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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I don't think my wife loves me anymore, but another woman has taken an interest in me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Me and my wife have been together for 5 yrs and married for four. we have a child together, she is 2. I have two teenagers that live with us. she does the world for them and me even when I wasn't working, but even when I was working she has been...

How can I break it to my friend that the magic is gone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - One of my best friends and I recently decided that there might be some kind of chemistry between us... We decided to go on a real date and see where things went... The date was awful. It was awkward and we had nothing to talk about. I'm not s...

Had an amazing date with my friend but now haven't heard from him for a week. Was he making excuses when he cancelled another date? We are both in relationships with other people.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - Hi I have this friend L, we to talk to each other/hang out with friends etc. Nothing ever happened as he has a gf and I have a bf and he was moving to another country. However, we were both unhappy with our relationships and we do talk to each oth...

I'm married and had an affair with a colleague, but he decided to stay with his GF. I'm so miserable and crushed, and can't face seeing him at work.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4323 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I am married 6 years with a young child. 10 months ago I started texting with a guy I work with, who lives with his girlfriend. We had an instant connection and starting texting non stop. We fell in love...always wanting to see eachothe...

I thought we were in love, but she was out cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I am a lesbian, and my girlfriend of 3 years, I just found out has been cheating on me , she's moved in with the other women a block away from me and they got married today!! All in 6 weeks!! And they say they are soul mates!!! How would you feel ...

Why do these women feel the need to be secretive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Why do some women save a guy's number under a females name...

Questions about cheating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I am kind of surprised when women get cheated on and they weren't expecting it. It worries me, has anyone here ever been cheated on by someone who didn't have a reputation or someone who has never cheated before?...

What do I do now? How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - So around January, I met this girl. I started talking to her and found out. she had a boyfriend. I backed off and texted her on her birthday, which I remembered was April 20th (420). I found out she was single so I started hanging out with her. I ...

I seen photos of b/f with girls in his hotel room. Did he cheat on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years now. we both went out on a night out with our mates and i ended up going into the place he was and seen him with girls i have never seen before. He went on a lads holiday to zante last year and i ...

Why do men cheat on their wives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - Why do men cheat on their wives my sister is having an affair with a married man it has been going on for 4 years his wife is ill with fibromylagia and arthritis she also sufferes with severe depression. He keeps telling my sister that he is leaving ...

Why do I feel like I need a man to complete me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - hello cupid,i hoping you can help me anwser some concerns i have about me. i have been married for 20 years now. but thinking back i really got into this marraige really fast. within a week of my husband and myself dating we moved in together and ...

Left my pot head, cheating boyfriend. So why do I feel upset that he's already talking to other girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Okay, I am the same girl who wrote about my pot head cheating ex boyfriend and I thank you all for your lovely and supportive feedbacks :) So lastnight, I couldn't sleep. I had a lot on my mind. I was talkin to a friend of mine about him and sh...

A wife, another woman who I love, and kids with both. Tell me how I can fix this situation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - hi there I am 33 years old man and I have been married for 4 years now but been together for 10 years and we also do not have sex my wife treats this like a job. half a year into being married I started having an affair with a woman but only for fun ...

He says he knows nothing of the texts he received. Subsequently he took longer to climax. Are all these indications that he may be cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - if a man takes longer that usual to climax, does that mean he might have had intercourse recently? I confronted him about a female (and about some texts from her). This confrontation took place three days after the texts were sent. He tried to pus...

Married in 1975 and then in 2011 he cheated. He blames me for the break-up. Could we ever get back together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - my husband and i met when we were 16 and 17 he was my only boyfriend. We married in 1975 and been married for 37 years. In June 2011 he did something unusual that he never did before it was only a phone call to me and said he had rang the wro...

Can I trust men after this? And why do I fall for men too fast? I want to stop doing that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hi I am not sure why i fall for men so fast. I was just in a two year relation ship and he cheated on me so bad. I finally got sick of it and after two years i dumped his ass. Well I got involved with a nice guy I thought hit was nice. ' He opened ...

LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...

Is it only me who gets upset that some people cheat, and then want to keep that fact a secret from their partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - Some Posters seem to be condoneing cheaters and ex promiscus people. Why do people think that its ok to lie to their husbands or wifes??? I just read where one agony aunt said "don't beat yourself up over it you just felt a connection so yo...

