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writes: I have a problem and i need advice. I met a man from Texas last month.He is a singer,songwriter. I live in Nashville and he has been coming here for the 12 months. Well the night i met him we had spent the night together. i then spent 2 more nights with him. he was really a lot of fun and we both enjoyed each other. The problem is he is married and has been for 42 yrs.This past Weds. he came to Nashville and i spent 3 days with him. he then made sure i had money before he left.He has been looking for an apartment here and says he wants to move here to be close to me and the music.He called me today which is monday and he just left last friday.He told me he is coming up here and will be bringing his grand daughter with him. he wants her to meet me. he also said no matter where they go he wants me to go also. I am so confussed and don't know what to do.I know i am in love with him.I tryed to break it off and he started crying. he then told me he does't want me to leave. please tell me what you think i should do.. thank you
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (24 October 2006):
 Congrats!!! You have just become the other woman or to put it in a nice way "the mistress". Be realistic, he's not going to leave his wife and if he does he's proven he can't be trusted. You can pursure this if you wish. I'm not a psychic but I do predict heartbreak in your future. Leave now and grieve what little you have shared or continue and grieve how much of you he has taken. Good luck.
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reader, Toria +, writes (24 October 2006):
 Noone can tell you what you should or shouldn't do as only you know the answer to that question.
You have to think about what you really want out of this relationship as I'm sure you can't just carry on like this forever, once you've worked out what you want to come of it you need to find out what he is prepared to give to you or give up for you.
Remember one thing though, this relationship is already an affair and based of mistrust and deceit as you are his other woman and if he was to leave his wife for you could you really trust him? would it always be in your mind that he could do what he did to his wife with you with someone else?
Good luck :o)
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