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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Broke up with bf.. but now he's being mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Ok - I broke up with my ex almost 2 weeks ago and have been NC since. I broke it off, because he was distant and not giving me enough attention, and gave me the impression he wanted out of the relationship but wanted me to end it... so I did. He's ...

Do you think this is a legitimate reason to end an engagement?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - Is this a legitimate reason to end an 3 month engagement and a four year relationship? February 25th 2013, I’m 23 and my ex-fiancé is the same age. 4 months ago my fiancé broke up with me because of something I did, or rather did not do, a few da...

Is it true that if you've been hurt in a relationship you shouldn't compare others to your bad experience?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

28 February 2013 (M) - I wont bother telling you the background of me and the girl I was dating for just about 3 months, I'm just interested by her comment and wanted to know what you guys can make of it... My best friend saw her last night and said he spoke to her and...

Married 15 months. Yet without telling me he's resigned his job and left me. How can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - please help me !!! We have been married for the past 15 months. For the past 6 months we have been facing a lot of issues in our profssional and personal life. He started beating me abusing and so did I One morning he told me he is leaving the...

It seemed like he liked me. But then nothing? How can I shake off these feelings I developed for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I really don't know how to explain my situation. Okay, this guy and I have been friends about three months and I went down there to see my sister and this guy and I hooked up at the party she threw. He had spent the night with me and one thing le...

I don't like him but I don't want to hurt him by breaking up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - ok so i been dating this boy for 2 weeks and i feel so embarrssed like everyone says im to pretty for him and that he is ugly and stuff and i just feel sad and im not attracted to him either and he is in love with me and im afraid if i break up with ...

I miss him and don't want to be with anyone else but he doesn't want a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Please Help! I was in a 5year relationship that ended less then a year ago. He actually broke up with me over text because he couldn't face me. The reason our relationship failed was bc I wanted to get married and he didn't. Marriage scared ...

My boyfriend was caught chatting up another girl over facebook. Do I dump him, or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months now. So far are three months up to now had been perfect, no argueing, no fights, no huge issues, everything had been smooth and lovely. I was ...

Its been 18 months since the break up. How long before I get my ex out of my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - How long til I can finally get my ex out of my head? We were only together two years, during which time we had a relatively up and down relationship, mainly due to circumstances. He was close to his ex which I didn't like, I often put my friends ...

Boyfriend broke up saying he had never felt like marrying me..something was wrong. I want him back though!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I celebrated our two year anniversary at the beginning of February and he dumped me over the phone 11 days later. We were in what I considered to be a very committed relationship--sure we had never talked about marriage but to ...

Is this how boys are? How can I get over this betrayal? He told me his actions are "part of being a liar"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My b.f told me that I’m 6 month solder than he is and that he want to breakup... When we met he lied to me and said that he was 18years old, I just can’t forget all he said to me. I asked him to tell me the reason why he made a lot of promises to m...

We broke up but it hurts so much. If I leave it too long, to contact her, will she will settle in with her new choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - So i was in this wonderfull relationship, with my girlfriend for 2 years, We are both in our 20s Over the past couple months our relationship has gotten worse. We were not very close, i tried to do what i could but i guess it wasn't enough or the r...

How could he break up with me again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I'm feeling a little lost after my recent breakup. My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years. He initially broke up with me a year in a half into the relationship saying he was unhappy. Six months of on/off playing around we officall...

Any tips on coping with the stress and co-parenting with a jerk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Majorly stressed out with work. I work from home so my son doesn't have to go to daycare full time-but this means that 4 hours of my work day, he is here (makes it very hard to get work done!) My job is very stressful and doesn't pay well. Anyw...

Is this relationship salvageable or should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I have had a bad marriage the last 2 years. We've been married 14 years. He turned into a workaholic and I was lonely. I started hanging out with friends. A few were guys. He avoided me by working all the time. I developed an add...

He went to visit his ex and is not back yet. Should I wait or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My man found out he has a 14 yr old daughter just recently. He went to visit her on 2/12/13 and hasn't returned yet. I know her mother wants to be with him again. His daughter is having problems in school. My question is should i move on or wa...

Can one waste so much time thinking about the ex that one could miss out on what could be true love? how can one stop dwelling on the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Bit of a general question here, but if you are trying to get over an ex, how are you supposed to know when to give up wondering and hoping? What if you decide to give up and then you never rrally find true love because you were meant to be with the...

