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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Cheating casual relationship goes wrong.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - OK I'm not innocent and I know this, but I have been seeing a guy off and on for about 3 years who has a girlfriend. At first he didn't tell me about her and I soon found out and ended the casual relationship. Last year he got back in contact with ...

What can a pregnant women do to keep her husband to pay more attention on her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I am pregnant for twelve weeks now, my husband is chatting on the internet with a married women who have a baby already. They talk about everything which makes me really jealous. No matter is day or night, my husband will wait for this women on ...

Was my girlfriend cheating with another guy over Skype?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

29 June 2013 (M) - I've been skeptical of my girlfriend's fidelity to me for a while and have reason to suspect that she may be deceiving me and cheating. Recently, I returned home to visit family and I decided to Skype with her to see how she was doing. When we c...

I'm tempted to have an affair with my hot co-worker to get back at my husband for the pain he put me through 3 years ago

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4160 days ago

28 June 2013 (?) - I am currently married for 3 yrs now. However, my husband and i had many issues in the beginning of our relationship when we were dating. he didnt tell me that he was still emailing his exgirlfriend because he told me she wanted to end her life so ...

Why is this man making me mental? After my miscarriage, now his new girlfriend, I feel awful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I had been starting to feel so much better about this, but today was hit with a ton of bricks and I'm not even sure why it bothers me. I started "seeing" a guy I had met on vacation to a new school I was going to the next year. "Seeing" is in q...

Am I the bad guy for making my girlfriend breakdown?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - For more info on this, please read (or skim) this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-believe-my-girlfriend-is-lying-about-an.html. This problem of mine goes back almost a year. I haven't been able to shake this feeling of mine that the...

Should I ask my guy if he ate alone or with a "friend"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts I need advice, I have been lied to by my BF over a year ago never sure if he cheated but was definetly keeping company with a friend, a girl that he has known a while. Well all was worked out and things have been great, lately very grea...

I'm getting the same feeling in the pit of my stomach as I had when I last caught him messaging a female co-worker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I haven’t been on here for a while but I have come to a point in my relationship where I need advice please. My boyfriend and I have been going out for over 5 years now and we have lived together for 4. Our relationship has had its problems som...

He makes me out to be the bad guy but he's the one who cheated and lied!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I'm feeling manipulated and would appreciate an outside perspective on this Seeing this guy for over a year. We were for sure monogamous at one point (9 mos) but he would never fully commit to me as his girlfriend :( He went out of town for t...

Is it common for men in committed relationships to engage in behaviors like this with another woman? Why is he doing this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I'm a single female and a few months ago, had a chance to get to know a male colleague of mine who's located in a city 4 hours away. We hit it off immediately and very quickly became friends though common interests. After our first meet, we have not ...

Married man dumped me and I am feeling so used and stupid!!

This question has 63 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I had a fling with a married man. I posted here not long ago but I think my question reached a max with 27 answers because I tried to post a follow up and the site would not allow me. This is my follow up. You can say I TOLD YOU SO and I had it ...

I'm cheating and should leave my marriage but I can't! I'm selfish!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I should leave my marriage but I can't! Husband very fond of me and I do my best but its gone for me and I don't want to cause pain to my grown up child. We get on but NO lust any more.I have a lover of 8 yrs and needless to say I love him tho he's ...

I went through a bad break up. When will I be me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - I just need some words of wisdom I guess... I'm a bit embarrassed that I need to come online and ask people who don't know me, but just because I'm pretty sure my friends are sick listening to me. Maybe I just need to vent? I don't know.. I always ...

After the lying and the cheating on some level, should I cancel the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

24 June 2013 (?) - Am I reacting unreasonably in struggling to trust my partner? I became engaged to a man I had been dating for 6 months just over a year ago. In all honesty he is the type of man I have avoided all my life. In my eyes he is a womaniser and op...

How long will it take me to heal after the break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

24 June 2013 (M) - i was involved with a married woman to make a long story short she was a few years older and ive come to relise she used me in the 6 months we were together we broke up in april and i was a wreck shatterd you could say but me being me wanting her in ...

We both have someone else now so why did we get close to each other again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

23 June 2013 (F) - So here I go. I just don't understand a certain situation or how to handle it. Although there is a lot that goes into the background of this, I will just try my best to condense it. About 5 years ago I had a male friend who was in my life at a ...

Are we over before we even had a chance to start?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

23 June 2013 (?) - Hi all! Please help!!!! I am in dire straights.. I came back to a company I used to work for just over a year ago and ran into a guy I had had a very intense fling with 5 years ago. Long story short, I left the company and moved away from the ...

