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*atix
writes: I have been seeing this guy for 2 weeks and everything was going really well, i didnt see him at the weekend as he said he was busy with his mates. When i saw him yesterday he had a love bite on his neck which is not mine. I asked him about him and he said it was his ex which was trying to get back with him and he said he was seeing someone else and she got mad and did it on purpose to anoy me and make us argue. He doesnt leave his phone in the same room as me, as he says i will go through it. Should i dump this guy or is he telling the truth?
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (25 October 2006):
I think it depends on what the expectations are for this relationship. You have only been seeing each other for two weeks. Are you exclusive and committed, or just dating and free to see other people?
Once you answer that, then you can put this into the proper context.
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, DEBS83 +, writes (24 October 2006):
did she pin him down i dont think so he is taking the piss out of you hun you need to get ridof him
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reader, stina +, writes (24 October 2006):
Hi Watix,
Well it doesn't take a second to get a love bite, you know? He should have pushed her away much sooner than he did. I think it's rather strange that he doesn't want to leave his phone near you. Not that you should be going through it, but if you did then why would it matter if he wasn't doing anything wrong?
His story sounds a little off to me, so I wouldn't trust him. If he's being like this right now, then I can only imagine how he'll be in the future.
I was going to ask if you know anyone who can verify his story -- but I guess regardless, if I were you and I was having cheating sort of problems this early, I think I'd have to reconsider being with this guy...
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006): Yeah i think you shuld dump him because he is defnetley taking you 4 granted, Your boyfriend has a love bit wich you didant give 2 him and you havent said anything!!! And he dosant leave him phone in the room with you proberbly because he dosant want you 2 find any txt messeges or a phone nomber that belongs 2 his second girlfriend, No offence but you shuld woke up and smelled the coffie a long time a go girl.
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