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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

How do I prepare myself for the breakup? And should we stay friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - For the past year and 7 months, I've been involved with this guy. Even though it's been a rough year, I've gotten really attached to him- I lost my virginity to him and everything. However it's become more and more apparent he isn't "ready" or...

I should cut the cord, because it is better to have good memories than bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I had a very bad break up a year ago and then after six months. I met a man who is 20 years elder to me and he was interested in me and we soon shared a very understanding relationship. we were very clear that we did not want to make a seriou...

I've got a boyfriend but I have a HUGE crush on his cousin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Ohkay , so im dating this guy ( lets say his name is ... bob ) bob and I are really close and i really love him , we broke up and then got back together. ( , but when we got back together we werent as close )anyway so then me and his cousin started ...

Sexting made me feel sick, should I tell my new boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I feel really ashamed. I have never sex texted a guy or had phone sex. My ex of two months was more interested in that than seeing me as he worked shifts. We broke up 3 months ago because he wanted a no strings thing. I met a very sweet guy soon ...

I found out he has another girlfriend but he wont admit it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Me an my boyfriend have been toghter 16mnts an I recently found out he's been seeing another women.Although he still tries to hide her she makes herself well known around da neighborhood DAT they are toghter my problem is he will not admitt it an ...

Why do I think of him every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3854 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - i wrote a little while back about the affair i had. im still trying to put it behind me. i see that guy frequently out and about with his new gf. it hurts soo bad. its like it didnt even happen to him. i didnt get how little i meant to him until ...

How can I have a conversation with him about this without being arrested for a domestic dispute?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - After 25 years of marriage I have come to realize my husband is a liar...about big and small things. I do not trust him at all, and I find it difficult to believe anything he tells me, even if it's about the weather!! I want to confront him abo...

I am falling deeply for my older Boyfriend's cousin. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - I'm 19 and with a 34 year old man a year and half. Please don't comment on the age gap , I prefer older men. About 3 months ago I met his cousin who is 31 for the first time. He told me a lot about this guy how he cheated on his now wife when the...

My girlfriend has been texting a much younger man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - Here is a the concern two weeks ago I found out that girl I have been dating for five years and living with four and a half was texting a younger man. I found this out one night awhile she was sleeping with phone still in her hand. The text were ...

I am planning on having sex outside my marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - Hello. I have been trying to ask this question for a few times because i am facing a situation in which i am undecided. I will talk honestly. Well i am married since 10 years. I have always loved to appreciate beautiful women. I particularly ...

I don't feel loved and I think he is cheating again.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I have been married for 24 yrs I have two kids, one just graduated from college the other from high school. I caught my husband cheating on me in 2010. He admitted the affair and said he was so sorry and would never do such a terrible thing to me ...

I feel like I am his enterainment while his wife is waiting for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - hi. i am dating this guy. i am a foreign living in USA for 7 years. he just got here as a refugee. we met 3 months ago. his english is very little but somehow we can communicate, we liked each other so we became friends first. now we are kind of ...

I'm curious. How do I find out if she is too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I am a married woman, but this woman I work with is attractive we often joke about being lesbian. I would really love to experience another female. How can I know if she feels the same?...

My boyfriend keeps registering on dating sites and tells me it's just "for a laugh"

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - Could some one advise me what to do please? I have found my boyfriend to be registering on different date sites. This is the fourth time I found out about it now. He says its just for a laugh and unregisters from them, but then secretly registers on ...

My partner of 7 years left me. I am trying to give him space but I want to start again from the beginning.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - My partner has just broke up with me 11 days ago. We where together 7 years and have lived together for most of this. in the last 3/4 months we where planning on moving abroad to work for the summer. we gave up are house and moved in with his mum ...

He revealed he'd had an affair while married! Can I trust him now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - I am very much in love with the man I am with. He was married before and has been divorced for a while. He was married for more than twenty years and his ex wife left him in such a way that it almost destroyed him emotionally and financially (she ...

