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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He left his wife for me but misses his children

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I fell in love with a married man. We are right for each other. He left his wife and children and moved in with me, but told his wife it was a trial separationn and she has no clue what he has been doing. Now a few months in, he has become depre...

Do I leave the man I love and return to a life I hate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I need some help with a choice i have to make. I have no idea what to do so please help me. I had a boyfriend for a year and a half. Lets call him X. We were really close. I moved in with him and his family because i was having trouble at home....

It felt like things were getting back to normal ... but they weren't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Hello Everybody, Don't know if this is the right place for this, but here goes... I am now 33 years of age and I was with my long term partner for 9 years. Our relationship, I thought, was good. It had its ups and downs like any relation...

How do I let her know what I think of him without appearing to be the home wrecker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - So i have a question and a problem and because I'm so close to the problem i cant see the bigger picture or solution. one of my friends who became my best friend because we both have kids which are 6days apart we both have partners also tho her...

My guy says he will be dating another girl ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - One day my guy told me he doesn't want to hide anything from me so i should ask me anything. i then asked him what he has been hidding from me and he said a girl asked him to date her so now he's dating her even though he doesn't love her. He said ...

I just see red flags all over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Okay, so about 10-11months ago my boyfriend dated this girl (let's call her Kate). And so after about 3 months of them dating, she decided to break up with him, because another love interest had come her way, and she wanted the other boy. My ...

I've told him he needs to change ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I can't decide whether to break up with my boyfriend of 7 months. We've known each other for years and have been good friends, although living in different countries (we're still in a long distance relationship). Last year, on a visit to see him he ...

I lied to her but I never cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - After over 2 years together we hit the biggest of all speedbumps. I was caught texting a girl I used to hook up with. The messages were never out of line, on her birthday and mine we talked a bit. Than my now ex was going to send her a nasty ...

How to get past an affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - If anyone has advice on how to get past an affair, please let me know. It has been 8 years since my wife cheated, and it still feels extremely painful. I can't seem to fully trust her no matter how hard I try....

One of the unmarried men has been texting me for awhile!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I am very confused right now and need some good sound advice! I am 64 and have been married for 39 years! My husband has Parkinson's and is now in a nursing home! I spent most of my 39 years with my husband as a good wife and mother at home. I ...

Is it fair for my partner to blame me for looking at his emails when I found out he's cheating again?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two and a half years. We have an 8 month old daughter together. We were starting new and moved recently to a new state because of a job opportunity for him. A few months ago I noticed him acting a ...

I'm trapped between my career and my personal life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - so im sitting in a predicament and yes i know its wrong but anyway. Ive been seeing this guy at the office and yes we are both married and one of the reasons that we started the affair is because our marriages aren't what they should be. (im n...

My boyfriend accuses me of cheating every day!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend accusses me of cheating everday,ive never and wld never cheat but really he is ruining what we have. I love him but im tired of defending myself it is making me physically sick! What do i do?...

My husband had an affair while he was working in a different country. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - we've been married for 17 years with 2 kids, we are happy family, but one day i just found out that my husbandhad an affair to the other while he was working in a different country. He lied to me he said he never had anothet girl while he was away ...

I'm getting married but can't forget about my fling!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I had a fling with a collegue of mine 2 years back..This guy had a long distance girlfriend..I myself am in a relationship with another guy since 4 yrs. Since both of us were in long distance relships we hit it off instantly and started spending a ...

How do I save my marriage after all this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I have been with my husband for 2 years.We have only been married for 5 months. We have seperated about 4 times for about two weeks each time during our two years together.This last time we seperated I honestly thought it was the end I even asked ...

I just want sex from him, so he cut me off. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hello. I'm in a really tough situation. I have been in a committed relationship for 4 years, but there has been no sexual chemistry for a year due to health problems. I finally got tired of not being satisfied so 2 months ago things got pretty ...

I discovered my boyfriend cheating on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone... I want to know your opinion about my situation. I've had a boyfriend for 4 years. He has always been loving and sensitive, but since last year he has had a strange behaviour, he is more emotionally detached and I've began to think he ...

