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writes:I saw a guy friend today that has a GF, he admitted he liked me and that he didn't want to hurt me or his GF by cheating but still bothers me to hang out with him. Its like he is obsessed. We used to hang out alot but I stopped since his GF is home for Christmas. Do you think its weird to just hang out with him? Also he was walking in front of his GF yesterday and he saw me on the other side and the whole time he was showing me his tongue.. What does that mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone. I havent talked to him for 5 days so far .. I just hope am strong enough to lose all contact
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (26 December 2014):
 You ask: "Do you think its weird to just hang out with him?"
I answer: No. It wouldn't be weird; it would be stupid.
Why waste your time (AND provide fodder for the "relationship" that he does have to be compromised.)
You can find a better use of your time and attentions...
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2014): Come on have some sense, he is a cheating scumbag. Even if his gf ends it, or he ends it, I wouldn't be interested as he obviously has no shame in trying to "hang out" with you whilst still attached.
It's clear there is a whole lot more than hanging out he would like. Just wake up and see the situation and know you are worth more than being someone's bit on the side.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (24 December 2014):
 I'd back off and cut the contact, this can't end good (specially not for you). Because GUESS WHAT? If you hang out with him and things happen.... and the GF finds out, HE will find a way to make this ALL your fault. And because she LOVES him, she will believe it. And GUESS WHAT? He will regret knocking boots with you and toss you aside, you will feel like piece of trash.
So in short, let this guy go, HE is NOT a friend anymore if he has feelings for you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 December 2014):
 you are playing with fire. he wants to be free to be with you but he wants to pretend he's not cheating emotionally on his GF
wait till his GF breaks up with him when she finds out he's emotionally cheating on her...
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reader, SeaGreen  +, writes (24 December 2014):
 To hang out with him at this point would be disrespectful to his girlfriend.
He's crossing the line and you don't deserve to be treated like that. Your not something on the side and for him to try to treat you like that deserves a good slap.
Walk away from it all. I pity his girlfriend. ..how horrible to have a boyfriend behave in this manner.
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (24 December 2014):
Dear OP,
Yes, I think it would be totally weird to just hang out with him. Because I can tell you that men don't just "hang out" with girls that they like. Never ever happens.
He acts like he doesn't want to hurt anyone - to sound noble - but if you give him the chance, he's going to make a move on you, maybe cheat with you, then go back to his girlfriend.
He's childish and immature. Or else he wouldn't have shown you his tongue while walking with his gf.
Trust me on this one. Have a better christmas and new years evenings' time than to put up with the drama that he creates around his dick.
Give him a decisive "no". If he continues to bother you, stop answering his messages. Don't smile at him. Be serious until he gets it.
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