Is this really cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4161 days ago

23 June 2013 (M) - I'm separated for 3 years now. I ran into my high school sweetheart a few weeks ago and made a lunch date. At our lunch we discussed everything. I told her about my cheater wife and she told me about her bad marriage. Long story short, she asked me ...

In a relationship with a married man for 7 years .... Is it true love or am I kidding myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4144 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - I am in love with a married man and his wife knew about us. His son knows too but did not believe it is true. My relationship with this married man is still on going till this date and we could not stop this relationship. We have been together...

Husband slept with gorgeous coworker. Is it unreasonable to ask him to find another job?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - My husband had an affair with a gorgeous female co-worker. He felt guilty and admitted everything to me. I am devastated but would like to work on rebuilding our marriage. Am I being unreasonable for asking him to find another job? They see ea...

How can I get closure and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - Good afternoon. I went to get my alimony from my ex the other day. had to drive one hour and fifteen mins. to get it, way too long. I told him that it was too far to drive, he than said I can mail it, mailing it was not an option earlier for him. ...

How to deal with my boyfriend having a beautiful, sexually liberated woman as a roommate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

22 June 2013 (F) - Hello, my boyfriend lives in a big flat with his male friends. The problem is one of his friends is going to spend this summer in a different city. And he said that instead of him, there will be living some his female friend, in his words "the most ...

Fiance wanted a break, he's talking to another woman about but isn't trying to fix things. What does he want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

21 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I wonder if anyone can help - five weeks ago my fiance and partner of three years, who I lived with along with his little girl, told me that he was unsure of his feelings for me and we should have a break. I was devastated - we only got eng...

He confessed he was married then deleted his email account! How do I get over the shock and heartbreak?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4167 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - How do I forget this guy?! He emailed me yesterday confessing that he was married and hadn't been fair with me the past 6 mos. He then deleted his email acct so I can't reply to him. I have his cell number but don't want to appear desperate so ...

I know it's unhealthy to hate someone, but I just hope my ex dies. How can I get rid of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4165 days ago

20 June 2013 (F) - My ex dumped me with no reason two months ago. He's my first. He cheated on me twice and I still forgave him. We were together for 4 years and the last two years were long distance. We were serious. He talked about getting married and having kids. A ...

No trust in boyfriend right now... ruining a 3 year relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - I'm having a major issue with my boyfriend of 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. He's the first person I've fallen in love with, and sometimes I wonder if that's the problem. My being too in love. Let me state that I don't know if this is MY issue or ...

I don't understand why he wouldn't simply deactivate these accounts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend left his email open on my laptop once, and already having had previous trust issues we are working on, and have been getting there, I couldnt help myself cast an eye....(the previous problem was him trash/sex talking with a '...

He told his ex that I wasn't his g/f but I scary room mate he had to babysit!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4170 days ago

19 June 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, thanks for reading. I met my ex from riding, we meet on Easter weekend, at the time I was looking for a place to move, and so was he, so we decided to shared a place, few days before we move in to the house, we became boyfriend and girl...

How can I trust my husband when he texts a girl from an escort service all night?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

19 June 2013 (?) - Dear readers, I find myself here again and I have only been married a month. I wass here to weeks ago. Because my husband joined a sex site and still denies it. But know I am here because my husband has been out of town for the week and I looked a...

How can I stop my clingyness to a guy that is already involved? I am in love with him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

18 June 2013 (F) - I'm hoping someone will help me I love this guy so much but unfortunately I've made the usual mistakes clingy too emotional etc Ok he's with a girl he's been with her 5 years We got close and kissed twice last year please don't judge he said afte...

She says she has a sexual addiction. Does that mean she is cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

18 June 2013 (M) - I recently was told by my GF (of 2 yrs) that she has a sexual addiction. I've gone on many websites since she admitted this to find out how to deal with it. I know she's had a wild past, but the websites I've gone to (Posarc.com is a good one) s...

I'm absolutely ashamed of myself! I made out with a married friend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

17 June 2013 (F) - This past weekend, I was at an annual camping trip with a bunch of friends. We have been going for a very long time -- our kids all use to come but many of them have grown up now. There are about 30 of us. I still attend although I am single ...

Should I cheat on my girlfriend because she's overweight?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

17 June 2013 (M) - Should i cheat on my GF? I know its wrong and everything, but i have been talking to this girl lately and i feel i have a connection with her, like its crazy how similar we are. Im not 100% sexually attracted to my current gf, she is over weight, ...