My separated husband is ill, do I still proceed with divorce proceedings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4518 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I've been physically separated from H for 8 months now,10 months in total including in-house separation. Been married for 14 years, I'm currently living with my 2 sons.The separation resulted from H's emotional infidelity, 4 emotional affairs I know ...

A question for any woman who has caught her husband cheating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - after a long day of sketchy and questionable behavior from my husband he *finally* came home *late*. ive been having this uneasy feeling lately that theres foul play going on but aside from all the red flags, this is what i came here to ask. SO, my ...

Is he still upset? what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - I have a friend, who had a gf and whilst we were talking he'd flirt and hint at our friendship being something more. Luckily I didn't fall for it but it turns out he was cheating on his gf and now that she's dumped him, he really really upset ...

Guilty of leaving my wife and son for my mistress! What should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2579 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - This is a tough one. I been separated from my wife of 10 years for 9 months now. We have a loving 2 year old boy. The reason for the separation is because I fell in love with my mistress. I been living with her now and we now have a relationship ...

I cheated on him and now he has cheated on me, I feel alone and sad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - We are in a relationship living together with one daughter. Known him for six years now. Together for about five of them. Idk where to start my question I guess I feel trapped , and alone. I cheated on him and our cheating/decieveing issues goes way ...

I know she gave her number to a random guy so I want to go with her when the meet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - ok this is abit of a wierd question Just say ur gf gave her number out to some random dude on the internet and u found out, and they havent met yet, but u forced them to meet , woud it make the situation better or worse? say for isntance, i call...

After five years we just don't talk about 'us' anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Hello. This may become a bit longer post, I am sorry for this. Help is needed because I'm 26, and I must start to figure out what I'm gonna do with my personal life If I am to do anything at all. Excuse my bad english. Five years ago I had a cl...

I find boyfriend's friend hitting on me exciting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - My bf is out of town for a couple months for a job. I'm working and going to school in a town where I really only know people I've met through him. Lately I've been spending time out and about with one of his friends here in town that I think is a ...

Why would he go away so far, with a woman 24 years younger? And leave his devoted loving wife?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - so i know this is out there a lot but my husband left me for a younger girl 24 years younger. they are living together oh and she has a 2 year old. Anyway just wanted to know if anyone could shed light on why he would leave a good wife that woul...

I'm seeing a married man and don't know how to handle things

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I'm in a tough situation. I'm seeing a married man. I've known him since I was around 14 years old, I've also been in love with him since the day we met. We had a fling back in high school. After high school, I took off and left the state. He ...

How do I convince a man I am serious about him and will not cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - I need advice...especially from guys. I seem to always have problems with my boyfriend being jealous...I don't know if jealous guys are just attracted to me or if it is something I do or how I look. But it always happens. As usual, the begin...

I don't know if I should make a move though or if I shouldn't trust this guy after whatever happened the last time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - Hey. I'm a bit confused and unsure what to do. Firstly I'm 20 and like older men in their early to mid 30's. Basically two years ago when I was 18 I was seeing a guy who was 34 at weekends and occasional evenings. We'd go out in a group of mixed ...

I cheated on my husband with his brother. How do I fix things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 June 2012 (F) - my husband and i separated while we were split up i had an affair with his brother. I understand wat i did was wrong. I wanna fix things with my husband, but he keeps telling me he doesnt know, and he has another girlfriend. How do i get him back ...

Should I just give up on this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently split up over my jealousy issues over his relationships with his female friends. When we were together he told me he loved me and was only interested in me. We even talked about marriage and I moved in with him after only ...

I found these email and now I can't shake the feeling that I should no longer trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - my husband and i have a wonderful relationship but the one thing that bothers me is that i have found certain emails where hes told one woman that she was hot and another one where he states that hes horny too and cant open up the website and what ...

I cheated on my hubby and had a baby that he doesn't know may not be his!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I have been married for less than a year, and have a baby. Got married when I was expecting. I cheated on my husband with this man, before we got married. It was at a time when I was very dipresesed cos of my husband’s abusive treatment. I ...

How do I handle him after our affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, Had a relationship with a married man who was sincere to his wife for 14 years. Never he had an affair to anyone till I came to his life. We both are Managers in one company. We became close and started this secret affair. He loves...

