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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I continue to heal from a devastating break-up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - Broke up with girl 5 months ago. she dumped me. was with her 6 years. heart breaking. she contacted me every 2 weeks or so. how are you etc etc etc. ive only started to feel bit better lately. still miss her so much but I'm not in as low mood a...

My LDR boyfriend broke up with me...When I asked him the reason, he said he didn't have one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4982 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been inlove with this guy for 5 years. He said he loved me and he said that he meant it. We have been keeping intouch through the chat (messenger), telephone and writing (for 5 years). I do not get to spend alot of time wi...

I know I should, but how do I leave my older lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4972 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I am 18, I have been with a man since I was 16 (legal in the UK) and he is now 49. Due to this no one else in either of our lives knows about us being together. In the last 6 months we have tried to end it, but neither of us are able to break it ...

I still love him and can't be just friends. Did I say the right thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Why did my ex boyfriend say that? did we do the wrong thing? My ex and I broke up a month ago, he said he didn't want a relationship but later on told me it's cos he fell out of love with me and he didn't want to break my heart that is wh...

He's changed. I feel like I should take him back, but my feelings have changed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4983 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I am currently very confused and would like your advice.. My ex of five years which was a ROCKY relationship has come back into my life, he left wanted a break and to make a long story short he has come back being a new sweet self... Even tho...

Husband isn't in love with me, should I stay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My husband came home from being gone over seas for 7 months..The first wk things were ok and then it just got worse. He told me he wasn't in love with me and that there is just no spark there no more. I felt like dying right there. Well I thought ...

Why do women say you're a fantastic guy, the best lover they have ever met, yet leave and say they need to move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - When my lady walked into my life, it was like a ray of sunshine, she was tall, elegant, graceful and very very beautiful with intelligence, so she should being a doctor. The second we met it was sparks, being a free spirit she didn't want a ...

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - im a 27yr old girl thats in a relationship, though i met a 37 yr old man 3yrs ago and have been falling in love with him, he was in a relationship of 15 yrs with 2 kids as do i have, 3 yrs later he has left her and wants to be with me, though he has ...

I'm scared to leave her, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - I have been dating my gf for about 2 years now. In those 2 years alot has happened to her, both of her grandmothers died, 2 friends of her friends died, her brother became an alchoholic. What I didnt realize before I started dating her and got ...

I cheated on my rebound with my first love and now I'm heart broken because she left

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - hi agony aunts. my first love was my bff since kindergarden. she took my virginity. we were gf's for 5 years and dropped me for a firl she met at college. i was crushed to bits and got in a rebound relationship with another girl that fell head over ...

That last time I saw my BF, we had sex but now he's ignoring me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupid.my scorpio boyfriend has totally changed.He was the sweetest boy ever and he made me believe he was in love with.we were havin a distance relationship and we only seen twice. And then he came back from the states recently I was s...

Should I continue to talk and be sexual with ex or just let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I dated my ex for almost 3 years. she ended the relationship she said I didnt do anything wrong she just had fallen out of love but we both admitted that and that we loves eachother still just not in love. well weve been split up for over a year ...

I'm sending him this breakup note. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I need some external advice because i am a mess and i do not want to do anything i regret later. I used to go out with this guy and we were really in love. Then he just pulled back and we decided to stay friends. The problem is even that he liv...

Have to see Ex-BF tomorrow and not sure I'll be able to control my anger. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Your Open Question: How should I act when I see my lying cheating ex boyfriend? ? My ex boyfriend lied to me, cheated and dumped me. I knew something wasn't right cos he said he doesn't want a relationship. I found out he was sleeping with s...

Confused on this whole stiuation, is he playing mind games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I'm not sure what I need to do, and I'm actually not sure what the problem is exactly, so her is my whole story. I had a crush on a boy (T) at my school since the beginning of November and by late December early January my friend C told me i should...

Why is she behaving like this with her new guy when she never did with me? And will she ever come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - Alright so im new to this but here we go. I dated a girl for a month treated her very well as all my friends said always was there for her. I always sent good morning text's. I left her video messages on her facebook. We didn't get to see each other ...

My long distance boyfriend broke up with me for family reasons. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I've dated for boyfriend for 9 months now, 6 of which he has lived on the other side of the country. It's a two day drive to get there, so we normally just fly back and forth. I'm still here in the city in which I've been born and raised. I'm ...

