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Archived questions from: October, 2006 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He loves porn..he texts other women in chatrooms and he says he does it because....he's just messing about??? I feel worthless-what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hi im recently married to a man i love very much and i know that he loves me to however he loves to look at porn on the net and also texts to other women through chat rooms also the women have sent him rude pics of themselves. i have confronted him ...

He is coming to stay with me for the weekend but is seeing some other girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - Ok, The guy of my dreams is coming to stay at my house for the weekend. Neither of us are into flings, and he has told me he likes me, and i like him a lot.. he has made a move on me a few times before, and i have always said no, thinking i was his ...

I had a dream that my bf was texting my ex-friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - hi! i have abit of a problem but im not surr if it is a problem or just my paranoid mind! i fell out with my best friend in june sometime and we havent been in touch since then but my bf had her number in his phone but it wasnt stored under her name ...

Started an affair with my husband's brother...

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - I got married 2 months ago to a man I had been living with for 2 years previously. My husband is a wonderful man who I truly love but unfortunately our sex life has never been fantastic. However I thought this was not important as we get on so ...

Do I tell her or wait or wait for an exs cousin to tell her??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6595 days ago

31 October 2006 (F) - My mother had my ex boyfriend arrested when I was 16. He was 20. He was mad at me for a little while for her finding out. I live with my grandmother nad I still sneak around just to see him. My birthday is in 12 days and I won't have to worry about ...

He's married but...what signs should I be looking for.. to tell if he wants more than friendship?.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6230 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I am married, but am no longer in love with my husband, i have developed feelings for a friend of mine, who is also married, although more happily than me, we spend quite a bit of time together, he is my training partner in the martial arts that we ...

Found out he cheated on me a week before we broke up, but want to still get back with him! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6595 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I've heard from a close friend that my ex boyfriend cheated on me about a week before we broke up, kissing a girl in a public place with onlookers (one of them being my friends bf). I'm in the process of trying to get over him as he has a new girl, ...

She loves another and not me! She regrets having 2 kids with me...any thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - I have 2 kids with my girlfriend of 7 years we lived together for the last 6 years we broke up 5 months ago i lived in a differnt room in the house 3 mths ago she told me she was dating someone from church and she thinks she is going to marry him. I ...

Completely lovesick over my Cypriot. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - i have just come back from a holiday in cyprus and met this gorgeous man who worked out there. he took me out and didn have to pay a penny. he said it was a miracle to meet me. i haven felt like this about anyone he was so romantic, and caring and ...

Left our spouses, but now he doesn't know what he wants....what should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I got married August 2006 after living with my partner for 5 years, our relationship was more a convenience that anything else and I always had strong feeling for someone who worked at the same company as I did. Having been married for 8 months I ...

My boyfriend cheated because I had an abortion, now I am pregnant again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I am a 21yr old female whose been in a relationship for 3yrs this past August.I am currently pregnant with twins for my boyfriend.At the ending of the 1st yr we meet i went and got an abortion dispite what my boyfriend wanted (he wanted me to keep ...

Do I risk it all for a younger guy, with no certain job prospects that I love with a constant desire I have not felt with my bf? Is this a long-dull-period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I fell in love when I was 19 and have been with the same guy ever since (now I am 25). 2 years ago he went overseas to pursue higher education and we've been dating long distance in the meantime (I stayed on to study locally). We always plann...

Should I break up with my gf of 2 months? She kissed her ex because he is depressed and lonely.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 October 2006 (M) - Hi there Ive been going out with my gf for 2 months now things were going gud. I live 3 hours away so i do get to c her that often mayb once a month. Last week i went over and she told me that he xboyfreind had kiss her. She did not like it but ...

Caught my fiance looking at porn...with local girls!!!. Should I be worried?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

30 October 2006 (F) - I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now I recently caught him looking at porn.The thing that bothered me the most was that he was looking at girls in the same town.I love him to pieces but I am so confused.Should I be worried?...

His friends told my bf they saw my profile on a website. Now he thinks I am after other men! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 October 2006 (F) - Hi. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now, we are very much in love, or so i thought. Everything has been fine up until last month... His friends saw me on Hi5, a friendship profile website and have wound him up i am searching f...

We're cheating on his new gf

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - Confused about my feelings for my ex...he has a new gf but we have had sex since they started going out...I think he's now avoiding me in some way but there's loads of signs that he still wants me. For example when we were cheating on his new gf he ...

