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writes:Hey. I am 18; my girlfriend has just broken up with me. She broke up with me because I kissed another girl. I don’t remember cheating on her (I was really drunk), but apparently I did. I understand that I lost her trust but I feel like I didn't disserve to. I know that I have to accept this but I find it really hard. Any help?On top of there is another girl that likes me, the problem is that I am not sure if I want to go out with her because I am hurt, and if I do go out with her she will just be a rebound. Should I go out with her to help me get over my ex?
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reader, rcn +, writes (29 September 2007):
 I'd wait until you got over some of your hurt. It's not fair to either of you if you enter the relationship with the hurt. All that will happen is it will interfere with having a successful relationship.
It's good that you accept what had happened. You may not feel as if you deserved it. The way it's looked at is, you had the option and choice to drink and how much, therefore your responsible for any action taken part in under that choice.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (28 September 2007):
 I don't think that you should go out with a girl to help you get over another girl, ultimately this is going on the rebound. Sit back and give it a month or 2 to get yourself back up straight and decide what you really want, time really is the healer of all things. If this girl is still available in 2 months then go for it.
Good luck
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