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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I feel like he just wants to go around and sleep around and then I'm just stuck here waiting for him to be done. How do I move on with my life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - So me and my boyfriend recently broke up. Maybe about 1 week ago. Our relationship has been very difficult, we dated for a little over a year. (14 months) our biggest issue was trust. I have caught him texting other girls throughout the ...

Should I be selfish for once or be the good girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Hi, I have this problem... I have this friend I've known for two years now and we always kind of liked each other. He's much older than I am and is in a relationship. Because we were such good friends, I know his girlfriend really well now too. Bu...

I'm fine with being polygamous but he just likes to cheat!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Hey everyone. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and we got engaged in November. We started off very casually because we don't live in the same city - I happened to be visiting his town on a business trip, I met him, we hooked ...

I haven't told my boyfriend I'm pregnant yet, and now I'm back to checking his phone for texts! I need your help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Is it ever possible to truly move on from finding out your other half has cheated on you? The reason I ask is because for the past ten months, since getting back with my boyfriend since finding out he had cheated on with a mutual friend, I have tho...

Is it wrong to have an intimate relationship with someone who's still married, and connected through family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I am a little confused about family relations. Recently I have been confronted by my aunt's brother in-law whom confessed feelings for me. I too have had feelings for him. My aunt is still married to his brother. However, it has been said they wil...

My boyfriend wants me to leave my husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3859 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - First and foremost, please do not judge me. We've all gotten into weird situations and not always made the best choices. I'm currently married, 14 years, living with my husband and 2 children. For the past 4 years or so I've been seeing another man ...

How do I handle this? My long term Bf cannot look me in the eye. He is also sleeping a lot. What could be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - I need some people to talk to please.. Ok now today my boyfriend wouldn't look at me all day. We been together half our life's i know something is wrong. But finding out what it is will be hard. He just keeps saying everything is fine nothing is w...

Why is my boyfriend secretly meeting up with my ex friend, when we agreed not to see her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - I've got (had) a good friend who made it clear she liked my boyfriend. She instantly liked him but whenever we had an argument she would always side with him and text him make sure he was OK and I wouldn't hear from her for ages! One time she w...

I hooked up with my ex, but we're both seeing other people. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - I'll try to make this as short as it can be! I broke up with my ex a few months ago. The break-up was sudden, but I was at a point in my life where I felt I was being tied down: he wanted to settle and I didn't, I also felt that I needed to be sin...

He says he is unhappy and doesn't want to be with me either.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and let me just say this has been the hardest relationship I have ever been in! We've had some rough patches in our relationship we both suck at relationships! There's some months when we fight non ...

Dating just 3 weeks, I'm discovering more and more things about him that don't match what I'm looking for. Am I right to ask?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3839 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I've been dating a guy whomImet online for about 3 weeks now and I'm finding that as we're getting to know each other, I'm discovering more and more things about him that don't match what I'm looking for. I'm a fairly private, reserved woman a...

If I break up, I'll hurt! If I stay, I'll lack trust! What do I choose?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3859 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. Four months into our relationship I found out that he cheated on me with F. I confronted him, we fought, he begged for forgiveness and I stayed with him. A year later I found out that he cheated me on ...

Tries to make me jealous. Phones, flirts. Then treats me like I don't exist? What's he up to?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - So. Again with that guy that I went to homecoming with. Everything has been like really shaky and I don’t know because he is seriously so confusing. He got a girlfriend, they had dated for 3 months and during those 3 months we did not talk at ...

Have you ever found hard physical evidence of an affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3853 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - My husband had to go to a branch office to concur with people, because the branch office was closing down. It was a day trip. When he got home from work at his normal time he changed into a t-shirt, I noticed 3 long scratches on his left bicep. ...

I imagined having a boyfriend would be a nice experience, but I find myself alone, fighting to be by the side of a person who is thinking about someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Today is my boyfriend's birthday, we've been together for one month and a half (we were friends before becoming a couple). I baked a cake, bought candles, made a card, bought tons of presents, I just want to make him happy. First thing he ...

My husband is having an affair. Am I stupid for staying with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - I discovered when I was 8 months pregnant that my husband of 10 years was cheating on me. I confronted him and his lover in a text message and was assured by both that it would not continue. I had several times where I caught him texting her but her ...