We've endured a rough time together. I still love her. Yes cheating occurred. Should I try to get back with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - So, my story starts a year ago when i first met my ex with whom i just brokeup, i immediately fell in love and told her so on the next day, she also really liked me. everything was perfect and fun, and we really rushed sexually ( which was foolish....

Unfaithful in my marriage. Why did I do this? Can I keep this secret forever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have been married for over 20 years and have always been faithful with the exception of one man, twice. I met him 15 years ago at the gym and I was immediately attracted to him but kept it to myself. After a while, we began to talk and before I kn...

I want a relationship with trust and honesty!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I have caught my boyfriend on dating sites 5 times this year. He has promised to stop doing it from now on. He said that all the other times too. I find all i do lately is look for evidence of him doing it again. Just like i have done in the past ...

I packed my bags and left after he hid me from his mother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2years going into our 3rd. We have been living together for 2years straight. Last year he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend and i forgave him. Earlier this year we went for an HIV test and discovered he was HIV+...

Why is my wife's family and my wife keeping big secrets from me? Why is my wife saying she loves me when clearly saying otherwise to others? what are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - Hello, My wife and I live across a ocean! She is doing her post grad studies back home and I am working in Europe. Two months after I left for work and medical reasons (operation) my wife started seeing some guy. She had told her friends th...

My g/f is always accusing me of cheating and now I find her on dating sites. She tells me to go back to my exs! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has been aggressively telling me that i cheat on her. She has been accusing me for months and brings up my sexual history with my ex. I have now found out that she has been on date match sites trying to meet men and saying she is ...

I've been having an affair for 9 years. I know it's wrong, but how can I break away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

26 December 2012 (F) - Hi all. I love this guy totally but he's married, so am I. Been trying to stop seeing each other for years. We been together 9yrs now. Each time we fail and whenever we do, we desire each other more and get closer. We have great fun, time ...

My partner was told I was cheating so he decided to look for guys and cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

26 December 2012 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 7.5 years, and everything was going fine until about April of this year,(December now) until I found out that he was registered on several gay dating sites and has a profile complete with risque ...

Was there more to his friendship with this woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - Hi, I am looking for advice on my relationship. My partner of 8 years admitted to being friends with a female co-worker when he told me for 2 years he did not speak to her. I got very angry and upset over the deceit. He swore nothing ever happened ...

Would he really leave his baby's mother for me? Or is he just telling me what I want to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4340 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I have been with this guy for seven years and during the process of five years we were facing problematic issues because he was cheating. It happened that he made love with this other gal and she became pregnant, I left this guy immediat...

Why is this guy ignoring me? We had a great 3 days together. I know he has a Gf.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

25 December 2012 (F) - I had a great time with a guy for 3 continous days. It wasn't supposed to be a date but we met for a lunch at 1pm....and the date ended up 3am! It was not supposed to be a date as he was leaving the country and he already has a girlfriend. How...

Thank you Dear Cupid. This is a WONDERFUL site. You showed me good directions when I was lost.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4339 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I just want to say thanks to all the wonderful people at dear cupid. Since from the beginning of the you have shown love and good advices. Mostly thanks to the wonderful founder of dear cupid. Its so good to know that there's someone out there who ...

7 months pregnant and sex has dwindled. Does this make my husband more likely to cheat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I am 7 months pregnant and me and my husband no longer are as sexually active as we were before I got bigger. This is not my first pregnancy but more unexpected. He says he is just not attracted to pregnant women like that and never has been. It was ...

Been having an affair. If I don't tell his wife she may be ruining her own life with a cheater!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

24 December 2012 (F) - I've been having an affair with a man who's wife doesn't currently live with him because of their jobs. I am also not sure he's even married to her yet. They live in two different states. She has decided to keep her job because of seniority and ...

Ended affair last night.What can I do? Is there any point in hoping she could leave him? Or was I just played by her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

24 December 2012 (M) - I have no one else to talk to. For past year I have been in affair with coworker. Last summer we agreed that we will leave our partners and be together. I did it, she did not so I went NC for next two months. This autumn she started chasi...

I met a sweet and persistant guy at a party, I don't want to cheat. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4339 days ago

23 December 2012 (M) - dear cupid i have been datting my boyfriend for a month and counting and 2 weekends ago i went to a party and i met this guy who is part of the group but we never met at the party we danced and he was interested in me and i told him if i didnt ha...