We had a great relationship, but there's his ex, the porn, the depression -- did I do something wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - I have never used a site like this before but I really need clear level headed advice on this, I feel so blocked up I cannot tell what I feel anymore.. I am going to try to make this very short.. basically in 2011 I got with my boyfriend, I tho...

Seeing a guy who has a g/f, and also seeing my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - Soo what do you think about this?.... theres no argument Im clearly crazy! Im a recovery addict who works has teenage children normal looking etc. But this is my problem.... Iv been seeing a guy who has a girlfriend + me he stays at my house 4 ...

He cheated and I can't move past it

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - It's been over 3 years since my partner cheated on me and I can't move on from it. It sounds silly but I can be having a good time with him and it will crop up in my mind It always comes back to that and I throw it in his face all the time. He did...

Is he playing games with my head and heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3870 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - HI all I am sorry if this is a bit long but I need to get this off my chest and hope to understand a bit better. I first started dating my partner a year ago next week. In the begining he told me he was with someone but has not seen her for...

Did I get played? Should I tell my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - i am a married 37 year old woman. my story is complicated. first of all i married my high school sweetheart 12 years after we graduated. we had two different life styles. he was a drug user. i only drank. he got off drugs with my help. we married ...

She got drunk and slept with someone -- do I forgive her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2321 days ago

21 May 2014 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months, never had an argument never fought and we were completely honest to each other for the whole time. We trusted each other very well we bond great and its like she is the perfect one for me and I ...

How do I move on and stay sane after finding out that he cheated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

20 May 2014 (F) - About two weeks ago I had an email from a guy saying that his girlfriend has been having sex with someone and he thinks it's with my fiance. I confronted my fiance about it and after a few minutes of him denying it he finally admitted it. He said ...

Should I tell my neighbour I had sex with his wife

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

20 May 2014 (M) - The other night I was having beers with a few mates, on my back deck .Being a single male there is always people at my house they come and go as they please pretty relax and social atmosphere My neighbour came over with a drink as her husband ...

We haven't kissed or cuddled for years

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

19 May 2014 (M) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for almost ten years. We are a gay couple, but things aren't all rosey I'm afraid. Our sex life has completely broken down for no apparent Reason. I've asked on regular occasions why, but he is older than me by...

My wife gave her phone number to a former lover and says I am over reacting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

19 May 2014 (M) - Through the wonders of Facebook my wife was contacted by one of her former lovers. I don't know why but she gave him her cell phone number and he started calling her. I discovered one of these voicemail messages when she asked me to check somethin...

We've drifted apart and I've met someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3877 days ago

18 May 2014 (M) - I have been with my current partner for several years now and we have two beautiful children together. We got together quite young and fell with the first after only 6months of being together . We haven't been unhappy but we have drifted apart over ...

My ex bf found nude pics that I sent to this one night stand guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - I was in a long term relationship (5yrs with him) we broke up, well technically I broke up with him cause I cheated on him. I never told him that I cheated on him and NEVER WILL, but we had other issues to split up. When I cheated on him I was out ...

I've become very uncomfortable with this "friendship"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

17 May 2014 (F) - So I have this guy friend... I don't even know whether to call him a friend because we don't really interact outside when we bump into each other at a mutual friend's house or something. One random night, about 1.5-2 years ago, we talked late into...

Should I walk away from these friendships or try to save them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - This is more of a friends question than relationship advice but I hope you can help. I introduced my married female friend to my single male friend on a casual night out before Christmas (along with other people I might add). Fast forward 2 weeks ...

I broke off the flirtation because we're both committed to others, but how do I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

15 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been on and off in friendship zone with a married guy for over 3 yrs now. He likes me and i like him too. We are very attracted to each other but we can't do anything about it. I haven't seen him for 2 years now coz he moved...

I cheated on my boyfriend, he won't forgive and forget...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about four years. Two years ago, I cheated on him. My boyfriend is much older than me, and as far as I can remember our age difference had nothing to do with me cheating on him. I also have borderline personality ...

