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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

My daughter wont let him in the house, and my parents say to leave him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - I'm 43 been in a relationship over a year and a half I love him but he cheated on me with his ex, we got back together and I fell pregnant all my family are telling me to have an abortion and get rid of him I love him it's over between him and his ...

I want my ex take an HIV and STD before rekindling our relationship. What if he refuses to do so?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid,I haven't been with my ex for over ten years we are talking long distance now and have hopes of rekindling our relationship, but I am in fear of having sex with him . I want him to take an HIV and STD test before I give myself to him agai...

Should I give up on Prince Charming? Says he won't marry me unless I agree to become a swinger with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I am a very attractive, tall, successful, and fun-loving 25-year-old young woman. I am deeply and truly in love with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our sex is amazing, and the adventures we have together are truly unreal. ...

Why do people cheat instead of just ending their relationship first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3605 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - This isn't happening to me (I hope) currently and I hope it doesn't, because I truly love my BF and would be absolutely devastated. However, I was cheated on in the past and it has made fearful it could happen again although I try to trust my BF as ...

I verbally abuse my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3604 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I verbally abuse my boyfriend and I am aware that it is wrong. However, I do it so he can pay attention to me. This time I did it while visiting his job. He ask me for a hug and I told him that I did not want to hug him. Then, I proceeded to tell ...

Why would he delete messages if they are innocent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together around 7-8 months before me there was a girl at work he was friends with or so he says he was friends with they talked on Facebook and he'd give her lifts home she then started to tell people he'd tried it ...

I want to stay calm and be rational but something doesn't add up. Are the texts really innocent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is a friendly guy but he takes it too far with women he doesn't know well. When we were going through a bad patch he struck up a friendship with his new single neighbour and she then came on to him despite knowing about me and this ...

I'm an unmarried man in cyber love with a married woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

24 December 2014 (M) - I am 27 years of age, single, never being in relationship, athletic build and sexually active( I masturbate 2-4 times daily) . I talk to a lady from a different country who is mother and hates her family. I am really love with this woman and she ...

Would you be jealous of this cheat's wife if you were me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3611 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I'm writing to this site because i'm feeling pretty conflicted. I used to have a physical relationship with someone who was very wrong for me and it destroyed any self esteem i used to have. Most of the time i was miserable when it was going on. ...

My boyfriend is emotionally unavailable so I cheated. Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I have been with my bf together for 1.5 years and for the past 6 months, we have been arguing a lot (a weekly basis, and it always ends up with me crying). Things we argue about: him flirting with other girls excessively, him texting other girls ...

What's up with his behaviour? He has a Gf. Would it be weird to hang out with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I saw a guy friend today that has a GF, he admitted he liked me and that he didn't want to hurt me or his GF by cheating but still bothers me to hang out with him. Its like he is obsessed. We used to hang out alot but I stopped since his GF is home ...

She's been flirting with another girl. What are my options? I don't think I can cope with her actions and threats.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3590 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I honestly don't know what to do. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and we've lived together for the last year. I pay all the bills as she works part time and i work full time and everything has been going great. Last month she...

This will be my last attempt to save our marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3611 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - After dealing with this for months/years now, here are the facts: I married a guy I know now I dont love anymore but still care and trust very deeply. I still can't forget about this other guy that I met and has made me happy, positive and felt love ...

My wife of ten years says abusive things and then expects me to apologise. How should I respond to her accusations and her insults?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

22 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm really concerned. Ours has not been the best of marriages. We're 10 years in, we have two beautiful daughters. I'm the stay at home parent and I've thrown myself at the role. We've moved 3 times and I've made new friends/ a new world ea...

How do I get over being wrongly accused of cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - Greetings fellow souls, Recently, I was broken up with by my boyfriend of around 9 months because he thought I cheated on him. The only problem is that I didn't, nothing. No flirting with intention, kissing, touching, etc. nothing. Just so...

I want to feel as strongly about my boyfriend as I do about this other man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3611 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I'm in a predicament that I've brought on myself. I have a partner of 12 years. He is good to me, I love him, but not in the way that I feel I should. There was never the initial attraction. I was in a bad place at the time and he was there. Our r...