I feel like I can't compete with the girl that my B/f kissed and it's torn my self esteem apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3837 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - My boyfriend kissed another girl on a night out a few months ago. We were having problems at the time. I was suspicious and checked his phone and then I text the girl and asked her (very nicely) what happened and if she wouldn't mind not getting in ...

Does my colleague have bad intentions? He's definitely a bad boy and my engagement nearly ended because of him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - I'm engaged. I became friends with a fellow colleague. He's definitely a bad boy and I've been trying my hardest to stop all connection with him. At first it was harmless I thought and we would just spend short breaks together because we have a lot ...

Suspect she's cheating but she just gets mad if I ask. Is it time to bail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

23 April 2014 (M) - I have been married for almost 25 years. I can't honestly say I ever really loved my wife, i believe at the time I married her, being young, it was more for financial security than anything. In the early years things were okay, we had 2 sons, had ...

I found out my married lover is not planning on getting divorced after all! Who should I confront, him or his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - I fell for my coworker who told me that his wife had left him, only to find out from another colleague that they are actually planning buying a new house together! I feel so stupid and sick to the stomach, but I can't bring myself to say anything...

I hate the fact that I am with someone that carried on an affair with a married man in the past, and I actually know this guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3745 days ago

23 April 2014 (M) - Recently I found out that my girlfriend has (in the past) dated and slept with a married man. I happen to know him too. We're not close, but we've hung out before. I had no idea they had that type of situation in the past, and even though it is in ...

Four children, a husband who lost my trust, why am I never in the mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

22 April 2014 (?) - Hello Everyone, I have been with my husband for 8 years. I have four kids and my youngest is ours together. She is six now. In the last year my husband has done some shady things to me to lose my trust. Not physicslly cheating but other things. ...

My cheating ex husband is moving on and I am stuck in poverty with the kids!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hi there guys, i really need help. I filed separation from my ex on account of cheating and abusive behaviour about 18 months ago. 2 children remain with me. When they went for a visit to their dad I have come to understand that he's sharing the ...

Is what I'm doing such a bad thing?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - I am in a long term relationship but I still speak to an ex without my partners knowledge. Is this really that wrong? I know having my cake and eating it will probably spring to mind but it's really not like that. My boyfriend is a great guy an...

My life has been shattered. Where do I go from here?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

21 April 2014 (M) - Where I begin I have no idea? Some of you my find this unbelievable, but I assure you what I am about to tell you is true. Before 2008 my life was really good. I had a great job. Had at the time what I thought was an amazing woman. I had just...

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Hello all, Apologies for the length of this question, but I'm trying to figure out what to do about a tricky situation. 3 years ago I fell in love with an old friend, and we started a long-distance relationship. I was 18 at the time, but was su...

I think he is cheating and that makes me not want to see him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Hi. I need some honest opinions on this. My boyfriend and I are now in a long distant relationship due to work. Normally we would see each other every other weekend but it so happened that we haven't seen each other for almost two weeks this time. ...

He doesn't know I have access to his emails ....

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Dear All, I have had a volatile 2 year relationship with my bf for around 3 years. In the last few months I have felt stronger and been going out again with friends, standing up to him and generally getting over it. He has responded by bei...

I can't stop thinking about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - I'm worried about this. My boyfriend and I have had some problems lately. We sorted things out recently, but this is worrying me. I looked on his facebook page today ( he asked me to log in to it, as he wanted to check it on my phone ). I saw some ...

I'm still missing my ex! I've sent him away again but I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - Hi guys I'm in bit of a pickle right now .. I was in a relationship with a guy for about 2 years and we had a pretty bad break up. He told me many things, I told him many things, he was hurt, I was hurt and we just stopped talking. However, I got in...

Am I stupid for wanting my cheating boyfriend back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

19 April 2014 (F) - Okay so, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months and today I figured out he cheated on me...We have been arguing a lot lately and I heard through a friend that he was cheating and I addressed him about it and told him to be 100% ...

He was chatting with other women while I was helping my dying mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - I think I might had been on denial.So many years of marriage and I thought was a good marraige. Problems,yes,some,but I thought we loved each other.I felt that he loved me, he cared for me,but I was kind of doing my best to keep the marriage hap...

Should I go back to my husband with a new set of rules?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - After 5 years of relationship and 10 years of marriage,which both work and I was happy with a lot of things,but in the middle of the marriage things started to happening. At the beginning of our marriage he would play a game like loosing his wall...