Am I finally over my ex? Because I don't feel anything or even care about him anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Does this mean i'm finally over my ex? I've stopped thinking about him as much as I used to, which was a lot! I can think about our memories and him and i don't tear up or feel sad, but just think of how it was a happy point in my life. I don't fi...

Am I unreasonable as he claims? My 8 years older ex can be thoughtless, inconsiderate, and does not listen.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem with my boyfriend, who is 25 (8 years in my senior). We've been going out since October. Recently we have been having many disagreements and I find myself craving more from him. We split up recently due to that, bu...

What goes through a man's mind after a breakup? Can they really feel nothing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend, of 2.5 years, a week ago today. I'm struggling to even make it through the day. I'm truly heartbroken. He was the first man I'd ever fallen in love with. He's 34 and I'm 30. The reason I broke it off was because after ...

Is my girlfriend having second thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - I have only been with this girl for a few weeks. she recently broke up with her boyfriend of two years after they were constantly arguing and she felt that they needed to call it quits. she has been with me since then and then she broke up with me ...

He's not fighting to keep me in his life! I'm gutted. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I am distraught. Me and my boyfriend have broken up. We were together tabout 4 months. I have always suffered with confidence and low sef esteem. I dont tink ive trusted him from day 1. He never gave me any reason not to trust him. It...

I lost my overseas b/f because he found out what I do for a living!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I'm 22 years professional bargirl in thailand, I had boyfriend for 5 month overseas, I love he very much. But he find out of my work and now he finish me and say he want no more to know me. He a very nice man with good heart, not like the no ...

My g/f broke up with me saying she needs to find herself but wants to be friends

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - Hi,I'm 20 years old and me and my girlfriend were dating for 3 years. She left me yesterday telling me that she wants to be my friend again and that she needs to find her own identity.Please help.I really want to get her back....

I want him back, but I don't want to go back to somebody that is just going to hurt me like that again. Any advice for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hello! I am having major heart anxiety and I do not know what to do. I have been dating and been hopelessly in love with a guy since the beginning of my junior year in high school. We were together for almost two years, but about seven months a...

Was breaking up the ideal solution?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (M) - Hi everyone. Here goes. I broke up with my girlfriend ~1 month ago. We are both university students. She is an undergraduate student and I am a graduate student; I work full-time all year and I get 3 weeks off. We had been dating for 14 months. E...

We are friends, dated, now we are living together and are FWB, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3859 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok so me and this guy have known each other for like 11 years our family went to high school together. anyway we tried dating like 3 years ago and well i had my head up my ass and i just stopped talking to him and he got in contact with me and he ...

I thought he was the one. How could I have been so wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - We were together for a year. We connected on so many levels (emotionally, intellectually, physical intimacy). I've had many relationships before. I've even been married once. Never have I been so happy as I was with him. He broke up with me on the ...

How can I resolve the fact that I am torn between the man I love and what I think will make me happy in the long run?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My partner is 30 and I am 20, we love each other and I think he is my soulmate. I just wish I had met him 10 years ago and things would have been different. He has two kids with his ex and they live with her. He visits them in the holidays and...

The one thing I always wanted was passion. Just broke up. Am I asking too much? Wanting passion in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I was wondering if the idea of real romance like in the movies is really impossible to find in relationships? Of course I realize they are only movies but a girl can dream right? I always hated romance movies because I think yeah right! But ther...

I don't want to divorce. Yet what can I do? Since retiring my husband likes to behave like a bachelor.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I am a 55 year and a working adult. My marriage was never and easy one because our was a arranged marriage. I have been married for 35 year. My spouse is a highly egoistic character. Since day one i was not able to communicate with my husband....

Is my Bf mean to tell me, "if you wore make up you could look as good as other girls"?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend makes me feel insecure then gets mad if I ask questions about him having his exs numbers/if he see's then ect. He confuses me cos he says such sweet things sometimes but then he says things like "if you wore make up you could look as ...

I'm confused, disappointed and insecure since I found he's been having sexy talks with an ex. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have been engaged to my fiance since December, but we have been dating for a year. My first husband and I were married for five years and he had a heart attack and passed away a year before I met my current fiance. My fiance had been in a ro...

He broke up with me. I "lost" it . Should I apologize to him for how I acted and try to accept the breakup?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - last night my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years together. i took it pretty bad. he said he was no longer happy and doesnt think we are a good match anymore. i cried and begged him to try to work things out but he's firm about it being ove...

