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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Now that she appears to have moved on I miss her in my life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

31 December 2013 (M) - Can someone help me understand this. I broke up with this girl about 7 months ago and I wont go into what happened and why I ended it. But it wasn't a nice break up, I ended it in a terrible way, unintentionally of course but as a result I was a j...

Is my ex a player?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - three weeks ago I moved out of my partner's home after being together for 3 years with my son. My reasons being that our relationship had become physically abusive and cold where i felt i couldn't trust myself any longer to be sane around him as we ...

How do I convince my girlfriend to have an abortion?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

30 December 2013 (M) - Hello All, Need your help urgently on a matter. I am 28 and my gf is 31 and we have a relationship of 3 years that is not approved by either her family or mine as we have different religions. All through 2013 we have been having problems ...

He feels our relationship is not healthy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 28 years old and my boyfriend is 27. We have been together for almost a year now. Everything was great and he always treats me like a queen. But recently, we started to fight over stupid little things. Due to that, he has tri...

I work with my ex-boyfriend's new fiancée and hearing about their perfect life together is painful for me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Me and my teenage sweetheart were together for 5 years when he broke up with me by text. Although we have been apart 2 years i really miss him. To make matters worse i work with his new girlfriend on a daily basis and he has just asked her to marry...

My ex's friend said he fancies me more than my ex does!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - I got a text from my ex a couple of days ago saying "I want you. I love you. ", and he said it was him texting me, and he was using his friend's phone. He has used his friends phone to text me before when he has no credit on his phone. I also got a ...

Is this a mid life crisis or can men change so quickly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I had casually been seeing a guy for a year, I wanted a relationship but he didn't as he "doesn't have relationships" and I know this to be true. He had his life and I had mine, we never went out, only saw each other behind closed doors (again his ...

She's no good but I can't stop loving her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - I've no idea what to do? I feel like I've tried everything. I met a girl years ago who I thought was the woman of my dreams. She's beautiful, and she's been successful in life. I discovered she was cheating and as a result we split up. For...

Wait for the ex, or be with the new guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I broke up with my ex of almost two years way back in February. Things started off well in the relationship, but gradually things went downhill. He only had a job for the first two months of our entire relationship, and I was the one that had to pay ...

Overwhelmed with grief at relationship breakup. Should I move out now? Or wait until I move shortly to another country?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4008 days ago

27 December 2013 (M) - Hello everyone, Thank you for reading this, all advice is really appreciated! I will reply in the best way I can. My (ex)girlfriend was pregnant and we had a baby together. This was a total shock and we decided to stay together even thoug...

Do we break up now - with a wedding in vicinity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - I had a habit of saying its not working anymore and lets break up which used to have a dramatic affect on my year old bf and he used to do everything possible to pacify me and drop the argument. However today he was done with me and said I am not ...

My married man loves me but can't be with me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Please bear with this long story. I am unmarried and in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I recently moved to a different country and there I met a guy friend. We both are aware of our situation from the very beginning when we first ...

Should I continue dating someone I know will leave within the year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - I've been dating for 3 months a guy that i know is leaving in a year. He is military and he is only temporarily stationed here. I love spending time with him and we get along great. But he has told me time and time again that he doesn't believe in ...

Why is he keeping me in his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - Merry Xmas to you all, and thank u in advance for reading this. I don't know if my situation is rectifiable or not, so if anybody can help me sort this one I will be truly grateful and if I'm being honest kind of surprised! I know there doesn't so...

Am I overthinking because of guilt or did he really care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I had been dating my ex-bf for 8 months before he dumped me saying "we are comfortable but it doesnt mean it's going anywhere.". when I asked him if he figured he wanna break up with me two weeks before (which is when I felt like he started becoming ...

After his cruel and bewildering attack it is as if I never existed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I was married for 19 years, no children, knew my ex for 22 years. He filed for divorce and i was not aware of anyone else on the scene. I got to hear about divorce not from him but solicitors email to me... I returned home to a half empty house. He ...

Overbearing in-laws since day one! Do I walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

25 December 2013 (M) - I have married for almost seven years, I am not a young person and this is my second marriage. But I have been having with over bearing inlaws since day one. At first it was just little comments from my father In law about things I might do around ...

Is it better for me to forgive my ex or hate him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - I was with my ex for 4 years(including 2 years LDR). We're in different countries. We planned to meet after he graduated from graduate school and while we're dating, he gave me commitment and talked about getting married. He dumped me 6 months ago, ...

