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30-35,
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writes:Back in June this guy I knew vaguely from high school started talking to me. We ended up going out now and then over the summer and eventually hooked up. Everyone warned me he was kind of weird, that he wasn't the type to want to have a girlfriend because he was too busy hanging out with his "boys" all the time. It kind of bothered me that some weekends he couldn't see me because he had some trip or something planned with his "boys" but since I was going back to college in the fall anyways, I just dealt with it. After I was there a couple weeks, he pretty much stopped texting unless I texted him first, so I stopped texting him too. In a drunken moment I called him and asked him why he stopped talking to me and he was like "I thought you'd have some guy there". We started texting again and for 2 months we've been talking. He kept saying how he wanted to see me on break. So break came and he asks me to hang out and I said ok. But then he texts with some excuse about still being over his friends house and can we do it the next day. So I said ok. The next day comes and hes like I'm still at the bar with my friend but I want to hang out after. I said ok but I got sick of waiting so I went out with my friends instead. I told him I'd probably meet up with him at the bar later. By the time I ended up getting there, he had left and he called up complaining about me coming so late but he still wanted to see me. He pretty much begged me to let him come pick me up. So I said ok and he came and we hung out and ended up hooking up again. I was also pretty mean to him bitching him out for treating me kind of rudely by not hanging out when he was supposed to. Now I'm back at school and he's not talking to me again. I think he must somewhat like me because he's always getting mad thinking I'm hooking up with guys at school but then he does his distant thing and stops talking to me. I shouldn't even waste my time on him because I have a bunch of other guys that like me and actually make effort to spend time with me, but I don't know, this guy just interests me, maybe because he's so hard to figure out. Any thoughts on what his game is?
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (29 November 2012):
 Yea hes not making u a priority and women love being number one in a mans life so u chase bc that attracts u. In addition he demonstrates self confidence by showing u he isnt needy n doesnt need to see u to be happy hence boys time. This also shows he lives in his own world n u want a piece of his world cause hes secure with who he is. Hes created some textbook attraction with u by just his behavior. The hot and cold he gives u makes u curious about if he likes u which is another reason why youre pursuing.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 November 2012):
 he likes the hooking up (I assume you mean sex).... that's all.
do not waste your time on him...
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