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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Troubled relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I liked this guy for 2 years. He is a year younger than me. We were in middle school and we had the same spanish teacher. He was the kind of guy that you love him but you don't think he would ever even think about liking you. So I kept it to ...

He says he can no longer be faithful because of my weight

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Is there a way to get a man to accept that you're big? He says that he really loves what we have together it's the best sex he has ever had but he feels like he can no longer be faithful because of my weight is there anyway to change that I have ...

What does he mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - been seeing this really nice guy i liked for ages, been seeing him for about 8 weeks now, everything was going great. he was texting me every day, seeing me every sat night until something changed.. i haven't seen him for 2 weekends because we've ...

I feel so alone now my boyfriend has left me so soon after having his baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of two years just broke up with me, i just had his baby all he wants to do is go out with his friends and telling me he wants space. I tried moving on hangin out with friends taking care of the baby by myself but i feel so alone like ...

My ex - can't live with him and can't live without him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Here is my situation: My bf and I broke up. We have a child together and a house. I moved out since I couldnt afford the mortgage and he could. He has this drug usage (weed to be exact) that makes him extremelly hyper and i couldnt stand being ar...

Boyfriend has pushed me to the edge - do I dump him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 17 months now. It's pretty serious, we're getting a flat together and everything. I try not to think too far ahead because all manner of things can go wrong but I'm pretty sure he's the one. But this last ...

Help me win my long distance girlfriend back

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Where to begin? I been in a long distance relationship with a girl for 4 years but it goes deeper than that, alot deeper as this is'nt the normal meet a girl online, fall in love kind of thing. We been best friends for 5 years before we fell for ...

What does a woman mean when she says she wants to be with me, but doesn't?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Okay, so here it goes... Me and my girlfriend (we've been dating for 9 months), had recently broken up...and basically, she's in a state of confusion. She's talking to three other guys, and all this other stuff as a rebound. Just yesterday we saw e...

My difficult boyfriend calls me and everyone else a 'loser'

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. Can you please help me! How do you define a 'loser'?? My BF calls me a 'loser' (we've been together for 5 years) and he also calls his exes and my friends 'losers'. It is really upsetting me because I don't feel as th...

Torn between myself, two men and two kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - So I have an issue. I have a husband for 4.5 years now. We get along fine with eachother's family, and we have two kids. Just like in every relationship he has promised me many of things and only a couple where fulfilled. Like the movie "The ...

Finally I'd rather be single and happy than married and miserable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I am done. After our fight tonight I have finally seen him for what he is. He is selfish, emotionally abusive, chauvinistic, and paranoid. I want out of this sham of a marriage that I have tried so hard to save. I realize now that I can't save it ...

Will my ex ever realise True Love isnt the same as Being in Love

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28 February 2010 (F) - I have an ex who I loved very much. He feels the same about me in a way. But we differ on one thing. I rarely if ever just fall in love instantaneously, but he is different. I do not necessarily trust the feeling of being in love. He can only be ...

I am 13 and confused about love and relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Im sorry that it's long but my life is confusing.. So i like this guy in my school and he likes me back. I've known him from 4th grade and he's liked me since 6th. A while back in January while i dated my current ex-Boyfriend for the 7th...

Oh, what a tangled web we weave ...........

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - I am 22 years old as well as my girlfriend well ex girlfriend now. We have know eachother sense we were 12 and started dating when we were 15. our relationship was great until the last year of it there was a serious lack of affection and intamacy on ...

It's unfair, I've been left and he has moved on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I used to go out with this guy just over a year ago. We went out for about 2 years, but it got to the stage where we were on and off for about 3 times. It was always him ending it and me taking him back. We were so close though, I tried to be ...

My Girlfriend cheated but I can stop loving her should I try to get back with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Hey Guys Ive never asked for relationship advice on the internet before so here goes ;) I had been going out with my girlfriend for just over a year when she cheated on me with one of her house mates.. I wouldnt have ever called the guy...

We broke up, then got back together after he cheated, but I don't feel the same about him.

