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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello ive been with my girl for two years and at first everything was great.Then we both started having money problems and she got fired. Then i got injured at work.Then i started hearing rumors of other men who she slept with at one time. She wanted me to go with her to her photographer to take pictures.Then I found out she slept with him and lied to me several times, tying to cover it up.I didn't even pressure her because i knew the truth already. Then we separated; because we lived together and she had her ex over there with other people....the moral of me telling you this is what do you think i should do? please help a young man out
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reader, CMMP +, writes (3 December 2014):
If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen. You're a little vague about when she was with these guys, but either way it seems as if you're not right for each other.
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reader, lifesgreat  +, writes (2 December 2014):
does not sound worth the grief mate!
you will just cause more hassle for your self!
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (2 December 2014):
 I think you should move on. Her lifestyle is chaotic and her exploits expose you to unnecessary risk.
I say cut your losses.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2014): You don't explain if she slept with these guys before she was with you, or while she was with you. Sometimes the title doesn't convey exactly what the OP says in their posts.
If she was unfaithful while she was still with you, you should dump her and move on.
If there was a time you were separated, and she slept with other men; if you're uncomfortable knowing she slept with other guys and you can't deal with it, dump her and move on.
It seems that everything is collapsing around your relationship anyway. Money problems, she's out of work, and you've caught her in lies. Let her go, get your life back in order.
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