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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi. I need some honest opinions on this. My boyfriend and I are now in a long distant relationship due to work. Normally we would see each other every other weekend but it so happened that we haven't seen each other for almost two weeks this time. However, he came to visit me and spent the week end. On the first night of his arrival I was super happy to see him, then we had sex and I noticed that his discharge was very thin and a small amount came out. I think he is cheating on me and now I am really confused because I don't want to see him or talk to him. Am I being paranoid or is he really cheating on me? He even hide his cell from me, thinking that I might read his messages. Please advice.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 April 2014):
I have to agree with Tisha - the amount of sperm (and constancy) is NOT an indication of being unfaithful. Could be.. he has been wanking (masturbating) a LOT more because you two haven't been together in 2 weeks.
Hiding his phone CAN be a little suspect, but why not ask him why he is hiding it?
Personally, I find it rude to stand over someone while they are texting or talking on the phone. It's a private conversation.
Anything else that makes you think he could be cheating?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2014): If you suspect, even slightly that he's cheating, then for crying out loud do not have unprotected sex with him.
Sexually transmitted infections are very real.
You're better off saying to him, 'I don't trust you now that you feel the need to hide your phone from me. So to protect myself, we need to use protection from now on.'
But obviously if you don't trust your partner then you shouldn't be with him. If you do stay with him, tell him you both need to get tested for your peace of mind. And then work on building that trust.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (21 April 2014):
I don't think the quantity and quality of his semen is a good indicator about whether or not he's cheating. That depends on things like his overall health, masturbation habits, night emissions during his sleep, his hydration levels, etc.
I think hiding his phone from you is a better indicator.
I guess it's time for a talk. Don't make an issue about the semen, that's just going to make you sound weird. Instead, ask him why he feels the need to hide his phone from you now.
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