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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Girlfriend always thinks I'm going to repeat what I've done in the past!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) - I need help me and my gf are going through a major fight she thinks I will never change when I already have she dwells in the past thinking I will lie to her and cheat on her when I won't I love her to death I would do anything for her I never want ...

This is not your typical FWB situation... I'm in desperate need of advice and insight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Well, it all started a few years ago when I met this guy. We became instant friends and we have been really close ever since we met. Since we met we have almost been inseperable. Sure, we've had our fall outs, but what longterm friendship wouldn't? ...

The past is ruining our future, how can I leave the past behind me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been in a great relationship for five years with my boyfriend. I love him a lot, and most of the time things are really good between us. Unfortunately, we've had a long distance relationship because he moved back to Argentin...

My wife implicitly condones an affair. Instead of elated, I am mortified!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

30 June 2011 (M) - I have been with my wife for 20 years. In that time our sex life has been meager. Lately, if we have sex once per year we are doing good. My wife and I have started (for the fourth time - this happens every years or so) to talk about the proble...

I want to grow old with my ex but not with all these lies inbetween us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Alright well im lesbian and me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost a year. this is the most longest and serious relationship ive been in. im 17 and shes 20 (but doesnt act like it). And well when we first met we were oh so very madly in ...

Should I let my baby's daddy back into our lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - hi everybody,please help!My boyfriend abandoned me since i was one month pregnant. Now my baby is 9 months and he does not know the baby. It's been two months since he is back in my life(not in my son's life),I have been trying to learn more from ...

Girl in to more guys every day - what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - I'm currently "in love" with a girl I met a few weeks ago. she currently has a boyfriend but she is about to break up the relationship. but she is afraid of throwing away the time they spend together. now she says so also really likes me ("loves"...

Unwaranted feelings of infidelity....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - I'm in a committed relationship and I've always been in faithful. I've always been a person who is against infidelity and never understood why anyone would do that. But lately I've been wanted to cheat, and i cant understand why. Help please!...

I split with my husband 3 months ago due to him cheating on me but I cant seem to move on and it still hurts so bad...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Why can't I move on, why is the pain still so raw? I split with my husband 3 months ago due to him cheating on me. I want to be able to move on, I want to smile again so why can't I. I still love him and wish I didn't because he as changed so much ...

My affair ended abruptly and the lady just disappeared without saying a word.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Hi! I am 32 years old and I am married with 2 kids. I have been married for almost 6 1/2 years now and had been having problems with my marriage. I have been working so hard in communicating with my wife what the problems are but she just doesn't...

Does it sound like my BF cheated on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - This girl told me my boyfriend had cheated on me with her in her car. He denied every bit of it (there has been several rumors of him cheating) so I told him to call the girl in front of me so I know he wasn't lying, well he refused to do that. ...

My husband is critical, threatens to leave our extended family and I don't work and now feel trapped. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 22 years. He is very critical of just about everything I do. He tells me he loves me and wants to do everything with me. He is constantly accusing me of having affairs. We are a blended family with 5 children, ...

It seems she is looser, could she be cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - i have this curious question about a vagina fart,I know that its caused by air being pushed from the penis,but is it mostly cause by a bigger penis,for example-I've been with the mother of my kids for 18yrs. And I don't know if because she gave ...

I'm not sure where I stand with my FWB

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I'm married but its falling apart he cheated on me lied constantly, hurt me, ignored me. I started an affair with a friend, I know its wrong. We've been on and off for about 9 months now. When it started I didn't mean for it all but i fell for my ...

He still wants to see me even though we made a huge mistake !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (?) - Me and a guy friend from school used to have a causal thing, when we were both single. We'd meet up and sometimes sleep together. I stupidly ended up liking him more than i should, like these things tend to happen. Anyway, that ended and he got...

Were married, I don't want her meeting up with him !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - Back in April I caught my wife texting a friend of hers in ways I did not think were appropriate. They were arranging to meet for dinner and drinks without me knowing, for instance. I sat her down and asked her what the deal was. She told me that...

Are they just friends or am I being played like a fool?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hello everyone! My BF of 1 1/2yrs has a "friend" at work. She is married and has 2 small kids. She texts my BF all the time, calls him all the time and even has a pet name for him. I have stressed to my BF that i dont like it and his response is ...