He has found himself a "girlfriend"!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - One of my best guy friends has been ignoring the usual gang since he found himself a "girlfriend". Lets call her J. They are not officially together because she has a boyfriend who is studying overseas but she is cheating on him (physically and ...

I just feel hopeless

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - Ive been involved with this guy (b) who is 16 yrs older than i am, our relationship began my i cheated on my ex (A) with him, but my ex (A) was cheating and treating me badly before i met this guy and i use to complain and tell him what was ...

A new facebook friend has me wondering if he's cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

14 April 2014 (F) - My boyfriend went out of the country for work for a month. He works with mostly older men and his work is made of consistently of men. He had one weekend off from work and decided to go to a festival Saturday night thats held in one of the cities. ...

Should I confess about the kiss while we were on a break?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

13 April 2014 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 4 years, but last summer I got in a fight with my girlfriend and we broke up for a day, and on that day I kissed one of her friends. I feel really bad about it, especially since our relationship is going so well ...

If he feels he can't be with me, then why did he tell me he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3834 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - Hello. Feelings just happen, and have for me been like this for quite some time. I have a crush for a man but he is married. I kept my feelings to myself. I guess he also feels the same. We have always been professional. Recently while he ...

I'm completely confused as to where I actually stand now, and I don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend (ex boyfriend, i dont know what to call him) have been together for a year and two months, well we had. We were friends for four years before getting together. Through our relationship when it first began, it came out that he had ...

I've caught LDR boyfriend lying. Should I just end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 6 months and the entire relationship has been long distance. I met him through friends last year while on vacation in his state and we talked for months online before I flew there to spend a week with him. For the m...

I found two long blonde hairs in my room and am worried my husband is cheatig again!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

10 April 2014 (F) - Found 2 hairs that aren't mine. My husband of 5 yrs used to cheat on me via Internet and once I found out he apologised and continued it for 2 long years and perfectly made lies although I found them all out. The other day I found 2 blonde long hair ...

My friend cheats on her boyfriend, and I think he has a right to know

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

10 April 2014 (F) - My dilemma actually has to do with my best friend and her boyfriend. He supports her financially, pays all the bills, and even takes care of her newborn whom ended up not being his. He forgaveher once for cheating. Well, here recently sshe's had sex ...

Are cheaters always cheaters?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - My ex constantly cheated when we were dating. I was even the one he cheated on his ex with. I forgave him everytime because I loved him and thought he loved me to death according to the commitment he gave and he would beg his parents and friends to ...

Can I trust her to cut all ties to this facebook friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

9 April 2014 (M) - I recently found my wife chatting with a man with whom she made friendship on Facebook. They have been talking on phone for past six months. She claims they never met each other and they were chatting as just friends. I am deeply hurt because s...

I am a gay female and feeling very confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - I am a gay female and feeling very confused. I was in a relationship with my ex for 5 years she was my first love but for the last two years of the relationship I was very unhappy and could not see a future . I hate to admit it but I cheated with ...

First love, reunited 30 years later, he's married!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - Where do I start? Guess at the beginning ... 30+ years ago, I fell in love with a boy that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. He was my first love, physically and emotionally. His family moved away and our relationship, due to ...

I am in love with his brother, help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

7 April 2014 (F) - I am 20 years old and have been in a relationship with this guy for nearly 4 /2 years, I dont know if I feel the same about him like I used to, sex doesn't work anymore and I feel as though the spark has gone. However a few months back I got drunk ...

I was planning a future with this man and then found out he cheated on his ex wife!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

7 April 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now. He was married previously but his wife passed away. He told me once he had a threesome when he was younger but I never really thought anything about it. But on the weekend something came up about ...

I love my boyfriend but want to have sex with a married man

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3879 days ago

6 April 2014 (F) - I am 26 years old I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, he is 20 years older than me. We bought a house together last year, I love him more than anything but the spark in our sex life has dissapeared. I want to have sex with someone else, there ...

Relationship went from bad to worse after I moved in with my boyfriend, but I don't dare leave him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

6 April 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half years and two and a half months ago, I moved into his one bedroom flat with him. Our relationship has been far from perfect but since I moved in with him, its gone from bad to worse. I agreed to mo...