My wife's sister is seducing me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - my wife's sister seducing me for long time now,she is older than my wife(32),more cute and very nice french body,she is visiting us regullary,and spend some nights and days with us,and her mum too.going to the beach,hotels,swimming pools with us,she ...

Meeting with him again would be playing with fire

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

28 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up at the beginning of the year, after three years of being together. Things had been difficult for a while - there were various things about our lives we were not happy with, and our relationship suffered as a result. I ...

How do I come to terms with my fiancee kissing another man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6526 days ago

28 October 2006 (M) - i have a trust issue with my fiancee and it is over a stupid kiss that someone gave her . when i asked the meaning of it she became very evasive and till that point we never had an arguement . the fact is i saw it and she denied it! if it was so ...

Sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Ok, so I broke up with my bf 4 weeks ago after an on/off relationship of about a year. We were then sex buddies and friends, until Tuesday when he got a new girlfriend. But then the day after that he rang me saying he was lonely, came over and had ...

My partner cheated via texts, so should I cheat with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Well, i have been with my partner for just over 3 years and we have a son together. last year i found out he had been texting my best friend for 5 months we nearly split up over it but i tried for the sake of my son. Since then i think i have fallen ...

Do I tell his new gf that he and I had sex? Does she really need to know?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - I've never felt so guilty in all my life. I slept with my ex (who i still have feelings for) who has a new gf. They'd only been going out for 2 days, but she's my age (16) and a virgin. What if they end up having sex? Everyone wants their first time ...

I made out with my brother in law! We both knew it was wrong..so how do we cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - i know this isn't exactly a question, but i just needed to write this or tell someone! i was out last night and saw my brother in law! we made out, but both knew how wrong it was, i just feel awkward about the next time i have to see him....

Is kissing classed as cheating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupids, If you are in a relationship do you see kissing someone else as cheating??...

I like my friend's bf and he likes me! Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - hey i need help! i used to really fancy this male friend of mine and i know that my friend did as well so i decided to set it up for her and now she is with him but i still really like him and he isnt happy with her and keeps making passes at me. if ...

He cheated on her with me...do I find a way to tell her so she finishes it so I can have him???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

26 October 2006 (F) - A guy i'm into cheated on his girlfriend with me. They've only been going out for 2 days. I know that if she found out what we did they'd break up and he would be free for me to have him, but I know that he wouldn't be all that pleased with me. If ...

I'm afraid my girlfriend will cheat on me on cruise!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

26 October 2006 (M) - Well, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months. She has a history of lying sometimes, and its hard to trust here. Well anyways her and one of her friends are going on a cruise together. Well i'm concerned about her cheating on me on ...

My heart hit the floor when I saw my husband's profile on AdultFriendFinder!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I got home from work last night and i was trying to find a wed site i was at the other day, so I went into the "history" part of the computer and found that my husband signed up for adultfriendfinder.com and alt.com, is he thinking about cheating on ...

Does this guy want me or am I being taken for a fool?? What do you all think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - Hi Guys, Apr06 I wrote to you about a married man who still wears his wedding ring. Well developments - He doesn't wear it anymore, and is divorced. He Kissed me, but we only seem to get friendly when we are drunk. I thought I was over him, and re...

Cheated on my boyfriend with an old friend now I think I maybe pregnant!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I have been with guy L for 8months and we have been engaged for 5 months. Well just recently I ran into an old friend we started talking then one thing led to another before I knew it we had slept together. Now I think I may be pregnant what should ...

We been married for 15 years and want to spice up marriage with threesome!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - dear cupid, my husband and i have been married for 15 years,and we are very secure in our marriage.but we need to spice it up a bit.my question to you is it cheating if we have a threesome? thanks...

I have sexual dreams about my ob/gyn! He flirts with me and we exchange e-mails..and we're both married! How can I shake this feeling off?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6570 days ago

25 October 2006 (F) - I'm in love with my OB/GYN (perinatologist). Unfortunately, we are both married. I met him in June when I became his patient because of very severe complications with my pregnancy. He was the most caring doctor anyone could ever have. I was ...

My friend wants to revenge cheat on her husband and I'm encouraging it! Am I wrong to do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - My best friend isa doctor and she works a long time everyday, she earns a lot of money and has a little daughter and a civil servant husband, Her husband is very nice and takes care of the little girl but one night he was unfaithful and passed his ...