Cheating on my girlfriend was a mistake, but this other woman wont leave me alone! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I decided to stop masturbating then I started cheating on my girlfriend. I have a girlfriend of 3 years now she lives far away from me and we cannot have sex as often as we want. There is a girl next door whom I slept with two times, this new girl ...

How do I break free from this married man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - hey well here goes. ive been in a bad relationship for a year now. i dont want any critisicm i dont need it i know what ive done is wrong i just have a proplem that i would like some help with. when i first met him i never knew he had a wife and i...

I finally left my husband of 5 years who cheated on me many times.. but I don't know how to deal with the pain

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - how do you survive after the cheating..? i finally left my husband for 5 years who cheated on me many times.. but i don't know how to deal with the pain ...

Had an affair and now I'm trying to work on things with my wife but the thought of anything intimate disgusts me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - Ok agony aunts i need your help in the worst way! Heres my problem. My wife and i have been going thru some major issues that have been causing a rift between us. Just know that regardless of my actions i do love her and i do regret what ive ...

I'm in a FWB with a married woman who used to be more loving. I'm confused, what happened?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I am a married separated man in mid 40's, i have been separated for 5 years and am still friends with wife, we see each other 3 times a week but there is no sex. I have had 2 serious relationships in the past 5 years, niether worked out because ...

How can I help her get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - How can I help my friend? Lets call her A. All last summer, she was in a relationship with a horrible guy. Lets call him J. J treated her like crap around other people, cheated on her, stared blatantly at other girls, wouldn't even pay for their ...

He brought his ex but not me !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Hiya, I have a problem that I'm not sure if it is a real problem or not!! My Fiancée and I have been dating for two years, living together for one year and getting married next year. He has just dropped it on me that he wants to go camping with...

How do I stop feeling so sad and to stop myself for feeling like it was my fault?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of two years told me yesterday that he was distancing himself from me because he hates talking to me now and he wished I never loved him because he stopped loving me and then he finally told me that he cheated on me. I took off the ...

My BF has cheated on me so much and half the time it was when he was intoxicated and at parties, that I just can't trust him to go without me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over 2 years. I am 17 years old and he is just about to turn 21. We met when I was a freshman and he was a senior so obviously, the age difference didn't really matter to us to the extreme. ...

I right to feel this betrayed by this guy? Should I be even considering him as the father of my 1st born?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid I dated this guy in 2009 but we broke up after a few months because he told me he wanted to do "some soul searching" basically he dumped me, we were however, still pretty close and we slept together every now and then(after the b...

I kicked him out when I found out he was married, but now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I was dating my ex for about a year and i was happily in love until i got a phone call, this lady asked me was i screwing her husband? i asked what was she talking about and i just could have died when she explained to me that she was doing an ...

Since I only had sex once with my colleague, is it merely a one night stand or because we are still in touch is it an affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I know there are going to be some nasty answers and I won't argue with them. What's going on is wrong and cruel but not what this question is about. I am married and about 6 months ago got really friendly with male work colleague. We text most day...

My lover is married, how do I get people to stop judging me?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I'm so fed up of people judging me for being with a married man. Once again my best friend has broadcasted on facebook that I am a homewrecker and my boyfriend will only cheat on me blah blah blah I started seeing this man a year ago but never as...

This co-worker wants a relationship with me and will not leave me alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Please Help Me! I'm trying to break off a relationship with this man. I have known him for 2 years and he seemed like a nice guy. He is 56 and I'm 28. I have a new fiance and the 56 yr old is married. My fiance cheated on me and I wanted to ...

I am in a great relationship, but have met someone else who is amazing, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - I've been in a successful relationship for almost 2 years. It's been perfect, we both love each other dearly, we spend more than 5 hours daily together (be it physically (when possible) or via phone, skpy, etc.). Honestly, it's even better than ...

Bored with my relationship but worried that if we split its going to make things complicated with the baby...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - I'm 20 years old and been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years. She moved in my place in october when our daughter was born which she is 8 months old now. I'm so bored with the relationship, the sex ect. I acually fantasize about the last gir...