I want to be proactive about ending this relationship, but how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 18 months. He has let me down over money, flirting and not taking enough responsibility. He is not a bad person but I met him when I was at a low point after divorce and we dont have much in common. I feel I have put a ...

Does she want to try again? Can someone give me some insight into what she is suggesting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

23 December 2013 (M) - Hi I'll try keep this short , about four month ago I pulled a girl in town and we started to see each other, she wanted to take it slow so I agreed with her as I really liked her, it went downhill when I introduced her on a night out to my best ...

I love her but I want to move on now. How can I make this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - Hi Everyone. Merry Christmas to you all, and thank you for taking time to read this. I will keep it as brief as I can, but I could really do with some help and guidance here. I initially met the love of my life 3 years ago (just to clarify, we...

He keeps telling me he is going to break up with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

23 December 2013 (?) - My boyfriend kissed me when he was trying to break up with me yesterday. I found that to be confusing in itself. Then 15 minutes later he changed his mind and was all over me and said he wants to be with me and wants me to be his girlfriend!!! ...

Should I distance myself from my boyfriend while I sort out my mental health issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I hope I can receive some advice or opinion from others. A few weeks or so ago I spent time in a psychiatric hospital. I had a break down and was diagnosed with post traumatic stress disorder because of trauma suffe...

My girlfriend told me she doesn't like girls anymore then broke up with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - My gf of 6yr recently up n told me she doesnt like girls anymore but she loves me. I asked how is that possible and she said it faded. So we ended up breaking up and getting bk together and she started acting distant from me. I came home fromwrk ...

His ex wife wants him back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Well hello I really need some help... I been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he has two kids with his ex wife... Things have been great with us and he has been there for me through everything... I love his children too... The day w...

How To Get Through The Holidays After A Breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3965 days ago

21 December 2013 (?) - It is approaching the Holidays and the New Year, and many of us ended relationships in the year 2013. Some of you have been single following a breakup for a lot longer; but you start to reminisce about the good old times, when you were all cozy with ...

He was still trying to see me while he has a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - I was dating my ex for 3 months, I broke it off with him. While I was being completely honest, faithful and trustworthy in the relationship he was not, he lied to me about not having social media sites and I basically caught him lying, not to ...

I feel uncomfortable that my B/f''s ex is still a part of his little sisters life as well as his

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Wondering what people think of this because I find it kind of odd. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. My boyfriend has a little sister who is 5. When him and his ex girlfriend dated for 2 years, she became really close to his littl...

Do you think it's okay to wish my ex Happy Christmas next week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

20 December 2013 (M) - I dated someone I was really keen on for a couple of months, however she broke up with me because I had to move away. She said an LDR was too hard and she wanted to be friends as she said I was still important to her. I got annoyed and we didn't end ...

I thought I had moved on fully, until my ex told me he is doing the same. How to cope with these mixed feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

20 December 2013 (F) - My divorce was just finalized a few weeks ago, and my ex husband just told me today he plans to introduce our son to someone. I'm experiencing confusing feelings. Mostly, I feel angry because he only sees our son twice a month and I don't understand ...

Has anyone used a 'safe' option to reclaim self-esteem and then dumped 'safe' for 'hot'?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

19 December 2013 (M) - Hello, Have any of you ladies on here suffered with some depression, low self esteem and insecurities to the point that while seeing a hot man, you can't enjoy it for the endless worrying that he will dump you for someone better? So, you end up d...

Any sayings that make you feel better after a breakup?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

17 December 2013 (M) - Hi, Has anyone got any good sayings that make you feel better and help forget, get over a relationship that is or hasn't worked out? For example, I saw a good one "If you are left wondering were you are stood, it's time to stop standing and sta...

I was SO in love with him! Can someone help me figure out why I feel disconected now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

17 December 2013 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am in a situation that I need help with. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years. When i first met him I fell a connection right away. I was the one who pursued him and I was the one who initially wanted to be i...

How can I look at things differently, so that I don't think all my relationships are doomed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

17 December 2013 (F) - So aunts and uncles, I need some pointers here! I am about to go on a date soon with a friend of 6 years. He has been with me through the ups and downs of my bad relationships in the past. So obviously we have gotten close. He's such a sweet, ca...

