Boyfriend got another girl pregnant and I don't know what to do

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and the relationship had its ups and downs.last month I found out that he impregnated another girl and I don't have a child with him because I was using the contraceptive I was not ready to give him a child. I'm so confused I don't know what to do, because all he is saying is that he wants to be with me and at the sometime he does not want to prove that he is nolonger with that girl.now he expects me to forgive him as if nothing happened and everytime I'm with him I become harsh and I believe that he must not be angry with me because he is the one who made me to be like this.the most painful thing was that the girl once did please calls at night while I was with him, when I told him to call he told me that he won't call the number he does not know,and after few days I found the cellphone in his car and it belonged to that girl when I asked about it he beat me, please advise I don't know what to do.

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