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*yriclove
writes:i wrote a little while back about the affair i had. im still trying to put it behind me. i see that guy frequently out and about with his new gf. it hurts soo bad. its like it didnt even happen to him. i didnt get how little i meant to him until 2day as he kissed her in a store that i was shopping in.my point is that why does part of me wish my husband would? its crazy i know. also why do i think of him( the other guy) everyday?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (13 June 2014):
 Tackle the problems in your marriage now. Try to remember what it was like when things were going good. You lived out a fantasy for some excitement in your life with the affair. He has finished with you so accept that otherwise he would still be trying to take you away from your husband. He would have been able to tell that you still have feelings for your husband and would never leave him. Put it in the past and pick yourself up. Re assess your life now and turn it in to something good.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (29 May 2014):
 Why do you think if him still? Because he was your little fantasy escape from your daily routine.
The fact that you are slowly realizing that you meant little to him is good thing (even if it hurts). But really, you should put some of that passion and desire into your husband and marriage.
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