Even though he cheated on me and weren't on good terms, yet I cant get over the break-up....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend finished about a week ago and i have found out all the time he was with me he was seeing someone else to, this isnt the reason we split, we split because we wasnt on good terms then i didnt see him for 2 weeks as he was working ...

Was I a controlling Ex? I need insight on our relationship/ breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4984 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Ok. If anyone can help me, i would really appreciate it. Me and my ex recently broke up for good. I dont want to be with her, but i need help understanding what happened between us, because im trying to meet girls again and am scared of all of the ...

Why won't he send me my pictures back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - My friend broke up with me thursday because he says that i dont trust him and he not answering my calls i asked him to send me my pictures that i sent to his phone of me and my kids he dont want to send my pictures he said that he would so i can ...

My depression ruins all my relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Hi ,I've had anxiety and depression ,my entire life... Every relationship I've ever been in ,I've pushed the guy away with my worrying, flip outs and not feeling good enough... And right now the best guy I was ever with just broke up with me ...

He broke up because he didn't want the hassle of a girlfriend anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - About 10 weeks ago my bf broke up with me after nearly 2 years of being together. His reason? He didnt want the hassle of a gf anymore, wanted to do what he wants when he wants. Basically he wanted space. He is a huge mummys boy and plays footy and ...

On off on off on off relationship: I need to break free!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - hey all.. i have a bit of i problem i would like to solve. i feel terrible admitting it but i have little to no will power when it comes to dealing with my ex. she has pretty much made my life hell the past year and i don't know how to make this...

I don't want to stay with her, but I'm afraid what will happen if I divorce her. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - I am 32 years old and I've been married for almost 6 years now. While my wife is a wonderful person, a great friend and I do love her dearly in a "family" type of way, I feel absolutely no passion or physical chemistry in our relationship. She is an ...

In a LDR.. Feels like I am the only making the effort for contact.. Should I give up and let go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I have been on a long distance relationship for three months now. I am out of the country and as time goes by things get harder. Right before I left I asked him to break up and stay in touch and if we were both available to check in upon my return. ...

I'm sending this letter to my lover, what do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I'm sending this letter to my lover, What do you think? It breaks my heart having to say these words to you, but I feel that our relationship has ran its course. It has been wonderful knowing you, you are a great man. I'm sorry that I have to s...

He wants space. Will I be able to heal if I have to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - How do I get over him? I was with my fiance for almost three years. In that time we had a lot of ups and downs, mostly due to my mental illness. I cheated on him whilst I was ill and then tried to kill myself when we broke up, and then again a few...

This LDR makes me feel terrible about myself, but I can't quit it. Why?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Hi This is continuation of question "LDR boyfriend says its ok for him to have sex with call girls since its just "meaningless sex"" I begged my bf not to choose a call girl over me and my love, which he refused. I feel really disgusted...

I love him, but we argue. Should I let him go and see if he comes back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - .."if you love something let it go..if it comes back that's when you know it's meant to be". I'm in love with my ex BF deeply and he does love me but things aren't working out as we argue to much atm because we both have other things on our mi...

So here I am now, nearly four months after, still feeling hurt and rejected at being forced into ending something that could have been so good....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4970 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Hi all... I was dating a woman (40) from July to Dec last year. It was so incredibly intense at 46 years of age I can honestly say I have never experienced anything like it in my life. She was everything to me - I loved everything about her and my...

Should I stick it out with my B/f and see if things change? Or go back to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupids, please help!. I have posted a couple of posts on here about my 'boyfriend'. Ive said I dont see him enough even though we live soooo close to each other. He adds girls on facebook everynight, although I do know he not meeting them. He ...

I know I need to leave him after all his cheating, but I don't know how I will manage on my own, I have nothing without him......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Dear all my h/b has cheated several times in the past but he promised that he will never cheat again since i had found out, we are talking all though our marraige he has been cheating can he truley stop ? He says he loves me and he was selfish a...

I know I need to break up with him, but how do I do this when I have my son to think about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - so here is the situation. im 20 yrs and my boyfriend is 28 yrs old. he has a son with his ex and i have a son with my ex. we have been dating for 9 months and now im in the position where its too difficult. he blames me for a lot of the finances ...

