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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:What should I do? ring him or wait for him to call?My ex boyfriend broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship, I later found out he'd been cheating on me for 2months.I told him I know about his other girl, he begged to see me and to talk, I told him I needed some time. I said we should meet up on wednesday so I can finally move on cos I don't want him ever again.I didn't wanna go but my friends think I should and I got a couple of questions to ask him.Thing is, we are meant to be meeting on wednesday but I don't know if I should ring him to see if we're still on or let him ring me? I just wanna get it over and done with..but I also don't want him to think I wanna see him kinda of thing.Thanks..x
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (29 March 2011):
 Hi,
Sorry that you had to find out that your ex-boyfriend was cheating on you.
I know exactly how you feel. Its hard & its going to take some time to heal.
As per your question, you can send him a "short text" just asking if "are we still on for wed?" Just keep it short & simple.
Also I agree with your friends, you should definetly meet & hear what he has to say. You have the right to know the truth & you have the right to ask questions.
I am glad you decided to leave him, I am sure you deserve better. You're young & will find someone that will love you, respect you the way you deserve.
Be strong, when you meet him, make sure to look nice, don't show anger, weakness, show him what an amazing girl you're and make him suffer, realize how stupid he is, immature & realize what he's missing. Tell him good luck with your new gf..smile & walk away.
Take your time, ask all you need to ask! Having answer will help you move on & heal.
After that, keep yourself busy with family, friends, go out..have fun...don't stay home alone, thinking about the past & feeling sorry for yourself..
Take care & good luck! :-)
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