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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I'm having an ongoing fight with my boyfriend. Was his comment about calling okay? How should I behave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - Hi all..so my boyfriend and I had a fight 5 days ago-well not really a fight, so here's what happened: wie just made up from another fight and sunday he cooked dinner for me. He told me that he's still looking for a job and just can't find anything ...

Break up? Try the LDR? Be realistic about the partying? Give up my dream of having children? What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - I am 34yrs old woman and in a relationship with a 23yr old man. Yes, yes... I know. When we met, I look around 23 and he looks around 25...until of course we found out each other's real age a few dates after! I thought it could be a bit of fun...

I feel like he just wants to go around and sleep around and then I'm just stuck here waiting for him to be done. How do I move on with my life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - So me and my boyfriend recently broke up. Maybe about 1 week ago. Our relationship has been very difficult, we dated for a little over a year. (14 months) our biggest issue was trust. I have caught him texting other girls throughout the ...

I don't know how to feel about my ex now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - I had my first bf when i was26. He's three years younger than me. We spent four years together and planned to have a family before he dumped me. Its been a year since we broke up. I'm trying to move on. I'm doing okay now, but I know I'm not over ...

His self-harming has led to him cutting me off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Hi , would love some advice . I was dating a guy for several months and as I got into the relationship I realised the guy had some mental health issues that included self - harming . I tried to be patient and loving as he was finalisi...

Did I push my ex boyfriend away? Should I write to him to explain again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I have just realised, that I think I pushed my boyfriend away. I have been mad at him for leaving for the past 6 months but it's just occurred to me that I was the one that pushed him. We were together for 4 years we really loved each other (firs...

Am I too pessimistic about relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

28 April 2014 (M) - I went out yesterday with some friends and I was looking around me. I kept seeing all sorts of couples hugging, holding hands, kissing, looking happy, etc. There were really a lot of them and I felt a bit sad and awkward. All this was kinda weird ...

Is it wrong to have an intimate relationship with someone who's still married, and connected through family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I am a little confused about family relations. Recently I have been confronted by my aunt's brother in-law whom confessed feelings for me. I too have had feelings for him. My aunt is still married to his brother. However, it has been said they wil...

The memories remain and it still hurts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - ow do you forget someone you used to be in love with? We were on and off for nearly 3 years.We split up due to mutual agreement as we felt it wasn't working. I got my own place a few months later and he got in touch again and visited 3 times. We ...

His focus is not on me anymore. Is this the beginning of the end of our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - I need to start by saying i feel like a stupid teenager for feeling the way i do bout the changes in my relationship. Like i'm being a whiney, clingy, insecure, jealous teeny-bopper. But, this is how I feel, so here goes. We've been together 10 ...

Is it always the guy's fault when things go wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

26 April 2014 (M) - Its going to be a long story so please be patient. In Dec 2010, I met this girl in a party, we clicked instantly and hooked up in the next week itself. 2011 was a breeze, we had an amazing time, took vacations, had sex like crazy. We were a fun co...

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

This question has 66 answers - newest was posted 3845 days ago

26 April 2014 (M) - Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

He says he is unhappy and doesn't want to be with me either.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year and let me just say this has been the hardest relationship I have ever been in! We've had some rough patches in our relationship we both suck at relationships! There's some months when we fight non ...

If I break up, I'll hurt! If I stay, I'll lack trust! What do I choose?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. Four months into our relationship I found out that he cheated on me with F. I confronted him, we fought, he begged for forgiveness and I stayed with him. A year later I found out that he cheated me on ...

Wonderful second weekend date with my ex and now he seems distant! My heart hurts. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - My ex dumped me last year around thanksgiving and it crushed me. We just went on a second weekend date in a beautiful hotel and went to a concert. Then the next day we started our day in the hot tub drinking mimosa's. We continued to drink and ...

I'm done, I want him out, how do I end this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi all, I want to end my relationship with my partner. We have a baby of 10 months and he is drinking again. Binge drinkng, this is day 7 and he has wee'd the bed twice this week. I have weighed up the pro's and con's and the only pro I have ...

I imagined having a boyfriend would be a nice experience, but I find myself alone, fighting to be by the side of a person who is thinking about someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Today is my boyfriend's birthday, we've been together for one month and a half (we were friends before becoming a couple). I baked a cake, bought candles, made a card, bought tons of presents, I just want to make him happy. First thing he ...

