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writes:I was in a long term relationship (5yrs with him) we broke up, well technically I broke up with him cause I cheated on him. I never told him that I cheated on him and NEVER WILL, but we had other issues to split up. When I cheated on him I was out of state for a month I had a one night stand and thats it. However, when I came back home I started sexting this guy. Then sexting only lasted a while like maybe a month or so. So I was single I was not used to that and I did miss a lot my ex meanwhile. But the issues that set us apart were still there (besides me cheating on him). While doing this sexting stupidly I sent and receive nudes. mostly his penis or me showing my boobs, which was more stupid I sent some of those pictures to my email in a file with a random name. Time passed by, actually two years! and about a month ago my exbf and I got back together. We were doing great! I feel very happy. When I cheated on him I felt so bad, so guilty, and I realized doing that was the BIGGEST REGRET OF MY LIFE. The issue is that I checked my email on his laptop and forgot to sign out. So he went through it and FOUND THOSE PICTURES!!!Now I dont know what to do, I love my boyfriend with all my heart and Im really happy with him. He said he forgives me for what I did but I really want to show him that he's the only one I care about. I want him to trust me again! :(PLEASE HELP How can I show to him that I really regret about doing that I felt so ashamed for sending those pictures.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2014): Please help?!? Well, I think the best thing you could do would be to actually BE HONEST!! "I never told him that I cheated on him and NEVER WILL..." Your relationship is doomed if you continue to lie to him by omission. The proper thing to do is to leave him before you hurt him anymore, and then go out and be the lying whore you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2014): Why send nude pix to a guy? Even if you are married to him, a jealous other woman may find it on his phone and post it online.
Go and beg your bf well.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 May 2014):
 Delete the pictures, own your actions. And TALK to your bf.
ASK him what he NEEDS from you to truly forgive you and then follow through.
I think you are being a little fake about it though, if you CHEATED on him and it's ONLY the pictures you regret, then you DO NOT really feel bad for you BF, JUST that YOU got caught.
At least that is how you post reads to me.
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