My head is going in circles, is my wife cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - hi im 54 and my wife is to , this is killing me we have sex once a week now and for some reason she wont let me suck on her nipples like i use to never real got that rough where it leave scab on the base of her breast where the nipple start to ...

My fiance cheated on me, and is still talking to the guy and others.....but I cant leave because of my daughter and living arrangements! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

25 June 2012 (M) - so my fiance cheated on me with a guy she went to high school with. she says i wasnt giving her enough attention and that i would never listen to her when she tried to talk to me(when she never did in the first place) we talked about it and cried a ...

It seems like my FWB was actually married or in a relationship and I never knew, how do I get past the guilt of what I did to this other woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - I had a fwb type thing going on for a year or so. The guy never promised anything more and when I started to get feelings i stopped the arrangement, told him to delete my number blah de blah. That was 3 months ago, he has txt here n there but i ...

My husband left me because he thinks I cheated, but I found texts from a man to my husband saying 'I love you' and suspicious receipts for restaurants.....what is going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4393 days ago

25 June 2012 (F) - My marine husband of 4 years who by the way was abusive verbally and accused me of cheating when he got back from Iraq. was always paranoid. He said we had orders back home where i grew up. 1 day after closing he said he got orders changed to go to ...

I found out g/f had been cyber cheating for months and she thinks its no big deal

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

24 June 2012 (M) - Hello, I'd like to start this off first of all by saying thank you to anyone who reads and replies to this lengthy message - I'm really in need of an outside opinion here and it would mean a lot to me. I have been with my girlfriend now f...

How can I approach him without seeming like I'm nagging? Think my Bf is seeing another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Iv been dating a guy for 3 months and half everything was going on when my dad found out about us and prevented us from seeing each other, because he claims im too young So now we've been secretly dating. We were schooling together but now we are f...

Could my partner be having an affair or even be gay????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Hi, i'm 31 and my partner of 12 years is 30 and quite frankly we just dont have a normal sex life anymore. Currently we havent had sex in probably over 4 months (maybe longer!!) and i'm starting to think he maybe having an affair. His line of ...

How can I trust him when this has happened before? he received a text from a woman calling him 'babe'. He got defensive.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

24 June 2012 (F) - Dear all. I was visiting my boyfriend today. We were having a good time until cell phone rang. The first time it rang he ignored it saying it was his friend who want him to go to a party so he's not interested. The phone rang again an there was a ...

Is there anyway I can get my wife comfortable enough to admit to me that she cheated on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4506 days ago

23 June 2012 (M) - Well, I have quite a unique question for the ladies, particularly ladies who have cheated, had to confess, then went on to have fulfilling marriages with the same spouse as swingers. I have been overseas for most of the past six years and I just...

Is her number in his phone to test me or is he still talking to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - I have been with my fiance for almost three years. there has always been some trust issues mostly from my side. About two weeks ago i found out by snooping in his email trash that he was talking some serious shit to a girl at his work. I only got to ...

Willing to leave my husband for my new man, but I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex! Should I pursue a future with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - I am 29 year old married woman with a son and I’m currently in a relationship with another man. I work in this company and I met this amazing guy a couple of years ago and we became friends and at that time we don’t have anything in between us yet ...

I'm ashamed of how angry I got when I found duplicates of text messages to me sent to other women!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

22 June 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I been seeing a man in USA and I am in Canada about 6 months. We were having everyother weekend together. I just spent 3 beautiful days with him. I thought we were falling inlove, While sleeping somehow he hit me with his...

Who do you think this person in his contact list might be

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Hi. I am in a dilemma. My bf lent me his email account to use and he had a contact on there called 'sexy person'. He has has this account for ages do you think it may have already been on there from a long time ago and he just hadnt bothered to ...

Army Man. Is he just a good player, leading me on, and I, a fool for believing him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Help, all males out here, especially the ones who are working for the Military and were deployed to the Middle East. The problem: Online relationship – totally not meeting each other in person. Last January 2012 after I’ve just broken up w...

Is it really possible for him to change after everything he has done? How do I learn to trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

21 June 2012 (F) - Hey, I'd love some perspectives on whether people who betray the trust of others ever regret it or change? Basically, I've been with my bf nearly 2 years and we're looking for a place to move into together, as suggested by him. At 7 months, ...