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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I cheated on my LDR g/f, am ready to end things but how do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - I have been dating the same girl for three years, but we recently broke up to give each other distance. We still talk everyday and act like a couple, yet I made out with a new girl I met the other day.it was a one time thing and I feel absolutely ...

When is a good time to start doing things like going and hanging out with friend, activating my Facebook again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello .. Well my boyfriend has broken up with me,and this isn't the first time it's happened. He said he couldn't trust me,i've never cheated or lied but he has and he thought i would try to get back at him for it,but i wouldn't have done anythi...

My Gay crush .Want to move on and forget. How can I understand why I'm so affected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this...

How do I break up with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello, everyone. I have a few important questions: should I break up with my boyfriend? if so, then how i do let him know my decision? if he handles it badly, how do i handle him? if i handle the break up badly, how do i handle myself? if i ...

He blames me for all of our relationship troubles

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Well here goes it all started in march 2011 I met this truly wonderful guy well at least at that time I thought he was. we first slept together when I was 17 then by june of that year we split up I saw a dramatic change in him. he was very bad temp...

I don't really believe him about the Facebook fiasco but I don't know why he would lie about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - dear cupid, soo, about a month ago, i asked for advice on here after i found out that my ex-boyfriend (with whom i am basically back together with now) was hiding things from me on facebook; the name of the question was, "should i not make a big d...

I'm wondering if he will ever forgive me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - So I have been dating this amazing guy for 5 months and about a month ago things started getting rough. He said work was super stressful and he didn't have any time anymore. I tried really hard to respect him and give him his space but it got to ...

I want to know how can I get back with my ex or should I even try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - My ex-girlfriend dumped me in september last year, before that we'd been going out for about a year and a half. She'd broken up with me once before that, but we got back together less than a week later, and we spent the time apart talking and acting ...

You'd think that after over 7 years together he would know! And the cheating thing still bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hello, I wondered if you could share any thoughts on my situation please? My boyfreind cheating on me about three years ago (I know he did as I heard something I shouldnt have) I cannot confirm it with him as he point blank denies it but whilst I ...

I want to break up with my boyfriend but his mom will be my teacher next year! Should I go ahead anyway?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - i want to break up with my boyfriend because he has been talking with my emeny but the thing is that his mom will be my science teacher next year and tennis person, should i still break up with him?...

What should I do? I apologized for making him angry

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for a month or two. He was texting me some weird poetry. All I said was I hope you aren't faking it/ getting it from a book. As he's never said these things face to face to me. Then he cracked it and said its over. I ...

I know I should give her space but I just cant let her go! How do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - We were together for two years and known eachother for twenty. The anticipation built up and we didn't even know until we finally got together. We were so in love like nothing imaginable. Going to get married have kids the whole nine. I screwed up ...

I broke up with him in a moment of anger and now I want him back, how do I make him understand I want to make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Hi,i was wondering if anyone could help me. Ive been in a long distance relationship for two years now, everything was great, were in love and then one night we got inna fight and after he apoligized to me he starting to be a real *dick over the ...

Am I still I love with my ex? How do I get those old feeling to go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - In the past year I've started seeing a boy that my family and peers looked down upon. They hated his guts. But I loved everything about this guy. He had all the qualities i was looking for. When we met I wasnt looking for love. I stumbled upon him. ...

Girlfriend "moved on" while I was deployed, what happens now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - I was dating my ex for close to a year before I was deployed in October. My deployment was originally scheduled to last for 6 months, but was extended twice so now I'm scheduled to return from my deployment in about a month (9 months). The majority ...

Do I send him a nasty letter or completely ignore him ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, well the last couple of days have been traumatic for me to say the least, we had finished the relationship and i was doing fine, i text him to say basically do what you have to do but dont include me. He then said I had his motivati...

I have this "shell" around me, I don't let people in that easily!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - In the past few months, i met a guy and started talking to him. We clicked right away, we had similar personalities, we understood each other pretty well. I have this "shell" around me, i don't let people in that easily and i'm so afraid of reject...