What should I do about my drunken mistake?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Okay, so I don't really know how to explain this, so I'll just jump right in. About a week ago, I met the guy one of my friends is talking to. We all hung out with some of our other friends one night. Since me and the guy(let's call him Dave) w...

She tells me she was seeing another guy for the week we were broken up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - my girlfriend keep breaking up with me and saying she cant do this anymore but then a week later she come back to me and then tells me she was seeing another guy for that week we were broken up i dont know what to do i lover but i dont think she ...

I just found out my ex cheated, but I'm still in love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - me and my girlfriend were dating for 3 years. i found out that she liked and was talking to this kid she was going to college with. i freaked out and we broke up. 3 weeks later she started dating him. now were talking again after 8 months and ...

Chat lines, porn and web cams: healthy or disgusting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - hi guys i would just like all sorts of oppinions on chat lines and porn and even web cams , do u think that they r classed as cheating or in a healthy relationship wherre there is trust that these things can be accepted i would love to hear peoples ...

I've made a mess. How do I tell my best friend I had sex with her boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

25 June 2011 (?) - I have been dating this guy for two years. (Lets call him, Kyle.) And everything was perfect. He would send me flowers just because... not many guys do that! He also is very big on his religion and respects me. Kyle is sweet and amazing. All my ...

How would you know your boyfriend is cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - How would you know that your boyfriend is cheating on you??? What strong signs that he is doing it???...

Do I have any chance to get my ex back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) - My ex broke up with me nearly 1 month ago and to be honest i'm still struggling, feeling wreck, we were together for 2 years, physically 1 year and 10 month and we're in long distance now.... So this is one of the reason that she broke up with me i ...

Husband cheated on me with 2 girls and has babies with both, but refuses to leave me. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Hello, I have a question. I have been with my husband 11 years. We have 2 kids. I just found out at the end of the year he has cheated on me twice and has two kids with two different girls. I feel betrayed and don't know what to do. I don't know if ...

Should I tell my neighbor that her husband is probably cheating on her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Hi Goodpeople, I need some advices here... The couple and my family used to live in same neighborhood. We go to the same church, but we are not that close. They are at middle of 50s and have several grown up children, and grandchildren. Ab...

How did I get myself into this? My dream girl on one side and my GF and kids on the other side!1

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) - I'm currently in a 7 year long relationship w/ kids but here goes I met this girl on fb started to chat, she didnt look too good but was funny and was making lots of sexual innuendo and she caught my eye at some point. I invited her to the beach an...

Should I leave my current bf, who bores me a little, for this new guy, whom my friends also likes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Dear cupid Ok well I'm 19 now and my bf and i got together at a club. We met twice before that and he's friends with lots of my friends. When at the club he kissed me. I was slightly drunk but i sort of knew the situation. I was having trouble w...

How do I address his unjust accusation that I was cheating. I was not.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - hi everybody. my problem is i met a man in march he lives 2 mins away from me he asked me out i said yes he came round mine after a couple of weeks we had sex we carried on like this for 7 weeks i went out for a night out with my friends first time ...

I am stuck in a relationship that I want to end!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - why Cant i end it? My gf has cheated on me three times she has lied to me and when i finally got to ending it she started telling me she loved me. I still care for her. Though i have told her Im not taking any more crap which appears to make her...

How do I get over knowing he doesn't care that the relationship is over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Hellllo, Yesterday i decided to break up with my boyfriend of 4 years,because he was lying and cheating and i finally got fed up and i was to hurt this time to try anymore. So i dont really know what to do anymore,im really confused and my ...

A complicated love triangle! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - Hi. I'd been best friends with him for awhile and then started to like him. I told him I liked him. He said he liked another girl. Then a month later he stopped liking her. He came over to my house and we made out a few times. In a couple of ...

I am really torn because I don't want to stop the affair but I am also afraid of moving forward.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I really need some help. I am a married man with a young child. For the past six months, I have been friends with a woman in our circle of friends whom I am very attracted to. We have flirted and it is clear that we have a connecti...

In the past she had affairs with married men! Is this a deal-breaker?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

24 June 2011 (M) - a girl I have been dating for 6 months, and who up to now, I have liked a lot, revealed to me that in the past, not too distant, she dated a few married men. she is 28. one was when she was about 20, the other when she was 26. she slept with both of ...