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27 February 2010 (F) - Okay, Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months. i used too LOVE him with all my heart, at the very beginning of our relationship i cheated on him multiple times , But i never told him, then 4 months later, we started having problems, i ...

He wants me to wait for him while he 'finishes things' with another girl

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I apologise in advance that this is so long! So me and my ex split up 6 months ago. We had been together a year and a bit, and saw each other loads. Towards the end he became distant and I knew there was something up. He confessed he had feeling ...

It's been two months I called and told him I was breaking up with him. How come he hasn't called me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - What should I do now that my boyfriend of almost 7 years is not picking up my phone calls/returning them after I told him I called to break up 2 months ago. After I mentioned breaking up and hesitated, he took it literally and didn't call me back ...

My ex is getting into deep waters, should I talk to him or his family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hello, I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago. I've been trying to call him a few times and left messages but he hasn't returned or picked up the phone when I called. He's a smart man and I've known him for more than 6 years now. He's ...

Same day my boyfriend broke up with me another sent me a lovely gift

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - right my boyfriend fraser broke up with me today and i`m really upset but i still have feelings for him but 10 mins after he broke up with me a parcel came through the door from a boy called Sean who still loves me and it was a sphere of life which ...

We have broken up but he still texts and contacts me every day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi. Im very confused with my situation. So, I was with my boyfriend for 8 months. For the first couple of months, the specific birth control I was on made me crazy. I would get mad at my boyfriend for the stupidest things and it would turn into ...

Secret vasectomy, how do I forgive and move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married 13 years. We have an 8 yr old daughter and an 11 yr old son. In 2002 when my daughter was 4 months old, my husband made the decision to have a vasectomy without talking to me about it. I found out because he put ...

How to deal with resentment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I'm 14 and I'm suffering from resentment, its KILLING ME! The guy that I'm in love with, doesn't love me any more and he's moved on. I hate him , he lead my best friend on and did other things that made me feel small.I stopped talking to him s...

Drunken Cheating...what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for just about a year, and when I say we were perfect, I mean it. I wanted to marry that boy. He literally worshiped the ground I walked on. We're in a long distance relationship because we're both in ...

What did she mean when she said this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been on a break for a month now, and she said she still needs time to forget about the bad stuff, and miss me. I hurt her by changing as a person. Like I got comfortable and I guess things changed between us. Like I ...

We split up because he doesn't know what he wants, so should I stick around to find out or leave now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Im about one month pregnant me and my boyfriend are still living together but we broke up because he doesnt know what he wants. when his ex found out about me a year ago she started to call him more and more maybe because she didnt want him with my ...

What should I do when my ex that owes me $3000!! and a friend $1000

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend cheated on me with 2 other women (unprotected).i stupidly forgave him cause it was with his ex and his roomate and he was drunk.. then he lied bt his father dying!!! to get $ from me cause he was expecting a inheritance..such bad ...

How to end a long-term relationship with a manipuator?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - I caught my girlfriend sleeping at this other guy's house who she previously promised not to ever see again. Her car was parked in front. This has happened a few times over the past couple years (we've been together almost 5) and I always forgive. I ...

I am so bitter and angry right now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I have a problem. In the past three relationships I've had, my ex-significant others have said the same thing to me after the break-up... "Any other guy would be so lucky to have someone like you. You'll make someone very happy someday." They ...

I'm scared now that I made the wrong choice...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I broke up with a man I had been seeing about a month ago. We only dated for about 3 months, but it was the most intense whirlwind relationship of my life. I have always been a bit aloof in relationships, and considered myself to be strong and ...

She doesn't deserve him but what did I ever do to cause this distance between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Well here is my story its my senior year in high school and the boy that I plan on pursuing a relationship with is still with his girlfriend of 4 years off and on she cheated on him numorus times and he has taken her back but a couple of weeks ago ...

Husband walks out, how do I pick up the pieces?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - im a 19 yrs old housewife and my husband (29 yrs) says we are over. i met him in my country ( he is a soldier) and we only spent a 3days together becuase he was leaving soon. So he went back to America and we just talked on the phone from time ...

My ex keeps contacting me, when he was a total jerk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - If anyone can give me their opinion? I broke up with my ex about 5 months go. He met someone else and i found out about it. However, many times he would try to speak to me again just when I was starting to move on. I would ignore his communication ...

