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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

If my gf kisses another guy does it mean she's cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Hey last time i asked this it got rejected saying it was fake or stupid but it is a real question and i know it does sound stupid but i wanna know, if my gf kisses another guy does it mean shes cheated on me?...

Is he seeing someone behind my back? Why would he lie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - i think my boyfriend is seeing someone behind my back the other night he said he was at home but i knew he was not because his car was not there.when questioned he said it was but i am not blind.he said he loves me more than anything so why lie to ...

Together 18 years. He cheated on me and I can't forgive. What do I do from here?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Dear All I have read loads of question /amswers on this site on affairs and alcholics and agree with every one when advised to get out. Well I did get out,but he left me we were together 18yrs i found out he was cheating tryed to forgivre but c...

I'm getting married next week, do I tell my fiance I have slept with his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - me and my fiance are getting married next week but i have slept with his best friend, what do i do, ruin there friendship and my wedding or stay quiet...

Do I tell my married friend I want more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Married friend really not happy with her relationship.Staying for the two children age ten and twelve. Should I tell her that I would like to be more than friends or just leave it? I feel shes interested in me also but neither of us would agree in ...

She's doing me and her bf, at the same time..should I just walk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Maybe need a lil help. Been having an affair wiv a girl whos a complete bitch but adorable at times too. Shes stayin wiv her security (boyf) but says she met him first but is still f**king me? She feels so guilty i know but caves in for me but at ...

We broke up! He said he got another girl pregnant but I think he's lying..advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - ok you kno what happend? okay im really angry! He broke up with me..I WANT 2 get over him!!!! ASAP!! he told me that he got another girl pregnate! but i thnk he is lying to make me feel bad..i kno that there is other guys in the world who will love ...

Will she ever leave her husband for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I met a beautiful married woman 5 years ago in a restaurant on a Saturday. She was from a neighboring state. We talked and clicked. She was perfect - we fell in love. She has an a**hole for a husband. We stayed in touch and she visits when she...

I keep straying to other men.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i am married for the second time and have four children i love my husband he is 1 in a million, but i cant stop straying to different men, i dont no what to do i think about it all the time, what can i do?...

2 years together. I had to go to New Zealand for a while, and she cheated. Now she's really mean towards me. Do we have a chance at all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Hi My now ex and me had been dating for 2 years and known each other for 7 years (since she was 14). She was always really into me and talked about marriage and kids and how much she loved me and couldnt be with anyone else. She has had a few b/...

She cheated on me, and I was going to propose! How do I get through this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - me and my girlfriend have just broke up because she has had sex last wendnesday with a random bloke in the toilets of a night club and i was going to propose to her how do i get over this with as little pain as possible?....

If I do the bad guy thing

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I am 21 soon id like to think I know a bit since I had a crap life my girlfriend cheated on me and I gave her a 2nd chance and she cheated on me with 2 guys at the same time why do things like this happen to nice guys. Well I don’t think I am a ...

I saw my ex and he kissed me and said he missed me, but he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - ok well my an my boyfriend went out for lik a little for than a year and he seemd to hav a low selfesteem, we were eachothers first love, very attached and wuldnt trust me even though i really cared for him the whole time and i told him that- he ...

I can't get enough of the hot sex that my affair gives me! But I feel bad for betraying my bf. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I've got a boyfriend, but recently I had sex with another girl. It was so amazing, I had the best orgasim I have ever had, I enjoyed it so much more than I do with my boyfriend. We've been doing it in secret ever since, just for a bit of fun. W...

Do men run to arms of a stranger for the sexual "escape" when they are under stress, instead of being with their partners? Is my bf going to cheat and blame it on the "stress" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - When my b/f is stressed out about work, he tends to not want sex. Okay, I can understand that, I know stress can affect a person's sex drive sometimes, but recently during one of those stressful phases, my b/f e-mailed a female friend and made a r...

In love with my soon to be husband, but can't push away the feelings of lust for other men...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - normally i am the one giving the advice but the tables have turned. i love my man and we are getting married next year and i cant wait but i am lusting after other men. i have 2 really close friends who have said that they love me and if anything ...

The man I'm seeing has a fiance and he's confused about his feelings. I don't want to wait, but don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I have been somewhat involved with a man who is engaged... We work together. I am 21 and he is 34. We started off as good friends.... im not going to get into it as everyone woman seems to have the same old boring story. Anyway, it has always be...

