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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey !We only dated for like 2 months, but nothing happened between us because i wasn't ready for a relationship.One year later I contacted him to apologize for my bad behvaviour and that we could be friends. He added me three months ago, I talked to him about this guy I was dating - I just don't understand why he never mentioned his girlfriend. In fact, I just find out when she tagged him in a photo with this text "with my best buddy (so people will not ask him questions" ). Then she comments that she was in love with him, and he answered "me too". She was into him last year when he was into me, so he dated her after.I "liked" this photo so he'll understand I'm ok with the fact that he has girlfriend. But he stopped talking to me since I did.I have only 43 friends on fb, so very close friends and family. I think that if he doesn't consider me as a friend I should delete him from fb - because I just feel like he didn't talk about her, because he wants to keep his options open. What do you think ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2014): I think you have a need for his approval or acceptance. You barely got to know him. Then a year passes and suddenly and you must apologize to him.
I think maybe you wanted to be "friended" on Facebook for access to his personal activities and messages; to keep tabs on his status and availability.
If he stopped talking to you, so what? You were decent enough to apologize and offer him your friendship. I don't think you should place much significance in what's happening in his personal-life; because it really has nothing to do with you. He only knew you two months, you broke-up, and he didn't hear from you for a year.
What do you expect?
Delete him. Out of sight, out of mind. Besides, he has a girlfriend. He didn't have to mention that, if he isn't interested in you romantically. Now you know.
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reader, PeanutButter +, writes (17 April 2014):
 Unfortunately you might never really know what happened here but things weren't going anywhere with you and him because you weren't ready and so he moved on and found someone else and maybe he wanted to keep his options open but maybe he thought you were a decent friend and maybe he deleted you because it was awkward after he realized you saw he had moved on or maybe his girlfriend asked him to delete you because she felt uncomfortable with you being there, who knows!
I would just leave it all in the past and move on, he isn't worth the trouble :)
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reader, CMMP +, writes (17 April 2014):
I think you're thinking too much.
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