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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

He left me to have a good time with his ex, and now that she's out, he wants me back again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I've had many trust issues with my boyfriend. Most with his ex girlfriend. Many issues in general, including: When they first broke up he started talking to me a couple weeks after.. then we started 'talking'. Before I left for Mexico in the summ...

3 years after husband walks out, I still grieve, when does it stop?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I was with supposedly the "love of my life" for 32 years. In 2008, I found out he was having an affair. He left my son and I for 2 months, and then returned, stayed for 3 months, kept seeing the other person and then left again. I have not seen ...

My boyfriend's mother hates me and refuses to see our child because I told her he was bisexual! How can I clear the air?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I really need help. I've been with my boyfriend 4 years, (were 18) and we have a 14 month old daughter together. The problem is that his mother hates me because I once told her my boyfriend was bisexual (which is true). He cheated on me 3 times wi...

I went to a party with my crush and he ended in bed with my best mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So just over a year ago I met this guy and we got along Really really well and things wer're going well. We had a Lot in common and he made me smile. He then invited me To a party he was having, knowing that I wouldn't know anyone There I ask...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

Is he cheating? And what should I do about our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - What should I do? Is he cheating? I love him so much:( I told my boyfriend to take a break from our relationship because I feel that he doesn't like the fact that we are always on the phone or texting. So yes I told him to take a break and he said...

We both have partners, but we're in love! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My situation is awkward! I have been close friends with a guy in another country for a couple of years. We get on great together, have so much in common, and have met a few times in real life, which were fantastic. The problem is he has a partner ...

I'm not feeling validated in this relationship and she can't fully commit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Alright, this is going to be slightly long, but bear with me for a moment. I started dating this girl when I was 19. I've always had a lot of trust issues, so opening up to people wasn't something I was good at. For about 6 months things were goin...

The eternal triangle strikes again. How can I solve it amicably guys?

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30 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I'm 17 and for the past year I've become best friends with a group of guys.(I have girlfriends too but I prefer hanging with guys tbh). I love them to pieces. For the past month or so me and one of the guys, Z, have developed feel...

Cheated on my boyfriend and left him for another. 1 yr later I can't stop dreaming about him!

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30 January 2011 (F) - Okay so bear with me please it's a really long one. So me and this guy, he was my high school sweetheart. We liked each other for years then dated for about 2 years or more. I cheated on him with another guy and thought I was falling for the other ...

I'm worried my husband will cheat on his business trip. How can I learn to trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had sex with a prostitute while on a business trip, and once he returned he confessed to me and said he is guity. However, I cannot come to terms with this yet. It's been 2 years, he has been avoiding going to business trips, but now he c...

Is there such a thing as addiction to dating, chatting or adult web sites?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Can anyone tell me is there such a thing as addiction to dating,chat or adult sex sites? I will be leaving my wife tonight after finding yet another active profile of hers. This has been happening for around 4 years. Countless break ups,she always ...

I didn't cheat, did I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Im really scared this random guy came up to me in a club cos hes mates with my brother and we spoke for abit had a laugh ..i wasnt doing anything at all half way through the night he kissed me but i pulled away as ive already got a boyfriend who i ...

Concerned about fiance's relationship with a co-worker

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - I just found out that my fiancee has been more than a little friendly with a married male work colleague. I always assumed their chats were fairly innocent seeing as they didn't communicate that often. But I did some snooping and I was shocked at ...

When I try to leave he tells me I'm being selfish and to think of the kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - i have been in a relationship with this guy who is 19 yrs older than me for three years now and we have two small children together and we live together. he doesn't want to take me anywhere. he always have an excuse on why he don't take me anywhere ...

Cheating and the Internet...A Wife's Perspective

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Recently, I discovered that my husband had been looking at personal ads on the internet. And, not only was he looking, he was emailing responses. I’m sure you all know the ones I am talking about. The “casual encounters,” section of a popular ...

I cant trust my current BF because of the way I was played in the past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - dear readers im looking for advice, when i was younger i was with this guy who always cheated on me and played me round like i was nothing, and i dont think i ever was to him. now im in a rewarding relationship but i find it hard to trust my boyf...

Was naked with my ex...should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - So last night was my ex's 22nd birthday, so since we're still on good terms I went out with her and some of my old mutual friends. The night started off fairly well but as the night progressed I got more and more drunk (more so than I've gotten in ...

If you knew a guy and you knew he was cheating on his girlfriend, would you tell her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

30 January 2011 (?) - If you knew a guy and you knew he was cheating on his girlfriend, would you tell her? I have a friend, well someone i know, and for the past 6 months or so he has been cheating on his girlfriend. He has approached me on a number of occ...

He cheated, I got pregnant, stayed for the children, and now I want out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My husband had a four year affair early in our marriage. By the time I had enough confidence in myself to leave him I found out I was pregnant. 15 years later, I no longer want to stay married. His family stated that I don't have the right to leave ...