Relationship ending due to cheating but stuck in an apartment together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 February 2013 (M) - hi Im really hard a time thinking about this me and my ex gf of almost 4 years broke up with me she said she couldn't love me anymore because she cheated on me she says she doesnt want me to get hurt anymore, i did forgive her for the cheating, i ...

How can I get out of this unhappy situation? He says a divorce will be worse on the kids than us being unhappy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - I have been married for 14 years and have 3 kids under 10. My husband and I dated for 6 years before getting married. I am absolutely miserable in my marriage. My husband is emotionally abusive...a true narcissist. It has taken me too long and ...

He broke my hear, yet he won't leave me alone. What are my options in this situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

24 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of two years decided a week before christmas break was over and he went back to school that he wanted a break because he feels we are too young to be tied down. He's in his second year of college and I get that he feels that he hasn'...

Should I dump my boyfriend because he doesn't spend time with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4282 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Whn ever my boyfrnd is workng he neglects me. he does not spend time with me especially on a pay day now i dont knw what must i do i think i should dump him bt i lov him too much to loose him! i dont knw what to do plz plz help me...

Confused about whether or not to end this relationship. The pros and cons are equal.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Recently I have been thinking about ending my relationship but I'm so unsure whether I am making the right decision or not. I love my boyfriend so much, but at the same time he drives me so mad that I don't know if I could be in this relationship ...

What we had together was amazing. Why did my commitment phobic guy cut me off the way he did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - I dated this guy for a year. He was commitment phobic from the start because he had some horrible experiences in his past, but we decided to go with the flow, because the chemistry and compatibility between us were very strong. In fact I woul...

Did I ruin things? How can I get things back to the way we were at the start, flirting and saying nice things to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - Dating advice needed! Recently my school talent show was on and I took part in it! I became really close to this boy, the DJ, and I slowly started to love him. We got so close at the show and I was disappointed when it was over because I thought we ...

What should I do about this baby Dad Drama, caused by his new GF? I need help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

23 February 2013 (F) - My child's father and I have been really going through the drama. His new girlfriend is the cause of it. She does things to influence our arguing I'm honestly tired out of fighting and I'm tired of her causing problems I talked to him about ...

I really want a baby. I'm trying IVF. But have personal troubles with my new man, who is critical of me. Is it a cultural thing? What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for three months, getting on really well. We both currently live in Thailand, working together and spending all our time together. Up until now it's been great. Feel very relaxed around each other and open about everythi...

What strategies will help me identify a good man who will step up and stay around like my husband, who accepted my bisexuality?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4287 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I'm a single mother of two, separated from my husband of 19 years two years ago, finally dating, can't seem to find and keep a good man, a man like my husband who accepted that Im bisexual and will allow me to have flings with women while he stays...

Should I reconsider or consider reconnecting with my ex again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I've been on a constant cycle of emotions this past month and a half, it seemed that every time someone spoke about my ex, or when i talked about him, or of course just thinking about when we were together, all of this always made me feel upset or ...

Do I move on to a great job? Or to a guy I love, but who isn't right for me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Hi all! I have a dilemma guys, Basically I have the option of moving down south of my country to a really good job or I have the opportunity to move up north of my country to an ok job but the guy I like lives there. That guy and I dated f...

She was his next Gf after he broke up with me. She and I have been talking. He has been violent with her too. Is it wrong to talk to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - Ok, bear with me please, as this will be a long question, but i really need help. I broke up with my boyfriend two years agp. We were together for a year and a half. He was violent and jealous. But i went back to him several times during these tw...

Should my ex-sister in law and I start a real relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4288 days ago

22 February 2013 (M) - My wife and I split up a few years ago. We are still friends, there is no relationship. Recently after her mom passed away, I went to her mom's house to help ready the house for sale. Her brother and his wife showed up to help. The brother'...

Broke up with boyfriend.. but he joins me on xbox?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4289 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend, of 2.5 years, 3 days ago and have been NC since. He'd started being distant and this was a problem I'd had for months. He said he wanted to be with/loved me but the distance was too much. I assumed he was waiting for me ...

Are my intentions with my ex creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4286 days ago

22 February 2013 (F) - I'm 17 and I was in a relationship with a dude for 5 months. It was amazing. I know I'm only 17, but it just clicked and we are basically the same. Other boys scare me, and other girls scare him. We are both awkward. We laugh about sex. We only met...