Is it time for me to step back and find a job elsewhere? My married boss flirts with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - Happy Holidays ! This guy that I have known now for three months already is the boss of a company in which I do work at. He claims to be married but I don 't think so I think it's more like common- law. We are flirting back and forward with e...

What could I have done better? How to proceed from now on? advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

23 December 2012 (F) - I need some advice ok. I've been married for four years and we fought off and on and we have 3 children together. Four months ago my husband said he was going for a walk but never came back. Three days later I found out he left me for another wome...

The affair was supposed to be just about sex!! He says it's getting too serious.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4338 days ago

22 December 2012 (F) - This is probably a very old problem but I am married having a relationship with a married man off and on for the past 4 months. The relationship was under the understanding of just sex. I have been able to keep my marriage separate from anything ...

Should I confront my wife or am I being paranoid about her possibly chatting with other men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4343 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - We have been married for 5 years. Unfortunately live in seperate locations because of work(different continents !) We are committed to getting back together physically in a few months(move work location). My predicament is this, i believe she ...

Torn Between two lovers

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4344 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - Who is in a relationship of 6yrs, started dating when I ws vry young. Presently A¯_??? serving my fatherland n I met a guy in orientation camp n we both lyk each other and one thing led to another n we got so intimate n we did what lovers do so my ...

Why are married men drawn to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I really have the hots for this guy that works at my place of business but he is married well actually the both of us are really feeling each other. I know this is wrong but why does this happen to me? it's seems like I attract men that are taken an...

I'm second guessing my decision to leave my cheating husband

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - Hi. I've just separated after being with this guy since I was a teenager. Now in my 30s with 2 kids he's all I ever knew. He claimed cheated on me and when i said im leaving, he claimed to be gutted, said he was seeing a counsellor, and taking a...

Two boyfriends... who do I keep?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I am 18, i have two boyfriends, i met one when i was 17 and was not really happy with him because he is a kind of introvert, my kind of person, but the other guy which i met recently gives me great happiness, he is a darling but not so caring. i was ...

What are me and my daughter entitled to if we divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - im a full time housewife with a 4 year old daughter,my husband is working abroad in kuwait for 4 years..every year he makes it a point to have a vacation here with us for a month. on the second year i found out that he was having an affair with ...

I reached out to the friend with whom my husband cheated and I'm afraid it might backfire

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I will start at the very beginning, my husband and I have been together since I was 13 and he was 15. We were each others one and only for a very long time. When I was 20 I cheated on him, knew it was wrong came clean within a month and it was...

I want to leave my cheating husband, but need to straighten out some financial matters first. How can I cope with this in the mean time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

20 December 2012 (F) - I am married with 3 children. The youngest is 9 months old and the oldest is 3 1/2. My husband is contacting women on Craigslist and emailing them with the intent of having sex with them while he is at work. He has sent pictures of his genitals and ...

I can't get past the fact that my husband had lap dances from strippers before we were married.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

20 December 2012 (F) - I have known my husband for abt 10 yrs now, married for 6 and we both are very happy, committed and loving to each other, expecting our first baby now. But just the other day, I was talking of pregnancy stretch marks and he goes - dont worry ho...

If I end things with my boyfriend, would anything happen between my colleague and I? We have slept together before but I'm not sure if he has feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

20 December 2012 (F) - Hey guys I'm in an awful mess. Try not to judge me to hard please! I've been living with my bf for about 6 months, we've been together a year before that. 7 or 8 months ago we started to develop problems in our relationship, arguments about ...

My wife cheated on me with another woman. How can I attempt to start working out our marriage issues together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

20 December 2012 (M) - I have been away from my wife for 3 years now. we were together for 10 great years i thought. She had two kids before i met her, then we had a child to together. We had rough times here and there. From when we lost the house in a flood to losing...

Her parents are staying with us over Christmas, but I've found she is having sexual conversations with strangers on the internet! Should I confront her now, or wait until her parents have gone? I'm really disgusted and thinking about leaving...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

19 December 2012 (M) - My girlfriends parents are due from overseas to visit and stay over christmas. It will be the third time I have met them and we get on great. I have now discovered my girlfriend is having relationships and sexual conversations with strangers over ...

Cheaters Central? Do you think my boyfriend cheated on me? Is he the cheater type?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4346 days ago

19 December 2012 (F) - I know the type of answers I'll get for this question. "A relationship can't work without trust". But I guess I need to know whether I'm being paranoid or rightfully concerned. In any case, here it goes: Before I met my boyfriend he had a big cru...