I am feeling guilty over my friend with benefits!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - Hi I just need some advice on this please have I been unfair in this situation I was in a fwb for 14 months which I wasn't happy with as I was left feeling so used all the time then I found out by three people that knew him that he was married he ...

My boyfriend has feelings for his best friend so I broke up with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - so i told my boyfriend. about this website and how you could ask for advice. and its confidential so he went on and he asked a question" saying i am 16 male. ive been with my girlfriend for 8 months but i have sum feelings for my besfriend should i ...

My ex has turned her back on everyone, what's up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - So my girlfriend suddenly broke up with me 4 weeks ago. The weekend before we had been on a nice weekend trip, everything was fine. She had moved here from another state with her best friend (another girl) and we almost instantly started dating. ...

Am I wrong to date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - This one might be a little long, so I apologize in advance. October 3rd 2011, I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 happy months. It might seem like a short time we were together, but we spent every day of it together so it certainly felt longer than...

I've lost the attraction. Do I keep trying or break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - I'm in what used to be a horrible relationship. To name just a few problems, my girlfriend used to spend hours insulting me and finding my flaws, she often unfavorably compared me to her exes, often threatened with a break up if I do something she ...

I'm struggling to move on after break up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I know that it could be worse, but I just came out of a four year relationship with a guy who I grew up with. It ended because while we tried to do the long distance thing for the last six months, he 'suddenly' felt like he couldn't take it anymore, ...

Should I stay in an unhappy marriage for the sake of my son?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Hi everyone! Lately I’ve been thru a hard time with my husband (we’re not officially married, but living together for 3 years), we’re both 32 yo, we have a son together of 2 years old. We’re from different countries and currently living in South-...

My girlfriend left me in a bad state

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4588 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - I had relationship with my gf for almost 1 year. in this period of time we had many fighting about Unimportant problems.I loved her but she was ordering me to do what she wanted. in all dispute I was Placating. recently I got sick and had terrific...

How can you be friends with an ex after they've broken your heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - im heartbroken :( my boyfriend broke up with me 2 days ago, on sunday night we had an argument because we werent going to see each other that night and we both have a lot of seperate plans over the next few weekends, on top of his work commitments ...

My ex didn't seem to care so why did he send a message after our breakup acting like he cared?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Hello everyone! Last Sunday, I broke up with my "boyfriend" of 2 months. We are both on an exchange student programme in Europe, so we both live away from our countries (I come from Greece, he comes from Spain), me for 6 months, and he is here f...

My boyfriend doesn't care about his education, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for almost 2 years now. He initially told me he'd gotten his high school diploma but then told me the truth that he dropped out at 15. He's asked me for help which I try to do by asking every once and a while when he ...

I want to end it with my BF but don't have the courage. Can he sense I'm detaching?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Hi All, I have been with my BF for 16 months and am really close to breaking up with him, as I have found it hard, work, him secretive and I suspected him of cheating, although I cannot prove it. Can guys sense it when you are detaching? I have ...

Can't stop thinking about my ex having sex with another guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship that lasted a year and a half. She's in the US and I'm in the UK. She visited me and stayed here for a month and a half. Everything was fine until this April. We had an argument which made me react by blocking ...

He's basically said that when I leave in 3 months, our relationship is over. I'm heartbroken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - I met a guy 7months ago whilst on a gap year. He's 8 years older than me and we live near each other back home (about 500km)... We started dating straight away and moved together after 3 months (hasty I know but as we're both here temporar...

She cheated twice but I still love her, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 May 2012 (M) - Hey guys, i need some advice. My girlfriend and i have been together for roughly 2 and half years. We live in the same home town but go to school 5 hours apart. We wanted to make the long distance relationship work. At the beginning of the year it ...

He can't move on after our one night stand. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - Hello there, I wanted to ask help to solve this problem that i have. 4 years ago im working in a department store when i met this guy. At our first meeting he ask for my number. And because of my co-workers that are teasing me i don't have any ...

How do you break up with least amount of pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

23 May 2012 (M) - I've posted before e.g. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/maybe-i-do-lack-empathy-but-has-my.html I think the time has come to move on. My question is how do you break up in the least painful way possible? We share a house (mine), we share f...

