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writes:i feel ashamed.this guy and i were about to be an item until something happened. everybody knew that we went for dinner every night and what not. everybody knew we were close. anyway, we're not talking anymore now.i hate all the places i went with him with. worse still, i'll always be going to those places. i'd feel even worse if he's dating a girl in the college. how do people deal with the shame? anyone, please help. thank you... Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (26 February 2010):
 All's fair in love and war.
There is no shame if you can't get along with someone.
It is just that you were too good for him and that you had to part ways.
You are not alone.Many couples too go their separate ways.
Whatever people think about you is no concern of theirs and you should not bother about them. You cannot control how their minds think.
You are destined to meet somebody better.
In time , those feelings would pass and you would go on and live your life your own way.
Don't let others stop you from enjoying your life or finding your own happiness.
You don't owe anyone for who you are. and what you do.
Stand tall and carry your head high.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (26 February 2010):
 1. Learn from this, so that you chose a better partner for yourself in the future.
2. Go to those places you were with him before, and CREATE new memories. That is how you deal with memories of him...you create new ones. Bring new friends with you to those places.
There is nothing to be ashamed of. Relationships come and go, and the important thing is to LEARN from them. Learning to accept the bad with the good of relationships is part of embracing maturity.
-Frank Kermit
http://www.franktalks.com
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reader, dorothy2342  +, writes (26 February 2010):
 Why would you feel shame? You meet a guy, you see if it works and if doesn't move on, grow. Don't worry about the past, look forward to what life has ahead for you. Go meet someone else you will make mistakes, thats life, but one day you won't. You cant change the past, but you can control your future. Much happiness.
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