He was almost perfect for me. If I should forget him, then how?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - It's been 1 year and I still think about him every day! I met a guy that was almost perfect for me. You know what I mean by "perfect". Like you are the star of a drama/romantic comedy series and he's the guy that all of the show's viewers keep eag...

Does my colleague have bad intentions? He's definitely a bad boy and my engagement nearly ended because of him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - I'm engaged. I became friends with a fellow colleague. He's definitely a bad boy and I've been trying my hardest to stop all connection with him. At first it was harmless I thought and we would just spend short breaks together because we have a lot ...

We began to get close in our 2 month FWB, now he's completely avoiding me. Is this because he has feelings for me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - So I was in a fwb relationship recently for about two months. We began to become very close. We both ended it mutually last week and agreed to be friends still. We work together so it's very hard to deal with. He's completely avoiding me now. Is it ...

I'm not truly happy, should I break up with him and wait for someone I know I will truly be happy with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - ive been with my bf for almost 4 years and things are ok...we argue from time to time but nothing major. i cant say im happy, more like content. hes a nice guy but i cant help feeling like im missing out on something. we dont really have a lo...

If it's over, why does he care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - I had recently connected with an old boyfriend via Facebook. When I was 20 and he was 28 we dated on and off for 3 years but he ended up breaking up with me to marry someone else. We went our separate ways, both married other, had kids etc... ...

I found out my married lover is not planning on getting divorced after all! Who should I confront, him or his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - I fell for my coworker who told me that his wife had left him, only to find out from another colleague that they are actually planning buying a new house together! I feel so stupid and sick to the stomach, but I can't bring myself to say anything...

My granny is still in business with my ex, who dumped me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Is it alright? My boyfriend broke up with me 6 months ago, it wasn't mutual, he wanted out and I was devastated. We met when we were 19 (now 24) and lived together for 4 years in a place owned by my grandparents. He broke up with me in a very cru...

My cheating ex husband is moving on and I am stuck in poverty with the kids!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hi there guys, i really need help. I filed separation from my ex on account of cheating and abusive behaviour about 18 months ago. 2 children remain with me. When they went for a visit to their dad I have come to understand that he's sharing the ...

I am barely treading water in this relationship, holding on by a thread!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 April 2014 (M) - I just found out the other day that my girlfriend of over a year and a half has lost all her passion for the relationship and has been miserable lately and doesn't know how or if we can fix it. My constant worrying of where she's at or what she's ...

My life has been shattered. Where do I go from here?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

21 April 2014 (M) - Where I begin I have no idea? Some of you my find this unbelievable, but I assure you what I am about to tell you is true. Before 2008 my life was really good. I had a great job. Had at the time what I thought was an amazing woman. I had just...

His brother died recently but hes angry at me all of a sudden

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Hi guys and gals! Hopefully theres someone out there who can help give me an insight into a problem I have. I started dating a guy about 2 months ago and it started off brilliantly. He initiated contact with me and we communicated for a few days, ...

On and off for a few years, will it ever get serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - I have been on and off with this guy for a few years now. He's a great guy, he obviously has commitment issues. Do you guys ever hear or see an on and off relationship become solid? Or am I seriously wasting my time? Maybe it's the naïve girl in me ...

He wont ever let me have an opinion.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - I love my boyfriend to death he means every thing to me. Today we got in to a hugh argument. It was over some thing so small. I gave my opinion and he got so mad said I was stupid and called me other names so I stood up and told him i was done and I ...

I can't stop thinking about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - I'm worried about this. My boyfriend and I have had some problems lately. We sorted things out recently, but this is worrying me. I looked on his facebook page today ( he asked me to log in to it, as he wanted to check it on my phone ). I saw some ...

I haven't been able to move on in 3 years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - I need some help! I'm currently sat here in tears... most of my weekends pass this way. I broke up with a guy about 3 years ago. I loved him deeply but messed everything up and after a lot of trying he gave up on me. I haven't moved on. I miss him ...

I'm still missing my ex! I've sent him away again but I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - Hi guys I'm in bit of a pickle right now .. I was in a relationship with a guy for about 2 years and we had a pretty bad break up. He told me many things, I told him many things, he was hurt, I was hurt and we just stopped talking. However, I got in...