I can't shake the guilt that I kissed someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

21 December 2014 (M) - Hi there. In July I met this girl and started seeing her for a month. At the start of September I asked her to be my girlfriend and through most of that month we had a pretty intense relationship. However, at the end of that month I went to ...

I love her and we've been doing sexual things together. Despite all this she says she doesn't love me sexually. So what am I, to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I've been best friends with a girl for 5 months. She's my daughters uncle's wife. We have been come really close, and doing sexual things with each other. It's happened 3 times now. I'm confused in what to do. I love her to bits, but she sa...

Torn between what I want and what I need to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3614 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and its time to get to the next step which is the intimacy part. I am still a virgin which adds extra pressure. Ive saw him look at another girl and i feel if i dont give him what he wants sexually he will ...

Flirting leading to some kissing at Christmas work function. Will my reputation be tarnished? How do I handle any reactions at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Hello everyone. Ive been at my current office job for about 3 months now and we've just had our annual Christmas work do. I'm 22 and I have had a bit of a crush on one of my coworkers for a while. He is 45 and married. I'm also in a long term r...

Is my mother cheating on my father?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - I have known for a while that my mother talks regularly to another man, other than my father, and although I don't like it I've found that it's only ever been friendly. However, I recently found out that my mother has been talking to this same man ...

He kicked me out because I cheated. Will he take me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - I have been with my my boyfriend for a little over two years. This week I had went behind his back and hung out with my ex, my ex would call me beautiful and do little gestures like put his hand on my leg while driving grab my butt randomly and open ...

I'm a cheater trapped in a sexless marriage and my wife has cancer. I'm at a breaking point here...help me please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

18 December 2014 (M) - My wife and I have had a sexless marriage since shortly after marriage in 2003. This made me feel alone and unwanted so I started cheating to fill this void. Everything else in our relationship was fine and we had two children within a few years. ...

I think my boyfriend is engaged to another girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - Hi. I'm so down atm.. I've always suspected my bf was seeing someone else when he moved away to work. Saw him texting a girl Xmas day last year,he denied it. Saw her add in a realationship after doing a few searched on fb, he later got rid of fb ...

Am I being too judgemental, can people change and grow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for 6 weeks. He is very loving, contacts me everyday and says he thinks I'm the one. We had a talk about his past and it turned out his previous relationship 18 months ago was with an engaged woman. She was a co worker ...

FWB advice needed. Is she wanting more but isn't being clear, or am I being used and should I should end it now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, So I've got a question regarding my "fwb". I can't tell what she wants and wondering if I should end it before I develop deeper feelings for her. First background so you can get an idea of where I'm coming from: We call it a...

My boyfriend is a gamer and I don't know how to deal with his hours, suggestions would be helpful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

16 December 2014 (F) - I have a bit of a problem.. My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost two years now. I'm 25 and he's 24. Our relationship started out as long-distance for eight months until he moved away from his small home town, family, friends, and a j...

Unhappily married and strongly attracted to another woman

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3602 days ago

15 December 2014 (M) - Hi last week I went out for a Christmas meal and drinks with colleagues and it ended up with just me and a girl. We both work remotely from the office and see each other on the odd occasion but live near each other. Anyway we ended up have a couple...

My husband had the following conversation with the woman he slept with behind my back. Please tell me what you think of it

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - I'm writing this post because i found something which has concerned me a bit. I have been married for a little over a year and things have been going fine, at least, i thought so. Before we got married my husband slept with another woman be...

Feel really bad about this. I've cheated by kissing another girl. Said I would never cheat. So why did I kiss this other girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3621 days ago

14 December 2014 (M) - Hello everyone, as I'm writing this, I'm very shocked and I think you will be shocked also, as I can't believe this has just happened nor can I believe I'm typing this. Im in a relationship it's not been the best relationship through out, when I ...

I can't believe I cheated

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

14 December 2014 (M) - Hi everyone, What I am about to say right now will shock you, it's shocked me much more as I can not believe this has happened, and I am willing to take all the grief I could potentially get from you guys on here but please I beg you to und...

I've heard rumours heis cheating, and now I have found condoms.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

13 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend n i have been togather for 7 years. Throughout the yrs iv herd rumors, but thats all. Two different times we went to have sex he couldnt get hard. Then a week later i found a condom unused in his stuff in our bedroom and we dont use...