Tips on getting over a breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - [Mod Note: 2 Questions from the same poster have been merged into one] I'm a bit depressed over a recent breakup looking for the best tips to move on. I kind of have been talking to a few girls, is it ok if I'm not over my ex completely? Also, wha...

My ex has moved in with the girl he cheated on me with, why do I feel so hurt by this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I recently found out that my ex (whom I dated for 5 years) and broke up with 8 months ago, has moved in together with his current girlfriend whom he cheated on me with (the cause of our breakup). This has shocked me as we never made that step as a ...

Should I confront my ex about his cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I recently split up with my boyfriend of 7 months since we were constantly at odds with each other due to his controlling and possessive behavior towards me. I recently found out via facebook that he was cheating on me (or vice versa) with the ...

He "wants space" - do I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Backstory: Moved to university last September with my ex, we split a few weeks later. Not long after met Q (obviously not his real name) and we started flirting but then I found out that he was sorta seeing one of my best friends. He told her he d...

I really thought we'd just be together in our own little disfunctional way for the longterm

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - When i was fifteen i (thought) i fell in love with a friend, he became my boyfriend and we went out for almost two years. It was never exactly perfect, i'm not an emotional person and found it difficult to talk about any real 'feelings' and he never ...

Is it true that only time is a healer?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I was just wondering how you get over a break up? I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years in January and it is still hurting. I know the break up was right for me as I am at Uni and the relationship was getting difficult to keep healthy and happ...

What should I do? Ring him or wait for him to call?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - What should I do? ring him or wait for him to call? My ex boyfriend broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship, I later found out he'd been cheating on me for 2months. I told him I know about his other girl, he begged to see me and...

My ex moved on, now having a baby, I'm not over him, heard he still cares, what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I recently wrote in and asked 'how do you mend a broken heart?' My ex of 2 years and i split up 10months ago. We were in a LDR between Uk and USA. He tried to get me back for ages, saying how much he had messed up and missed me and i generally ...

Why didn't I see this coming? I was dumped over text message!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - met a guy in January. He approached me. We hit it off. In the beginning of our courtship, I was a little cautious simply because I didn't want my feeling hurt by this guy. I expressed my concern to him and we had at least 3 good conversations ...

What are you supposed to do if your BF is losing interest but won't talk about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - With the bad breakup I had last year, I was completely blindsided. My ex left things completely unresolved between us. Everyone says that you have to get better at seeing the signs when your bf/gf is losing interest. It seems like you can only gain ...

No reply. No response? Is this his way of just saying goodbye?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I was seeing this guy for one month and things were great. He honestly seemed too good to be true. He was so nice to me and I was very guarded because i have been hurt in the past. He promised not to hurt me and is about 4 years older than me. Ever...

I had sex with someone else while we were on a break and now he says I am 'dirty' to him, what can I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend who I love more that anything else told me we should take a break so he could deal with some issues. A week later I saw he was taking someone to prom and I knew he liked her. Out of jealousy and a need for security, I had sex with a ...

Why am I hurting over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid ... Im hurting. I wish if you can say something to make me feel better here is my problem, i filed for divorce almost 6 months ago even tho i tried hard to make my marriage work but there were too many issues that cant be solved and Lo...

Is my ex being genuine this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I dated a guy last for a couple of months. We had great chemistry and I really liked him. But he was immature, he started standing me up. Then he only wanted me to come over late at night. Then the next day he'd be desperate to get rid of me. W...

How do I get over someone who treated me like crap?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - how do i get over someone who treated me like crap? my ex was jealous controlling and cheated but i still love him i even caught him with a girl and he denied me in my face....how do i wake up and see that he never treated me right? i was good to ...

How could he do this to me after all I have done for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4985 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - So I'm pretty upset right now. My boyfriend of over 2 years kicked me out of his life a little under 2 weeks ago and i have't heard from him. About 3 weeks ago, i went over to his house and told him he could borrow my new ipod that i got ...

Waiting for Your Love as They Explore: Foolish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Recently separated from my girlfriend of four and a half years. We are both you, college aged individuals. The breakup was on her terms and she claims that it was because of our lack of common interests. I strongly believe that the real main reason ...