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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I think I deserve better than what I'm getting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - So my husband and I will be married for a year in March but we have been together for four years! We have a huge age difference! He is 40 while I am 23 mind you that he does not look a day over 30! My friends thought I was absolutely crazy but I was ...

Recently reconnected after 20 yrs. Should I give up on this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am in need of some advice. I recently got back in touch with my first love through facebook and we spent hours talking and texting. I am in the very beginning stages of a divorce and and he is completely single. This is a long distance relation...

Is there something going on between her and her ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - hey righty I was browsing on my girlfriends phone when she got a text from her cousin so she asked me to say what it said then in the message menu I notice her ex bfs name so i clicked it ( i will explain more of this further down) it was a single ...

My fiance has online profile looking for discreet casual sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my Fiancee for 3 years. We are both in our 40's. A few months ago he was in a car accident and was house bound for three months. During that time, he got very upset with me for not giving him more time and attention while he ...

My boyfriend is still married, living with his wife and having a baby with her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 5 months is married but seperated and has a baby due anyday now. He lives in another city with his mom and dad and wife. He come to see me when ever he can. So many times I've tried to end it because of the situation but we just ...

Tips on how to make your relationship work.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - ok well im going to attempt to help people all over the place to make sure their relationship works. I hope to help people make their LDR work(it does work with the right frame of mind) i also want to help couples get through when one or the othe...

Who cheats more - men or women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I just wanted to see other opinions.....Who cheats more.....men or women?...

I feel really betrayed that he'd get over me while we were in a relationship, talk to this girl who was his "friend" behind my back and then breakup with me after I tried really hard to change.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK before i start i want to thank everyone for taking the time to answer my question. Ok my boyfriend for 10 months recently dumped me about a month ago. He said i was too controlling and i didnt trust him. Before this huge breakup i dumped h...

Stuck with my current GF because its the easiest option, but my physical attraction for her is weaning and I'v cheated on her....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hi there, Im going to sound like the bad guy in this but hear me out, I would appreciate all opinions, good or bad. Thanks! So, Ive been with my girlfriend for 6 months now, and she is very much into me, almost infatuated and although I do li...

She first told me nothing could happen, then led me on, left off abruptly and started dating someone else after telling me she wasn't allowed to...should I be angry or what??!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I met this girl, who i really liked and we had a really good friendship. She already had a boyfriend, so I couldn't ask her out or anything. They eventually broke up, and we started hanging out more. Eventually I told her how I felt, and she had ...

Is cybersex with others considered cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I met a guy many years ago online and we started to have cybersex. It became very intense and eventually we fell in love. We spent many hours talking on phone, IM, email etc. We plan on getting married but due to some unforseen circumstance have not ...

Why hasn't he tried to fix this when everything was flowing so great?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I met a man on New Years Day and we had been spending a whole lot of time with each other ever since. We sat and talked the first date for hours not even realizing 4 hrs had passed. Evey couple days we would get together and it seemed that we had ...

Why do men think they can get away with cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - I am 43 and have been in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. He is divorced with 2 children and I have 2 children. His teenage son introduced him to this woman a year ago and evidently they were attacted to one another. I discovered the ...

He left me to have a good time with his ex, and now that she's out, he wants me back again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've had many trust issues with my boyfriend. Most with his ex girlfriend. Many issues in general, including: When they first broke up he started talking to me a couple weeks after.. then we started 'talking'. Before I left for Mexico in the summ...

3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...

My boyfriend's mother hates me and refuses to see our child because I told her he was bisexual! How can I clear the air?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend 4 years, (were 18) and we have a 14 month old daughter together. The problem is that his mother hates me because I once told her my boyfriend was bisexual (which is true). He cheated on me 3 times wi...

I went to a party with my crush and he ended in bed with my best mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So just over a year ago I met this guy and we got along Really really well and things wer're going well. We had a Lot in common and he made me smile. He then invited me To a party he was having, knowing that I wouldn't know anyone There I ask...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

Is he cheating? And what should I do about our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - What should I do? Is he cheating? I love him so much:( I told my boyfriend to take a break from our relationship because I feel that he doesn't like the fact that we are always on the phone or texting. So yes I told him to take a break and he said...

