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30-35,
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writes:ok well my an my boyfriend went out for lik a little for than a year and he seemd to hav a low selfesteem, we were eachothers first love, very attached and wuldnt trust me even though i really cared for him the whole time and i told him that- he would act weird if i was spending time with a friend, so this went on for awhile an like we broke up lik 3 times and got bak together aftr a while cuz we both missed eachother ! but lik in may i was graduating and going to go to college so i broke up with him- then now in august we start talking, and i saw him at his rock concert playing, and he came and saw me before i left and he gave me presents and we said we both love eachother and he missed me and we kissed n hugged in stuff an then i called him an we talked since i moved- but lik 2 days later i find out he has a frikn girlfriend wat a bullshit liar, but he hasn't told me.. wat do u think? why wuld he do that? why doesen't he tell me? and wat is he feeling or thinking? but im gonna talk to him and ask him but wat do u think? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): Firstly, my rule of thumb is: Never, ever settle for anything or anyone, that doesn't make you feel better about who you are. Your ex bf is dating another girl and has given you blatant signals, that he's interested in you, again. You have found out about this gf and I am guessing you feel pretty crappy about all this. So it really doesn't sound like he's enhancing your life and making you feel special or good about yourself. Kick his butt to the curb, dear and don't look back. He wants to play both you females and he can't do that, if you don't let him.
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reader, FoxyR  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Hi,
He didn't actually lied to you he didn't say he didn't have a girlfriend.
Anyway if you really love him you should talk to him and ask him why he didn't tell you.
And if you two decide to go out again make sure that he turst you.
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