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Archived questions from: May, 2005 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

My girlfriend broke up with me and I don't know how to make her understand I only want her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7115 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I have been with my girl now for nearly 4 months. Recently we have been arguing loads. She has a daughter and rarely gets time to herself, but I like to spend time with her. She says she needs space but I find that hard. She also thinks that I still ...

I think my guy misunderstood the "hot tub incident", but he's stopped calling me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7115 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I recently went on a few dates with a guy who I got on really well with. Everthing was going well until I went to a party without him and he rang me whilst I was in the hot tub with a few male friends, who happened to be naked. I wasn't. Nothin...

Do I stick with the father of my baby, or go back to my ex, who would treat me better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7118 days ago

27 May 2005 (?) - I am 17 yrs old and I am 6 months pregnant. I'm still with the dad but he treats me bad. He won't let me see my mates and if I do he does bad things. Like last time he smashed up one of my mate's mum's car. I took him back for the baby, he is 23 but ...

I told her I didn't want to be friends and we broke up... but did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

27 May 2005 (?) - Well I dumped my girlfriend because she was found asleep in the same bed as the guy that cheated on my sister. She said they were just friends and I should trust her because they didn't do anything wrong. I was also told that she was dancing ...

My g/f's friends convinced her that I didn't treat her right. Now those friends say someone else is better for her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7148 days ago

26 May 2005 (?) - I am 23 and my ex is 19 and she broke up with me 3 weeks ago saying that I didn't show her that I wanted to be with her. Her friends keep telling her that she could find someone who would treat her much better than I do and I guess she is listening ...

In every relationship I've had, they fall in love with me, and I feel... nothing.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7148 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - Well, I will make this as short as possible. But, the problem is, it has been going on my whole life. I have always had really good relationships and all. I think it might be me... Let me explain. Every relationship I have gotten into has been lon...

Our relationship broke down, slowly, because of my stress. Now I hope we can get back together...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7150 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - ok I fell like I didn't give enough information last time, I was with this guy for about a year, everything was wonderful, we moved in together, we talked of marriage and children, and we were so happy.. then I got pregnant, had an abortion, went on ...

How can I tell my fiance that I don't want to marry him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - I am engaged. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years but no longer love him, but can't find the heart to tell him it's over. Also I've met someone else who's in the army and I have feelings for him. He feels the same way. We've known each oth...

If I take my boyfriend back, is he going to cheat on me with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6525 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - At the weekend I caught my boyfriend kissing another girl in our local nightclub. He can't remember doing it although I confronted him in the club, he was very drunk! Now he wants me to get back with him and he promises to cut down on the drinking...

She broke it off with me, because she said it seems like I didn't want to be around her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7150 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - I am from England and am studying in America. I have been dating an American girl for 1 year and she broke it off 3 weeks before I came home for the summer. She said that it didn't seem like it was before and that I didn't seem like I wanted to be ...

I got paranoid and texted him that we should just be friends, now I haven't heard from him in months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7150 days ago

24 May 2005 (?) - I was going out with a guy for a few months and i really liked him a lot. he was different from most guys.I don't think he knew how much i liked him!He bought me flowers always complimenting me, telling all his mates bout me.He came across as liking ...

I screwed things up between us. Can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6577 days ago

24 May 2005 (?) - OK, I made a huge mistake and lost the love of my life. I let my stress level change me and ruin my relationship, We have been thru a lot and now he won't even answer the phone when I call, but he will listen to my messages. I have lost everything, ...

I thought he was cranky because of his job... but he was cheating with a younger woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7151 days ago

24 May 2005 (?) - My husband of 18 1/2 years left 3 months ago. We have 12 year old boy/girl twins and up until maybe a year ago I actually thought he loved me. He was a good husband and good dad. I thought his criticalness and irritability of the past year were ...

I've been dumped and I want Travis back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7095 days ago

24 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I am in desperate need or your assistance. My boyfriend of a year and a half has just dumped me a week ago. He tells me he loves me still and we will get back together, but it just doesnt seem likely. What can I do to get him back A.S.A.P! I ...