Does one bj make your husband gay?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

12 December 2014 (F) - My husband used my laptop and forgot to close the sight he was on, when I got home I turned on the computer to check on a recipe and there it was: My husband was making a date with a woman ( he gave her his cell phone #), I was furious. He said that ...

Do I continue indulging in what used to be an affair or just end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

11 December 2014 (F) - Okay so please don’t judge.. the question is somewhat selfish and I get it. I was in a 9 yrs LTR and recently broke it off. I was engaged to my ex and It was one of the hardest decisions I had to make. I am still struggling to get on the right path ...

Is he just playing me? Could he really like me? Or has he met someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - I met a man on an online dating site. We exchanged long emails for about a month before meeting, out of circumstance. When we met things got pretty intense quickly. He obviously liked me a lot (I liked him too) and he started sending a lot of text ...

He is trying so hard but my trust is gone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm in a horrible situation and I would like some advice please. Me and my boyfriend of 5 years had a horrible year last year, I went through a stage where I didn't think the relationship was for me and broke his heart and walke...

Would every man cheat if he could?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

9 December 2014 (F) - I have big problems trusting men One of my friends claims that almost every man would cheat on his wife if given the opportunity to with a woman with a porn star body if he could be guaranteed not to be caught The sad thing is I think she might ...

I should leave him over his emotional affair, but it's complicated

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3627 days ago

8 December 2014 (F) - Last month I found out that my partner of twenty years was having an emotional affair. With a work colleague, twenty-four years younger. Which first began in January. She has worked at his firm for nine years and originally lived with a younger ...

I am always scared that my boyfriend will fall in love with someone else, cheat on me, or break up with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

7 December 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm a very anxious person when it comes to relationships and I still haven't found a way to fix it. When I'm in a relationship, I get very worried about my boyfriend crushing on other girls or cheating or just breaking up with me. I think it...

Am I reading too much into a pic I found of my guy with a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

5 December 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and we spend as much time as possible together, we get along, have fun, cook together, chat and always kiss and cuddle, it's great. However, a few months ago I found him on various sexual websites, dating...

Boyfriend will be gone for 2 months, should I worry about him cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

4 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend has family that lives in California,and he`s planning to go to Cali for about 2 months to stay with his fam,to attempt to get a record deal (he does Hip Hop), while I stay here in NC with our daughter until he comes back. Should I worry ...

She says I make her feel like no one ever has, but she has a boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

4 December 2014 (M) - Alright so i'm going to do my best to make this as concise as possible. I met this girl from another country on the other side of the world via the internet. She is a very social person and is almost always out and about but she is also insecure and ...

I caught my girlfriend wearing sexy bra & panties...cheating right?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

3 December 2014 (M) - My girlfriend of two years came home from work and was undressing out of her work uniform when I walked into our bedroom and saw that she was secretly wearing sexy lace bra and panties under her work outfit. I never saw or got her the sexy panties ...

Boyfriend got another girl pregnant and I don't know what to do

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

3 December 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and the relationship had its ups and downs.last month I found out that he impregnated another girl and I don't have a child with him because I was using the contraceptive I was not ready to give him a ...

Is it ok to change my mind about staying with my boyfriend who cheated on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

3 December 2014 (F) - I can't get over the fact my boyfriend cheated on me , pure and simple. But I'm so worried about how people will view me leaving him when I took him back only a few months ago. So basically, my boyfriend slept with some random girl over the su...

I had an affair, he broke it off and now has sent me an email. Do I reply to it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

3 December 2014 (F) - I am married with 2 children. Last August, my relationship with my husband was not great at all and I met someone who totally swept me off my feet. I wasn't looking for the opportunity, it just happened. I wasn't proud of myself and, in hindsight, I ...

My wife and I have survived so much and made it through hard times, why now am I so upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

3 December 2014 (M) - My wife had serious problems in her family several years ago, including a father who was terminally ill. It took years for him to die and it was a long downward spiral as his brain atrophied. He eventually passed away right around the time I lost my ...

We separated and I've been hearing about other men she's slept with. Do I move on? Come to terms with her actions? Or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

2 December 2014 (M) - Hello ive been with my girl for two years and at first everything was great. Then we both started having money problems and she got fired. Then i got injured at work. Then i started hearing rumors of other men who she slept with at one time. She w...