Quarter life crisis? Cold feet? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - Where to begin? Maybe it's a quarter life crisis or maybe it's just cold feet? BUT I am having a hard one with something. I've been engaged to my lovely fiancé for a year now and this second year is supposed to be the year we start planning our ...

Break up because I sent him to work?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

20 April 2014 (?) - Met this guy six months ago. Before that he was working but resigned from his job due to a disagreement with his boss. Six months later and he is still unemployed. Talking all this crap on marriage and having kids which i see it as a sacrifice. I ...

Am I stupid for wanting my cheating boyfriend back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

19 April 2014 (F) - Okay so, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months and today I figured out he cheated on me...We have been arguing a lot lately and I heard through a friend that he was cheating and I addressed him about it and told him to be 100% ...

I want to leave my long term partner, but I don't know how.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

18 April 2014 (F) - I need advice on how to leave my long term, live in boyfriend. This is long, I thank anyone who takes the time to read this. We have been together for a long, long time. I am 29 years old. We have been living together for the past year and a...

My new friend has confessed she's in love with me, and I wonder why my ex was so enraged by our friendship! Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3900 days ago

18 April 2014 (F) - I'm in a very weird situation. I broke up with my ex boyfriend last August due to the fact that I was moving away, we ended on extremely good terms and the only reason we broke up was so the distance wouldn't ruin what we had and we could get back...

No longer engaged because of his habit of staring at other women. I don't know what to do!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

18 April 2014 (?) - I've been seeing a guy for 2 years. We generally get on well and plan to live together soon, we got engaged recently - that's on hold now... and I'm really not sure about it all because of one massive aspect of his behaviour. He has had this sta...

Recently single and want to take it slow

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

17 April 2014 (M) - Dear Aunts, I recently ended a very serious long-term relationship with my girlfriend of many years. This was a woman I felt I might marry and the breakup was difficult for me. It made me question a lot about my judgement and indeed whether p...

He stopped talking to me when I 'liked' a picture on facebook

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - Hey ! We only dated for like 2 months, but nothing happened between us because i wasn't ready for a relationship. One year later I contacted him to apologize for my bad behvaviour and that we could be friends. He added me three months ago...

The romance omen and useless love--what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - When it comes to crushes and romance i have nothing but bad luck. I've had so much bad luck i think im a omen the reason i think this is because, everytime i meet someone new or with a friend that is having a bad time with romance within a month of ...

He changed his relationship status and I'm confused!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - Hello all:) okay so here is my question... i met this guy online about 6years ago. A year later i finally agreed to meet him, and it was great - no awkward silences etc. It felt as if i had known him my whole life. he works on cruise ships, an...

I'm afraid of my relationships failing once the "spark" dies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, my question is about infatuation or the "spark", and about my fears of getting into relationships. My last boyfriend dumped me a few months ago. We were together for a year. I really did love him but always had this bad feeling in my gu...

Should I stop seeing him if he doesn't pay for tomorrow's date?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - Is this going to be history repeating itself, and if so, what should I do ?. I used to date a guy whose money would go really quickly when he got paid, and then the week after he got paid, he would ask me for money because he didn't have a...

I don't deserve the way he ended it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - My ex broke up with me over a year. It was nasty. He's my first and it was his longest and the most serious relationship. However, he left without giving me the real reason. I initiated contact a few times. He still told me he loved me, but he never ...

He was chatting with other women while I was helping my dying mother

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - I think I might had been on denial.So many years of marriage and I thought was a good marraige. Problems,yes,some,but I thought we loved each other.I felt that he loved me, he cared for me,but I was kind of doing my best to keep the marriage hap...

I feel like I failed as a girlfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

16 April 2014 (F) - I'm feeling hurt and in need of some advice.. I talked to my ex boyfriend recently (whom I am still in love with) and he said although I was "great" he was unhappy in our relationship. I am very hurt by this because I really tried my absolute best...

Should I go back to my husband with a new set of rules?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - After 5 years of relationship and 10 years of marriage,which both work and I was happy with a lot of things,but in the middle of the marriage things started to happening. At the beginning of our marriage he would play a game like loosing his wall...

I just feel hopeless

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

15 April 2014 (F) - Ive been involved with this guy (b) who is 16 yrs older than i am, our relationship began my i cheated on my ex (A) with him, but my ex (A) was cheating and treating me badly before i met this guy and i use to complain and tell him what was ...