Is it ever a good idea to get back together with an ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

17 December 2013 (F) - Do any of you think it's ever a good idea to get back with an ex? I broke up with my ex in February (after we had been together for a year) and starting in June we had about 6 months of no contact. (fyi, he's 29 and i'm 23) Neither one of u...

Do I reply to his lovely response?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 December 2013 (F) - Hello aunties and uncles I was friends with a man for over 5 years, he's 3 years younger than me.. During the first 6 months we had a fling, and then we became just friends. I fell in love with him and all the way through our friendship I yea...

4.5 months after the break up and still struggling to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3485 days ago

16 December 2013 (F) - It's been 4.5 months since my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me. He's my first bf. My life's back to normal, I've been meeting new people, got a new hobby and loving it, going out with friends and having fun. I know I don't love him anymore...

I don't want to lose my friends but don't want to lose the chance of getting my ex back either!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

16 December 2013 (M) - Hi Everyone, I have had a pretty rough year, And now I'm in an even more messed up situation. Back at the start of the year i resigned from a job i hated doing to pursue some study and get into a real job i enjoy (Which i can now say has h...

He wants to go "no contact" after our breakup but the pain is unbearable for me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

15 December 2013 (F) - hello, I need some advise. I am in the in the mids of breaking up with my bf with whom I am with for 4 years. Is there anyone there who could help me lessen the pain a bit? I have read everywhere that the no contact rule should be applied but I do...

I don't understand why he broke up with me. Will giving him time help me get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 December 2013 (F) - I ve been with my ex for 4,5 years...it was long distance relationship but we were seeing each other very often and planning for me to move to his country and start living together next year,once i am done with my faculty. We had really strong r...

Should I break up with my girlfriend because of her family's reputation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 December 2013 (M) - Helo friends today after a lil bit of long time I again want your help.....actually i m in a relationship with s gal from last 1 nd half year,we both are happy together but their is a big problem about their family that I came to know before a week ...

Can someone who fell out of love fall back in love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

15 December 2013 (F) - My bf of 2 years just broke up with me with saying, he fell out of love. He tells me this has been going on for a few months and he doesn't think he can recover from it. He was so much in love with me. I was the center of his attention. We talked a...

Why cant I leave this bad situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

14 December 2013 (F) - Well I have been on and off with my boyfriend for five years! He has confessed to cheating on me, and Well there has been many times where he has been emotionally abusive, calling me names, even physically! But I would go back to him! Things have ...

I'm about to break up with my B/f and I feel nothing during sex..no physical or emotional connection. Does this mean that sex is all about how you feel for that person?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3751 days ago

14 December 2013 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles. I am in the process of leaving a 3 year relationship,it been tough,and volitile,but I.m finding it a bit difficult to let go of the last bit. It.s literally on it.s last legs. My question is this. The last few times I had sex ...

Is this desire to leave my husband a temporary phase?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) - I don'tknow if i am the only one Who experience this feeling, but lately it overwhelms me and makes me feel restless. Short story: 20 years of marriage, 2 kids are in college, last year we are empty nesters. I was stay at home mom. When first ...

Should I send this letter to my narcissistic ex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) - My ex dumped me 6 months ago. A few months ago after I read something on the Internet, I realized that I'm a narcissist victim. I'm trying to move on, but I still think about him a lot. The last time i sent him a message was 2 months ago and he ...

In an unhappy relationship. Should I pursue things with the other man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 December 2013 (F) - Looking for some advise, I've been with my partner for 23 years. 6 years ago we split up for two years, in that time I met someone else and was with them for seven months. When that finished a while after I got back with my long term partner. Thi...

Is there a way to platonically get to know my crush more, or does he already assume that I'm interested in more than that? Also, what should I do about the current situation with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for about 2 years, and we've been best friends for 3 or 4 years prior to that. We get along great for the most part, and it's really hard to picture what my life would be like without him since we know each ...

We were in a relationship but now we are just FWB!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - I need help please. I recently got back with my ex- we broke up at the end of october but then started talking again and things are the same as if we had been dating. he had referred to us as friends with benefits-something we were a few years back ...

My first love has moved on, but I can't seem to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - Hi... I am a 21 year old girl nursing a broken heart. I've done many stupid things during the past year. And now I wish none of them happened. I wish I could change things but I know there's no point of wishing that, and I can't change life or ...