Should I confront my sister over her affair with a married professor?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - My little sister (age 20) and I have always been so close and tell each other everything. She has always been very conservative and reserved. I've never had to worry about her because she has never given me a reason to. Well just recently, I notice...

I want to stay friends with 'the other woman' but she says she hates me

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

14 May 2014 (M) - I am a separated male who still is friendly with my wife, we have 2 beautiful teenage girls and we remain very close after 6 years of separation. We still share family vacations and days out as a family and even the bed 1 - 2 times a month. I live...

My Bf says that talking to this other girl is "different" and he's not going to stop talking to her. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years lived together for 6 and half years. For a long time now he has been ignoring me and i have felt pushed away and unloved. he has said he feels that i dont love him anymore and says i am pushing him away bec...

How do I distance myself from this woman who has a fiance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

12 May 2014 (M) - There's a woman I've known since we were 16 (we're 24 now) and I've always found her attractive, though we've never been close friends. Always just acquaintances. She was always in a relationship while I've always been highly focused on my care...

Best friend gossiping to ex behind my back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

11 May 2014 (F) - Hey Everyone, I broke down few weeks ago because I found out that my bestfriend of 10 years has been contacting with my ex. I didn't know how she got his number (maybe facebook) but she's been contacting and telling information about me behind ...

Indecisive and secretive on-off boyfriend issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

11 May 2014 (F) - I met this guy at uni and we've basically been dating on and off. We're currently not dating but we got really close and speak non-stop. However, we argued a lot and I even cut him off for a good month as when we do argue he's REALLY mean and ...

I told her I couldn't be with her anymore because she is married and she didn't take it well!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been dating a married woman who is in a same-sex marriage. We have only been dating for a month and a half and I have already fallen for her. We have done a lot of stuff together and she has never treated me as her mistress. ...

Is he seeing someone else where he lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - Ive been told by his mates that hes seeing somone else where he lives. Ive confronted him about it and all he says is no im not I was even told her name which I looked on fb and it says shes in a new relationship, he doesnt have a fb pg so I cant ...

Should I leave my boyfriend? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - Hello. I would so appreciate if someone could give me advice on my problem as I really don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, I am 22 he is 24, we have been going out since our teens. We didn't have the best relationshi...

I ruined my second chance.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - so cupid, Recently, my boyfriend and I broke up for the second time. things that happened: In the past, I have cheated, and I paid for my actions, I was devastated. so that led to this girl in my class who's in his class, and she's been feeding ...

How do we address issues that arose after we both cheated on our former partners, at the start of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3887 days ago

9 May 2014 (M) - My gf and I are having issues with our families accepting a mistake we made and I really could use some advice. We have been dating officially for about four months now. But eight months ago we met while we both were in relationships. I was marrie...

We were friends with benefits, ended it and now this happens.. advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

9 May 2014 (F) - Hi, So i had a friend with benefits, for two years. Before that we were friends and through the friend with benefits, we were really good friends, even on a holiday together and so on. Last summer, both of us had a relationship, but we sti...

Is he cheating, texting her, wanting her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

6 May 2014 (F) - I have been in a relationship for going on 6 months. After falling madly for each other I thought that we were doing great. He was attentive, we rarely had harsh words and he ended up moving into my apartment with me. Just last month I noticed that ...

My boyfriend has cut me out from his life, he seems to be having a great time and here I am with severe trust issues

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

4 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend (have been together for just two months) is on a business trip. We were chatting yesterday, and the conversation began as something like "hi! how are you?" and then we proceeded to talk about his new hotel room and his new job, which I ...

Don't want to seem like a nagging girlfriend. Is my reaction to his behaviour justified?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

2 May 2014 (F) - My question is brief.......... I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for some months now. I love him and he tells me that too but my problem is i always get jealous when he 'likes' girls pictures or speak with girls on facebook or when i c...

My sister is having an affair and I've about had it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

2 May 2014 (M) - I am 35 years old and I have three older sisters. The middle one is 45 years old and twice-divorced. She has been having an affair with a married man from her work for almost three years now. He says he has to stay with his wife for the kids but...