My don't remember cheating, but my gf split w/ me b/c of it! And now there's someone else who likes me! Any advice with both problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hey. I am 18; my girlfriend has just broken up with me. She broke up with me because I kissed another girl. I don’t remember cheating on her (I was really drunk), but apparently I did. I understand that I lost her trust but I feel like I didn't ...

I think my g/f might be cheating with her BOSS!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Help I need some advice. I know its a long post but please take the time to read it you'll probably be suprised. I think my girlfriend might be cheating with her boss. Recently it's come to my attention that her new boss has been texting my lady ...

He's been giving out his number to others! What should I make of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Well I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. Just spent the last month working out boundaries, like do we want open/closed relationship, etc. About 2 weeks ago we decided together that we would be able to have fun with others in clubs ...

She said she can't continue the affair though but values my friendship, I can't seem to let her go though!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - I love her but she's married...After close to a year she's told me that she can't continue and she can't give me what I want but she values my friendship more than anything. I dunno why but I can't seem to let her go. What do I do? Am I wrong for ...

Is my boyfriend of a year cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Is my boyfriend of a year cheating? Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year and I have known him for about a year and a half, when we were first dating he cheated on me. He told me right away and we have gotten over that...

I am 17 and have been cheating on my boyfriend with a 31 year old

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - i am 17 and have been with my boyfriend also 17 for 3years, my feelings have changed and i love someone else. i have recently been seeing a man of 31, he is lovely and doesnt seem his age. i work with him and have stayed over his house 6 times ...

I am kind of seeing my married, older boss and want to take it further, sexually

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My boss at work flirts with me a lot and I know he likes me and I like him. But hes married with a kid. He is not married to the mother of his daughter tho, but he is married. We have made out and fooled around a little. I know that if we went any ...

My feelings have changed since he cheated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I'm a little confused I've been with my boyfriend for two years eventhough, he cheated twice with the same girl and I forgave him but ever since I've forgave him I feel that my feelings towards him are a little different. I've become more aggresive ...

Why do men go to massage parlors? Is my husband a sex addict?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 2804 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Just want to find some answers, my boyfriend went to a massage parlor and want to find out why men go to these places? he says he doesnt know. I am wondering if he is a sex addict? Does he really love me? how can he when he went there? If there is ...

My boyfriend of 3 years have moved away to University. He's getting on better with the girls than the guys. I'm so worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years has moved away 2 uni. we're each others first love and used to see each other everyday.we were unseperable. now he's moved away im finding it so difficult. everytime i speak to him (which isnt that often) ...

He cheated, but he won me back... Now he's had to move 2 hours away! I love him, but I have doubts...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I am so conflicted. I have been dating a man for about 4 years. Last March I found out he cheated on me with my best friend. I broke it off with him and kicked him out of my house. Afterwards he was very remorseful and fought very hard to win me ...

He doesn't want me anymore, but I don't think I can live without him! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I had a relationship of 11 years. During 10 years we were very happy. Two years ago we bought a house. Then I wanted to marry. My boyfriend would not. And we couldn't talk about it so one year ago I left my him. We worked about a year on our r...

Do you think what I did was cheating?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I have been married for 14 years and a year ago my best friend and I had too much to drink and we kissed for less then 2 minutes(female). I told my husband yesterday and he said I cheated so it's over. Do you think that is cheating?...

Do you think he will ever leave her as they don't see that much of each other or am I just wasting my time hoping he will.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - A couple of months ago I met someone who I later found out to be married to a woman in Thailand, he works in England for over half the year and stays with her for the rest, he lives very close to me and we see each other a lot. He said he does love ...

He's been texting another woman b/c he's depressed. He said they've never met, but I feel cheated! Help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I recently found text messages on my hubbies phone from some one called D, they were signed with a x. I confronted him and he admitted it was from another woman. He is being treated for bad depression and said he only did it to feel good. He sai...

I feel I have to choose between my daughters happiness or my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hello... I have been with my partner for almost 4 years...we have a 2 year old daughter together. In August 2006 my partner, his friend Paul and I went out for the night clubbing in Bournemouth. The drinks were flowing and by the end of the night...

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for t...

