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writes:I recently dumped my long term boyfriend at the beginning of this year. I then got together on the 'rebound' with Mr X which i ended up quite fancying. We had a brief fling which fizzled out, which I didn't want to but started moving on anyway. I started seeing another guy (Mr Y), but keeping in contact with Mr X. He then turns up at my window this evening and asks to come into my room, at the same time as I was seeing Mr Y. Mr X made his intentions clear as he kissed me in front of Mr Y, which was awkward. Mr X then walked off looking upset.Bearing in mind, I still quite like Mr X, more than Mr Y.Mr X contacted me less than half an hour later, having a go at me about how he was annoyed about answering the door to him when I had a visitor. How was I to know it was him? He was very rude and upset me quite a bit, and his parting note to me was to 'get my priorities straight.'I am so confused. Obviously i'll let him cool off for a few days, but is there any point pursuing this? I still like him and feel horribly guilty for turning him away (because i really wanted him to stay and to tell Mr Y to go) but i'm so confused as to whether he likes me, or just wants me for sex. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 February 2010):
To be honest, neither of these guys are right for you. Your fling with Mr X was a rebound that fizzled out before you had gotten over your ex, you then went on to Mr Y who you obviously care about even less than Mr X, so he's not the guy. And to top it off Mr X treated you badly in front of Mr Y. My advice to you is to end things with both guys and just focus on yourself and what you really want, because at the moment neither of these guys are for you and you're just going to end up moving backwards and forwards.
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