite my tongue to avoid impure thoughts . there this one time when our hands accidentally touch [by that i meant both went to pick up the my pen that fell. i assure you it was completely innocent]. I swear i felt both our body heat go right up, he quickly move away both acted like nothing happen avoiding any eye contact, i was sitting at back i wanted my space that day. Everyone else was focus on their work so no one notice lucky. Other than that nothing happen. I haven’t seen him in almost 4 months. During that time I’ve notice other flirted with few testing the chemistry. However ever now and then I don’t why but I would have erotic dream about my professor. I feel as I did the first day I saw him. Thing I would call him pretty boy or hot. I don’t get my attractions for him. I know it wishful thinking but Part of me wishes once I finish my course or withdraw he would either call me or just lay one right on me. [as long where both single and no professional boundaries]I still don’t get this attractions any psychology Dr/lovers wanna explain it to me.
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reader, Fender +, writes (23 January 2013):
Fender is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo how do i control my lust for him, next time I see him when uni startS?
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reader, orangeswild123  +, writes (5 December 2012):
 Human nature! We are sexual beings and long for human connection. Once we feel a connection with someone its hard to break it. Lust is an amazing feeling, and normal. Also its a bit of wanting what you cant have haha. He sounds charming! Who knows maybe you'll end up together somehow :) I had the same thing with my college professor. Not outside of the classroom though, but he was older than me by like 10 years and he had confidence. He dressed nice, had an amazing voice. All those thing drove me crazy haha! I'll never forget him :P
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