Is love at first sight true? Ready to sacrifice everything to be together, though I'm married and know this person for a month.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

26 September 2007 (M) - I am a 47 year old male with a professional job and have been married for 16 years. About a month ago I met a 39 year old female hispanic woman who speaks some english and we can hold conversations very well at a conference. She is also married for ...

Has my boyfriend cheated on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Has my boyfriend cheated on me? Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and right at the start of our relationship he cheated on me when i promised him a filthy night that night - he said he had to go home - and i then later found...

If I left my current relationship to be with Gary, I know I wouldn't be able to trust him as he's emotionally unstable. Thus?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - real confused. i am 18, for the past 3 years was crazy about this guy...lets call him gary*. when i turned 18, i got with my current boyfried, steve*.. i never thought about steve in a "more than friends" was cause we had only been friends a year, ...

Still in love with the ex and have been seeing him behind my husband's back. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid... Have I got a problem.. I was living with someone for 10 years, we had two daughters and a horrible relationship. We were young and naive and ended up seperating. Then right away I started seeing the man who is now my husband of 3 ...

She's 21 now, but when she was 15 she had sex with her teacher! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - I'm stuck for what to do. I've been with my girlfriend a few years now, and a few months ago we told each other's deepest secret (Here I was thinking it would be an interesting game to play, but really didn't expect anything like she told me). ...

My wife left me and our son, we got back together, she cheated on me and is now doing coke! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6240 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - my wife walked out on me and my son 7 months ago. Six weeks ago, she meet a new guy which up set me so much as i did not know i still loved. Anyway, two weeks ago i asked her back to make a go of things and she said yes. Everything was so great. I...

My ex hinted he would tell my husband if I didn't continue the affair. How do I tell my husband without damaging the marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Help, I'm married and have kids. I recently ran into an old boyfriend from my teenage years. My husband knows his name (Chris) and what we did (we never had 'all the way' sex, I just performed oral sex on him about 10 times or so). Anyway, ...

Went to Oktoberfest and slept with a co-worker (even though I have a girlfriend)... I'm disgusted with myself!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Dear All, I am in a world of pain. Never have I felt like this before. I went to Oktoberfest on the weekend and I slept with a girlf from work even though I have a girlfriend of 4 years. I am disgusted with my actions. This is the first time I...

I cheated on him last year and he wants out; he's been unfaithful several times before. Should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for 10 years. I cheated on him last year for the first time. I told him about it and he wants out. I feel cheated because he has had affiars several times and i have always forgiven him. I'm very confused now. ...

I've slept w/ my friend's gf when he left. She was going to follow him, but now she loves me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Her bf, a friend of mine as well, left promising she should join him. That is not what he told me. Since he left we started to phone and meet almost everyday. When I opened my heart and mentioned my deep feelings she answered we could only be good ...

My boyfriend placed an ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend placed a personals ad seeking a bi couple for sex. What should I do? ...

What's wrong with me (other than being a pig for treating my wife this way)?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - Feels like I've fallen in Love for the first time in my life...but i've been married for over twenty years... It all started about five years ago (im 41 years old now)...my wife and I had been becoming too distant...it was more than the two of us ...

If you lose all respect for a human being which you are to share your life with, is it even conceivable that you can ever respect the person again?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

24 September 2007 (?) - Hope someone can give advice. Fairly recently my husband was caught redhanded cheating. I have been struggling understandibly with all the emotions involved when this happens. He has also done all the expected things - begging for forgiveness, ...

I know I'm terrible at trusting men, but this time do I have a reason to be concerned?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I have a terrible time trusting men. Even when I meet a man that seems good on the surface, I'm always looking for the hidden strings. My current b/f has done a few things that were "shady" in my opinion -- he was flirting with a friend of mine ...

He cheated on me so I dumped him. Now I need to get over him. How can I do that?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - i found out friday that my partner cheated on me, he stayed away all weekend and when he came back he made the most feeble of excuses, like he stayed at a mates on the saturday and on sunday night walked around till monday morning and then came ...

My husband had an affair and we got through it but he still has pictures of her. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I would like your opinion. I have been with my husband almost 7 years, married 3. We love each other very much I know. But the first year of our marriage he became involved with his employee. He also admitted to me he was 'obsessed'. I don't know ...