He said he was busy with his mates and when I did see him he has a love bite on his neck!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 2 weeks and everything was going really well, i didnt see him at the weekend as he said he was busy with his mates. When i saw him yesterday he had a love bite on his neck which is not mine. I asked him about him and ...

I want to continue this affair but don't have the strength to break it off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 October 2006 (F) - I have a problem and i need advice. I met a man from Texas last month.He is a singer,songwriter. I live in Nashville and he has been coming here for the 12 months. Well the night i met him we had spent the night together. i then spent 2 more nights ...

While on a cruise I cheated on my boyfriend...I don't know what to do!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6490 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - I have a huge problem. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he even had gone through stages where he broke up with me and wanted to have sex with another woman. He did not do it and we worked it out. We have had many ups and downs, one of ...

Is he right or just using me??

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Im seperated from my husband and i have 3 children.I have been seeing my lover for over 3 years but he has a partner (he's not married to her.They live seperate lives and sleep in seperate bedrooms as she is alot older then him and doesn't want sex ...

He said he would finish the affair but I confronted her and found he was lying to her too!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - Should I stay in this relationship? I have been with my fiance for almost two years, he has been a wonderful father to my daughter and has helped me raise her since she was 8 months old (he is not the father). About six months into our relation...

He denied calling her until I showed him the evidence and he is still contacting her!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

23 October 2006 (F) - i found out my BF has been texting and calling a girl for upto 6times a day, when i confront him he says it was a lie and when i show him the evidence he said she was a friend. i want to finish with him but he is begging for me to take him back but...

How do I stop from flirting/cheating with others when my bf is away? Advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - at school i was always the ugly girl and i had really bad spots, i never got any attention from the boys. when i was 16 i met someone and i love him dearly we have been together almost 3years now. as i have grown older i seemed to have got prettier, ...

I've resenting found out he has registered on a site to meet a shemale!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - I have been married for 3 years and have two young children. We have a very happy marriage and I know that my husband loves me however i have recently discovered that he has been registering on certain websites in order to meet a 'shemale'. Having ...

My husband works away and he's just informed me that he is having an affair!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

22 October 2006 (F) - Hi my husband of 11 years has just informed me he is having an affair with a woman where he works, he works out of the country and has done for the last 2 and half years, he is away for 6 weeks at a time and only home for 2 weeks. I think the affair ...

I trust her and know she loves me but will the situation cause her to be tempted to someone else???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - Hi, I am asking this question to help my own mind about this, and I'd love any ideas! My girlfriend who i trust has gone to Mexico with her girlfriend(who is in love with someone). It is a company trip with 40 people at a 5 star resort. I didn't...

He has a girlfriend but says he doesn't want a real relationship!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6603 days ago

22 October 2006 (M) - Ithought that I was messing with a boy because we were meesing but yesterday I faund out that he was going out with a girl. The thing is that he told me that he didn't want a real relaishionship put yet, he is going out with her. He wouln't kiss me ...

Should i divorce and hurt my son?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6576 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - I am married man for 18 years, i have a son of 13 ,the problem is i lost all intrest in my wife, over several years i have cheated before, just typical one night stands, now i have met a woman i work with , been sexually involved with her for ...

Both married to other people and I want to stop this affair!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

21 October 2006 (F) - How do we stop the affair? 11 months going ,sex 4 times a week ,but both are married to diffrent people not each other....

He cheated on her, treated her badly and she went back to him! Why would she do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - Me and my ex broke up about a month ago. I love her dearly and really want to be with her again. Before we dated she was with her ex for 2 years. During this 2 years this guy treated her really badly, he doesn't really care for her and cheated her ...

Married but in love with a younger woman! Having a hard time with these feelings...what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6604 days ago

21 October 2006 (M) - Hello, I am married since 1994, one son and living quite well with my wife up to now. Some 7 months ago I got acquainted with a younger woman (10 years; 40 versus 30 years old) and as I saw her for the very first time, I got a strange sensatio...

Sometimes I trust her so much others times I don't know if I can trust her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

20 October 2006 (M) - ok me and my girlfriend have been going out for 13 months and we have been through alot but we are still together. i keep having these suspiscions that she might be cheating on me. there are times where i can really trust her..then there are other ...

He gives the pretty girls more attention than the ugly ones....should I worry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6606 days ago

20 October 2006 (F) - me and my bf are together for almost a year. he's perfect and very handsome but ever since we gone to the uni he's been talking to beautiful girls. (there are a lot of pretty girls in our uni) there are a lot of girls that flirt him talking to him ...