He says he loves me even though he cheated, got another woman pregnant and plan to marry her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4173 days ago

16 June 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy since march 2012. I was 20 and he was 33. He's from south america and was doing his masters. It was his last year here and after he's done with the masters he was supposed to leave. So we started this knowing we don't ...

Is he trying to make me think that ruining our family was my biggest mistake ever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

15 June 2013 (F) - About two years ago I was going through Great Depression and I cheated on my husband twice and had a 6 week affair. We were in different locations at the time. I fell pregnant and had an abortion because he wanted me to. So I did. We moved into a ...

My bf cheated with my best friend. How should I handle this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

14 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out nearly a year now, and he visits me at my university halls. Last night he cheated on me with my best friend at university. We were drinking in my halls, and about 12am I went upstairs to bed, as I've just had...

If she's only a friend then why hide their texts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4178 days ago

13 June 2013 (F) - I have a trust problem with my bf of nearly a year now. things were never really..well great. A month after we officially were togheter, he texted his ex telling her he missed her that she should come to town. i caught him the day he moved and left ...

My boyfriend thinks any man will be led by his hormones!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

12 June 2013 (F) - Dear cupids, Today i asked my boyfriend of 1 year, what would he respond if a sexy woman asked him for his phone number, he said: to be honest, any man that is put in such a situation will be lead by his hormones and probably approve and take adv...

My g/f broke up with me over a kiss and yet she cheated on me and I forgave her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

12 June 2013 (M) - Thanks for reading, I just don't know where to turn to, so I am asking you lovely people :) I have been with my girlfriend for just over 1 year. Things were really good between us. Very early on into the relationship, we did have a bump in the ro...

I love him but I think he's going back to the woman who cheated on him. How can I prove to him she cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - This is really weighing on my heart. I'm confused about whether my friend is going to get back with his ex wife or if he wants to. My big question is, I heard that she has another boyfriend and she cheated when they were married. I feel like it'...

Is he cheating on me with his roommate? Do I just break up with him or trust him? HELP!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - I am going crazy about my boyfriend... He give me so many mixed messages and I dont know what to do. He tells me he loves me, wants to be with me but then in the next sentence tells me something that contradicts what I know to be a loving ...

My wife spent over 37 hours talking/texting/sending nude photos and says I'm selfish because I can't move past it!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

11 June 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 10 years. 6 months ago I caught my wife talk to a guy she meet on a online poker game. She told me they're just friends on a game but when I checked the phone bill and it was more than talking. In a month they ...

I cheated on my g/f with 8 women and finally broke it off wanting better for her. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (M) - Firstly, I know i'm a scumbag. I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and I do love her. I don't know why but over the last 3 months I have been cheating on her with about 8 different girls. I love her but I just couldn't stop myself. I k...

Caught cheating with his ex..what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I were having problems because he is obsessed with his cell phone. I broke up with him because nothing else would show him that im serious. well we got back together in a matter of days,decided to work on our problems. and yesterday ...

We will be long distance while in college and I'm afraid b/f will cheat on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - Hi, everybody. I have my first boyfriend, and I am the first girlfriend of my bf. We have known each other for about 3 years, and we have been currently been dating for 3 months so far. We r going to different colleges, and our colleges are 5 hours ...

He cheated, dumped me, and now won't leave me alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - Why won't my ex boyfriend leave me alone? My ex boyfriend won't leave me alone. I loved him so much. (I've never felt that way about a guy before) He was the most perfect bf when we were together. He was sweet, gentle, passionate and ...

Should I tell my friend about his wife's betrayal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - I have a close male friend. Years back his wife cheated on him, and he knows that. But since then he let that behind him. I was really impressed the way it was handled. However, in the past year I have known the guy his wife cheated on, through a ...

Boyfriend has had a history of cheating, and the paranoia has gotten too much. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

11 June 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months now and tbh i'm now wondering where I stand and in general what to do. In the first 3 months of this relationship, my boyfriend cheated on me. ...

I'm devastated after an affair and he will not leave his wife for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) - Hi, I decided to reach out to the users of this site because I am in desperate need of guidance and advice. I have been in an affair with a married man for exactly one year now. We used to live in the same town and his wife used to live in another ...

Men: how reasonable is it to think that they sent over 500 sexually explicit messages in a month, that they were only together twice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

10 June 2013 (F) - I am in a very difficult situation. I found out after 9 years of being with my husband he cheated. He didnt come clean, I just so happened to find out one day and confronted him about it. At first he lied over and over until he decided to "come all ...