We both have partners, but we're in love! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My situation is awkward! I have been close friends with a guy in another country for a couple of years. We get on great together, have so much in common, and have met a few times in real life, which were fantastic. The problem is he has a partner ...

I'm not feeling validated in this relationship and she can't fully commit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Alright, this is going to be slightly long, but bear with me for a moment. I started dating this girl when I was 19. I've always had a lot of trust issues, so opening up to people wasn't something I was good at. For about 6 months things were goin...

The eternal triangle strikes again. How can I solve it amicably guys?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I'm 17 and for the past year I've become best friends with a group of guys.(I have girlfriends too but I prefer hanging with guys tbh). I love them to pieces. For the past month or so me and one of the guys, Z, have developed feel...

Cheated on my boyfriend and left him for another. 1 yr later I can't stop dreaming about him!

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30 January 2011 (F) - Okay so bear with me please it's a really long one. So me and this guy, he was my high school sweetheart. We liked each other for years then dated for about 2 years or more. I cheated on him with another guy and thought I was falling for the other ...

I'm worried my husband will cheat on his business trip. How can I learn to trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had sex with a prostitute while on a business trip, and once he returned he confessed to me and said he is guity. However, I cannot come to terms with this yet. It's been 2 years, he has been avoiding going to business trips, but now he c...

Is there such a thing as addiction to dating, chatting or adult web sites?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Can anyone tell me is there such a thing as addiction to dating,chat or adult sex sites? I will be leaving my wife tonight after finding yet another active profile of hers. This has been happening for around 4 years. Countless break ups,she always ...

I didn't cheat, did I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Im really scared this random guy came up to me in a club cos hes mates with my brother and we spoke for abit had a laugh ..i wasnt doing anything at all half way through the night he kissed me but i pulled away as ive already got a boyfriend who i ...

Concerned about fiance's relationship with a co-worker

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - I just found out that my fiancee has been more than a little friendly with a married male work colleague. I always assumed their chats were fairly innocent seeing as they didn't communicate that often. But I did some snooping and I was shocked at ...

When I try to leave he tells me I'm being selfish and to think of the kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - i have been in a relationship with this guy who is 19 yrs older than me for three years now and we have two small children together and we live together. he doesn't want to take me anywhere. he always have an excuse on why he don't take me anywhere ...

Cheating and the Internet...A Wife's Perspective

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Recently, I discovered that my husband had been looking at personal ads on the internet. And, not only was he looking, he was emailing responses. I’m sure you all know the ones I am talking about. The “casual encounters,” section of a popular ...

I cant trust my current BF because of the way I was played in the past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - dear readers im looking for advice, when i was younger i was with this guy who always cheated on me and played me round like i was nothing, and i dont think i ever was to him. now im in a rewarding relationship but i find it hard to trust my boyf...

Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...

If you knew a guy and you knew he was cheating on his girlfriend, would you tell her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (?) - If you knew a guy and you knew he was cheating on his girlfriend, would you tell her? I have a friend, well someone i know, and for the past 6 months or so he has been cheating on his girlfriend. He has approached me on a number of occ...

He cheated, I got pregnant, stayed for the children, and now I want out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had a four year affair early in our marriage. By the time I had enough confidence in myself to leave him I found out I was pregnant. 15 years later, I no longer want to stay married. His family stated that I don't have the right to leave ...

Does this make me a sick person? I don't want to hurt him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I've been talking to this boy online for a few months now, we're both 20. When we met I was getting over my ex, so he was kind of like a rebound. He gave me comfort and made me happy from a distance, which is what I needed. Eventually I told this ...

Boyfriend of 3 years has been sleeping with someone in my bed!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I jus found out that My bf of 3 yrs, has been sleepin wid someone in my bed.am so devasted.becauae i loved him.he's acting all defencive mentioning that am also doing the same.wat should i do.get my things or leave them for him...i want peace!...

