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writes:I dated someone I was really keen on for a couple of months, however she broke up with me because I had to move away. She said an LDR was too hard and she wanted to be friends as she said I was still important to her. I got annoyed and we didn't end very well, she told me to never contact her again. Three weeks on, I haven't, but do you think it's okay to wish her Happy Christmas next week, or do you think that I'm sad, pathetic?. I'm pretty sure she is dating someone now though.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (22 December 2013):
 I can understand the temptation, but I don't think you should act on it.
She's your ex and has asked you not to contact her again. Doing so would blur the line and leave her questioning your intentions. It would look as though you're using Christmas to inch your way back into her life.
Leave it alone. Maybe one day you two can be civil, if you ever bump into each other again, but not enough time has passed for that yet.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (21 December 2013):
 She doesn't want contact, so I'd respect that and not take advantage of an excuse to contact her - even if your intentions are full of good will towards men and all that. I don't think you're sad or pathetic for missing her or wanting to get back on the right foot with her, but I think you'll come off as someone who can't take a hint and move on. Don't worry... life will keep moving along and you'll get back on your feet!
Happy holidays!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (20 December 2013):
 No, it's NOT okay....
You finished the break-off and SHE said, "don't contact me again."
Where's there any question, here?????
Merry Christmas
P.S. If you DO go through with this contact, THAT will be sad and pathetic.....
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 December 2013):
 I'm not sure I see the point in you wishing her Merry Christmas, but if you want to for no other reason then to extend Christmas wishes to an ex I can't see why not.
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