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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2012): She's emotionally cheating on you (if not physically) and she needs someone to blame so she doesn't have to admit that she is herself, a cheat by her own free will.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 December 2012):
 she is accusing you because she is doing it herself.
her reaction "go back to your sluts" should be met with
"thank you I will"
then leave
block her phone
block her email
block her on social media
WHEN you leave she will probably create tons of drama if you allow it.
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (27 December 2012):
It sounds like she wants out of the relationship and wants to leave the dirty work of dumping to you. Grant her that wish.
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reader, bronzed adonis  +, writes (27 December 2012):
 There is nothing unusual here. It may seem extreme to you but she just sounds like a typical cheat to me. The question is whether you want this treatment for the rest of your life or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2012): Dump her. She is no good. There is no other way of looking at it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2012): this is typical behavior of chaters.
i heard a lot of those kind of stories and belive that in your wife/gf is cheatting you. to be hoesnt you should/must know because i think this is old fashioned way(manner) of behavior.
go find someone else
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 December 2012):
 Yikes.
You know the saying.. Offense is the best defense! It means she is accusing you to knock you off balance so you didn't see that SHE was the one cheating. It's a pretty typical "cheater-move"
What do you do about it? You kick her out. (if she is living with you) or if you are living with her - then you MOVE out.
She isn't going to stop doing this. She isn't going to stop verbally abusing you. Only you can do that, by walking away.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (27 December 2012):
 "What do i do about it?"
The same thing you should do about any abusive relationship.
Protect the children.
Protect yourself.
Get out of the relationship.
Seek professional help.
in that order.
FA
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2012): She broke up with you so you should listen and leave.
She's looking for other men.
You should be looking for other women.
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