New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in January, 2011, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (13), 2 (12), 3 (20), 4 (9), 5 (16), 6 (10), 7 (11), 8 (8), 9 (7), 10 (14),
11 (8), 12 (10), 13 (9), 14 (13), 15 (14), 16 (7), 17 (17), 18 (11), 19 (18), 20 (9),
21 (12), 22 (17), 23 (8), 24 (8), 25 (11), 26 (9), 27 (13), 28 (9), 29 (6), 30 (20),
31 (13),

Archived questions from: 3 January, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

(More questions from January, 2011)

Cheating: Help and advice

Is this cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Is this cheating? I just now found out that while my long time GF and I were going through our turbulent part of our relationship, she was going out partying more and more, we would fight and stop speaking for weeks, and at times for a month or two, ...

Boy problems getting out of hand......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5064 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Moved to another country and a close friends best friend said i should contact her boyfriend so he can show me around and also so i wont be lonely as my boyfriend is in another country... my boyfriend recently had sex with another chick and the girl ...

I cheated on my boyfriend 3 times :(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I've been seeing this boy for about a month and a half and on new years eve he decided to ask me out over the phone because we couldn't be together, I was so happy because I've been messed around so much but he really is the most amazing boy who ...

I want to tell his girlfriend he's a cheater!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So i've known this guy for 2 years. We met through mutual friends. We used to triple date alot, and it was really fun. He and his gf were very cute together. They still are. I forget their history now, but i know they've been together a while. He ...

Looking for some relationship help while on a break from my girlfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - She has always told me that she wouldnt cheating and would never leave me it sounds stupid but i after some time i started to believe her. now later down the road she tells me that 6 months ago she cheated on me with some guy she only saw 3 times ...

He cheated on me, but then tells me he loves me! Is it even possible to move past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I need some advice on how to trust my boyfriend again, and how to move on and forgive him. We have been together for a year now, and moved in together six months ago. I've always been insecure for some reason, and am guilty of going through his ...

My husband turned gay!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5070 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Hi I've been in a marriage 25 yrs I found out that for 15 years of the marriage he has been sleeping with men, mainly older men but told me he stopped Doing it 5 years ago but I dont know whether To belive him we are now separated but I'm having ...

How can I trust she is not cheating on me with her soon-to-be-ex-husband?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - i'm in a long relation ship with a girl and we fell in love with each other. she is married and has a kid but getting divorced now that we're in love (her marrige was not working and her husband cheated on her many times). knowing that her husband ...

Made a mistake and kissed him. I want to keep him as a friend despite the attraction and complications

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Help. I have a long term boyfriend of seven years who I love dearly. We have plans to marry in the next two years. I have a very close family friend. Someone I grew up with. I have always loved him. We both know that we are attracted to ea...

Two timing me with my bestfriend and not telling me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I was getting involved with a man, who I had met one night, later down the track we both had feelings for each other and both knew about it. Seeing he had lost his license, I was making the effort in seeing him and making the time to be there when...

Should I stay with my husband and cheat again? or leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I have been married for 14 years, my husband is a very caring, loving and great bloke - we unfortunately cannot have children but have spoken about this at length and have decided that we can have a fullfilling and wonderful life just the two of us ...

What are the after effects of cheating ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I want to know what are the after effects of cheating on someone? is it make 'permanent' damages for your current relationships? can people have the same desires for each other again after cheating? or is there any kind of despises,anger or lack o...

Hickey on my boyfriend's hip?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Ok, i found a hickey looking mark on my boyfriend's hip. He said he hit it back i just dont know. what do i do?...

I’m seeing a married woman should I give her more time or should I leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I’m seeing a married woman should I give her more time or should I leave? I have known this gal for about 5-6 years she is married I’m not. I have had feelings for her since then, the past several years I have been in love with her. She is ten year...

How do I get the strength to tell my wife that my heart belongs to someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - About a year back I met the person who I really enjoyed spending time with. We started off as friends. We spend more and more time together. My feelings for her went from friends to falling for her completely. I am still married. We tried walking ...

I want to spyware on his phone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5072 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Hi,ive been having problems with my boyfriend and he wont talk to me and he texts me really late or sometimes dosent call me at all does someone know were i can download free spyware to put on his phone i think hes cheating on me hes been aking ...

Should I risk my chance and tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Okay, there's a girl I've known for a good few months, nearly a year, I am quite sure I am in love with her, she seems to me like she is the one, I love everything about her. Although I am not with her, she has a boyfriend, complications included, ...

I have a girl friend but I want to kiss my male friend. Am I gay or confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Hey I dunno if I'm gay or not, I have had a girlfriend now for two years but have recently started to find guys attractive and I want to kiss my best mate. I'm so confused, help...

Struggling with whether or not to leave my wife

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I am 40 and married to a 53 year old woman. I love her. She has since the beginning of our marriage... roughly seven years ago... never really accepted my love for her...held herself back from me... been distant... and this last year i became ...

Girlfriend talking to my friend late ngt. Wondering was I cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I m in a relationship since last 4 yrs. We surely knew we are in love wit each other before saying it to each other. Tats 4 sure coz even my gf confirmed this. Before we committed, my gf used to talk late night from 12 am to 3.30am with a friend of ...