When will enough be enough?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - (Mod note: Titled by poster) Hi I hope i dont come accross as some sad case here. But im really struggling. I need to know how to move on from an ex, this has been going on for near enough 3.5 years now. I love him with all my heart and i do ...

Ex contacts me after months. What could she want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - Hello all My ex split from me 2 months ago after a 3 year relationship. Since then I have not contacted her at all to try and heal. In that time it was her birthday and i still stayed strong and didn't contact her to say happy birthday Toda...

Is my relationship with my fiance on the rocks?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My fiance and I have been engaged for about a year or year 1/2. Lately, I've been concerned: (1) When we're on the phone, he doesn't really talk to me. He says that since we've become engaged, there's really nothing left to talk about; (...

We broke up but I want her back. Do her actions enforce that she feels the same?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - my ex gilrfriend and i were together 2 years when we broke up do to fighting for like a month. we were fighting do to stress in our seperate lives and our relationship as acouple. but we didnt brakeup over or during a fight we brokeup on goodterms ...

My girlfriend wants a break, yet she insists on us hanging out. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been on a break for a month. So within that one month, I've tried leaving her alone, and just focus on improving myself as a person. Not just for her, but for me too. When she first wanted to go on a break, she said ...

How do I get through the break up process? Should I get revenge or get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend (ex, actually) and I were together for 3 and a half years. He has a huge issue with my past, because when I was 15 I had a huge, unrequited crush on my then best guy friend. This guy was a little older, and he liked me a lot, but just ...

Should I let a guy I just met in college distract me from my four year relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Okay, i have been with my current bf for 4 years now and we got engaged a few months ago... i was really happy at the time but now that my 2nd semester of college has started ive met a guy here who im starting to really like. ive tried picturing my ...

Am I doing the wrong thing trying to change sexualities?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (?) - I am really confused. I left my husband 3 months ago because he was abusing me...he was hitting me.....anyways right after that i spent a very short time with a loser who only wanted to use me for sex and obviously that didn't work out either.....so ...

How do I deal with feeling ashamed that I wasted time with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - i feel ashamed. this guy and i were about to be an item until something happened. everybody knew that we went for dinner every night and what not. everybody knew we were close. anyway, we're not talking anymore now. i hate all the places i we...

Did my girlfriend just break up with me? I don't understand what happened!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

25 February 2010 (?) - My girl wants to have a baby with me. I was scared about this at first, but she wants it so much and I love to see her happy and see her smile, so I started to convince myself I was ready. But she got in my face last night about it, and finally ...

After our troublesome trip to Mexico I think our relationship might be over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I got back from a 5 day trip to Mexico with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. I have barely seen or spoken to him. We left after only being officially together for 5 months. The trip was not too much fun. He was pulling away before the trip which I wasn't ...

Should I be friends with him after he hurt me so badly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - So I'll try and make this short. I was in a very long term, happy relationship. We split up amicably-ish about 5 months ago. He hooked up with an idiot of a girl straight after. She is such a loser! Amongst many idiotic things she does, she cons...

I don't know what went wrong in our relationship! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

25 February 2010 (M) - There is this girl i like.We were good friends and the friendship turned into love and we were really good together...there were fights but we managed...there were times when we went on a break and didn't speak to each other for a month or so but ...

Mr X and Mr Y both want to be "my guy"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I recently dumped my long term boyfriend at the beginning of this year. I then got together on the 'rebound' with Mr X which i ended up quite fancying. We had a brief fling which fizzled out, which I didn't want to but started moving on anyway. I ...

My ex is dating somebody else, should I fight for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - I liked a guy for 2 years and we dated for 6 months. I just recently found out that a montha and a half before we broke up he was talking to the girl he is dating now. I still love him and I don't know what to do. Do I fight for him?...

Does he really need time to think, or should I just move on and date someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Once again. Another question. I'm very confused about what to do right now. It is a complicating situation. I have written about the same guy and relationship a couple times in the last few days. I guess to fill in up to current situation, dating 2 ...