Is it possible to be stuck with somebody?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - is it possible to be stuck with somebody? is my question to you guys. ive been with a guy for 5 yrs and we are going no where in life. im getting my life together on my own i just recently got my GED and im 3 classes shy away from getting my a...

Ex bf in contact and wants to go out. Should I be hopeful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - Hey guys, I posted here a while ago regarding a break up with my bf of almost 3 years. This happened about 3 weeks ago. When he broke up with me he said he didn't feel the same way anymore. Anyway so I have been super strong and have not contacte...

How do I let my ex know that I miss him and would like to try again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - My ex broke up with me a week ago....and I still want him. I fell for him really hard and wasn't sure where I stood with him. It lead up to a big argument causing us not to speak for a while and then he said wanted to stay friends (we were friends ...

Moving on after three years

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (M) - How do I move on? When I was a freshman in high school, I met this Senior. We got along very well. We dated for a year, then broke up, mainly because she went to college. Coming back for the summer, she informed me of the times she cheated on m...

Despite everything he did, I want him back. Is there still a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - On another note, do I still have a chance with my ex? We were together for 2 years and 4 months. I broke it off in October because he was an ^^^^le to me. He'd do drugs and drink and wouldn't let me hang out with my friends. He's a college fres...

I need help understanding how things are now in my relationship life please help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

21 May 2012 (M) - I feel so confused at the moment due to recent problems in my relationshiP my girlfriend and I have went separate ways for now but we stay in contact waiting to see when the right time is to get back together we still tell each other that we love ...

I'm lost with no direction after a long-term relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (M) - Me and my ex broke up about 8 months ago and in that time I was going through a roller coaster of emotions because before we broke up we took a break and she left with some other guy, I couldnt handle the fact that she did that, so we officially ...

Dumped on my birthday and I have no idea why!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

20 May 2012 (M) - Am feeling pretty fragile at the moment and in a state of shock and am hoping someone will offer me some advice. Have been in a relationship for the last 6 years and without warning and without any clues I have been dumped a few days ago. My partner ...

I'm broken-hearted and don't know if I can trust her!

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20 May 2012 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years now. We are almost 2 years dating officially. We have gotten in a lot of fights over the time and always seem to make up. Shortly after we began dating she got pregnant. We decided to keep the baby and ...

How on earth do I get closure with this guy and not take him back again and again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - Well guys im back ..... where on earth do i begin, me and my ex partner (who is the cross dresser) started talking again, ending up going out for dinner, then i slept with him and we started seeing each other again, I did alot of soul searching and ...

I think about sex all the time!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - so, i am 13 almost 14 and cant stop thinking about ..... sex, i know i am to young but keep thinking about sexual things me and my ex used to do(like kissing, and playing about). i dont know if it is right to think of this. what should i do, i ...

She met a guy at a club and dumped me! why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - Hey everyone I'm here looking for a little advice. My girlfriend left me three weeks ago and it's been hard, I understand we were arguing a little but that was because its so hard to be with someone who doesn't want to talk about issues or commun...

Both of us are upset about our break up. Does he really love me if he puts his religion before me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been attached for half a year now. We started off as colleagues 3 years back and he has been courting me since then but we just got together recently. The reason why I did not accept him earlier is because of his reli...

Guilt. Boy troubles. We are getting closer. Should go for him, if they do break up given the history of it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - So this is another one of those boy problems. As much as I want it to NOT bother me, as much as I want to not pay attention to it, it keeps popping up in my mind. :/ So my friend (call her X ) was dating a guy (let's call him Z ) who has a best f...

Am I being played by letting him woo me all over again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

20 May 2012 (F) - Ok so after four months of being broken up my ex contacted me to tell me how mich he missed me and that he missed everything about me and has thought about me everyday since the split which was his decision. We were together for about a year i meet ...

How come I get hurt or burned in relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

19 May 2012 (F) - I've been so confused lately i have no idea what to do. My ex and i broke up a month ago and i recently found that he was going out with my best friend. A couple days ago they broke up and now he want's to rebuild our relationship by being friends....