How do I become "just friends" with him if I have already fallen head over heels with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Ok, here goes: A year ago I started dating a married man. In that time, we have "gotten caught" 4 times, (but not in the compromising position you are probably thinking) He left his facebook up, she hired a private investigator, text messages, etc. ...

I messed around with two women...now I want the second one who loved me but I ended up hurting...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Before anyone starts throwing rocks at me pls hold off and hear me out. I fell in love with 2 different women (woman A and woman B). I fell in love with woman A first and boy did I fall hard. The complication was she wanted an open relations...

How can I tell my mistress to get an abortion... NOW!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - Hi. Just seeking some advice. I have been married for 7 yrs been with wife for almost 15. she's older than me by a couple of years (I am 37 my wife is 43 and my lover is 35). , but I think she is my soul mate. I cheated on her before this time, but ...

We work together, we slept together, I wasted so many awesome blowjobs on him....just to realize now he was married all along!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - My heart is broken. I've been seeing this guy for a year now. He pursued me, but I saw evidence in his car and at his office that he was involved with someone so I said no thanks, friends! He swore up and down that he was single. Eventually I starte...

I hit my girlfriend, is it my fault or hers?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - im 15 ma girlfriends 14 were in the same year but im not proud of what i did but i need some advice me and my girlfriend were arguing after something that happened at school i kinda said she was flirting with my bestmate because she was hugging him ...

I'm in love with 2 boys and don't know who to choose!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I am 18 years old and I have a boyfriend, I love him very much, he is really sweet when he wants to be and am quite sure he loves me, he adores me but he is not very understanding. It's hard opening up to him sometimes so I met someone else who ...

She has a profile on a website designed for married people to cheat....I'm not sure if I can be with her anymore knowing she could do this

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I have just discovered (or rather the computer repairer told me) that during a period where we broke up, my girlfriend had joined a site that is there for married people to cheat on each other . She`s down as single but seeking attached or married ...

Why do I want this other guy sexually when I'm in love with my fiancé?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm in a mess and I really need some advice. I'm 23 years old and I have been with my fiancee for nearly 5 years, we've just got engaged and we're extremely happy together. I love him more than anything and I couldn't imagine being without ...

The married woman I had sex with keeps calling me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - hi, This is my first relationship with a woman. she is 40+ and I was 20+. She is married and I'm single. We worked together in same comapany and I like her bcos she is smart, charming and good looking. That story was started from the day I...

Boyfriend lies to me all the time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three years. I am 20 and he is 19. I noticed a year-a year and a half way through our relationship that he was lieing to me all the time.Just tonight i caught him in a lie that he didnt even have to lie about ...

Should I enough them to break up by telling him about his Gf's cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - This guy started talking to me back in march of '10. I never gave him the time of day, but gradually he started to like me. I only saw him as a friend. Then I started to realize how cool a person he is and how he's been trying to get with me for ...

Pregnant, cheated and guilt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend now for a year and a half. Awhile back I did something really stupid that I totally regret, I cheated on him one time with an ex of mine, which is so totally not me and I didn't mean for it to happen,and I realize how ...

Telling someone you cheated in the 1st 2 weeks after being together for 2 years?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Ok so this is just one about cheating and being unfaithful I would like to ask the females since I'm a guy. If you cheated on someone in the first two weeks of a relationship because it was long distance and you didn't think that person would last ...

I cheated and my boyfriend ended things

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hello, right now i feel like shit,i have been a bit bad and cheated the odd time. Its lead to break up after break up,he wont let it drop. I have never admitted it as he will end it,i know he wont come back if i do. He turned off his phone last ...

Should I continue waiting for my married lover, or am I being taken for a ride?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

27 January 2011 (M) - Greetings All! I have worked with this person for two years and have always had a mutual great feeling. We began an active relationship last year. I was in process of a divorce, but the feelings for her were very real and true. She put forth the ...