I've broken up with my lover. Now how do I try to make things work with my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7151 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - I have been in a relationship with my husband for 14years and married for 9. We have a young child. I have recently ended an affair which I have had for the last two and a half years. It ended because we got just too close. We were best of friends ...

Sometimes he makes my skin crawl when he touches me, but my bf wants sex all the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7141 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - This is a sex question. I have been with my b/f for almost 3 yrs, in the beginning things were great. Then he started drinking real bad, getting physical, very jealous, accuses me of sleeping with every man that crosses or path. I love my b/f, and...

Things were bad between us, but we wanted to work through it. Now I find I just don't feel attracted...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7152 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - A few months ago, things were not going so well with the Mrs. Financial stress and me being at school a lot was tearing us apart. Long story short, we grew apart, considered divorce, then decided to try to fix everything. The thing is that I ...

I tried to treat her right and be honest, but she broke up with me to date one of my best mates.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7154 days ago

20 May 2005 (?) - My worst nightmare has happened. My ex girlfriend has started seeing of my mates. I'm really gutted that he's agreed to start seeing her, and although I want to look as if I'm not bothered, I'm really devistated inside. Although I'm not a teenag...

I'm ready to forget that my guy slept with a friend, so we can move on... but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7147 days ago

19 May 2005 (?) - I dated a guy for four years, then we split up because of various things like work and money normal stuff, but one of our so called friends decided to play on the bad stuff to break us completely. I think she was jealous of what we had. But but my ...

My wife wants a divorce... but I think I could change to please her, if she'll try to love me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7155 days ago

17 May 2005 (?) - Dear sir/madam My wife wants a divorce and we are selling our house. She is from Italy and I am from Nepal. We live in Scotland. She asked me for divorce from October and she is here because of the process of selling the house is very long. In th...

The more he hides his phone, the more I suspect that he's hiding something!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7158 days ago

17 May 2005 (?) - About sometime last year I found out that my b/f had found other friends while I was overseas studying. there were cell phone messages from these women declaring their undying love for him, and he told me that they were just "hopefuls" - he never ...

It's painful to be without my ex... How do I get this off my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7158 days ago

17 May 2005 (?) - Ok, I really need some advice having to do with my "ex" (god it hurts to say that) girlfriend breaking up with me. We have had a long distance relationship for about 2 years and managed to see each other once every few weeks including summers/...

He's so settled, but I want to travel the world. What can I say to break it to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7158 days ago

17 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I want to go overseas next year. How do I tell my b/f of two years, whom I live with and own two cars with? I still love him very much but I am not happy. Unfortunately I feel we are going down different roads. He is very much settled, wh...

We've tried everything and I'm ready to go, but I'm afraid I'm making a mistake!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7158 days ago

16 May 2005 (?) - Alright friends I could do with some sound advice. You see I have been with my b/f for nine years. He's not a bad bloke but I really think I need to get out of this relationship for financial security. I can't fault him, but he just won't show ...

Since he started the new job, my b/f seems to want to break it off. What's happening?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7159 days ago

16 May 2005 (?) - I have to fill you in first... my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months and it has been perfect. We never fought or argued. Everything about us was so right. Now he has started a new job in another city about two hours away. This weekend ...

We got engaged, we broke up, then we got back together, but we still haven't discussed it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7152 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I've been dating a guy for almost three years. We got engaged about a year and a half ago but two months later he freaked out and we broke up. A month later we got back together but he said he just wasn't ready to get married and to give him a few ...

Saying she's "afraid she's going to find someone else" in future, my girlfriend wants to break up... now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7031 days ago

14 May 2005 (?) - My girlfriend is wanting to break up with me because she is worried she is going to find someone else and hurt me. I dont want to break up though, how should I deal with this?...

My current partner and I aren't getting on very well... then along comes and ex who wants me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7161 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I need some advice. I am a 41 yr old mother of 2 boys. I have been in a relationship for 6 years. We are not married. We have been fighting a lot and he doesn't get along too well with my youngest child. I am debating on staying with him or not. H...

He's thoughtless and selfish and he teases me... even so, I worry about leaving him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7158 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Dear Agony aunt, I've been in a relationship with my partner for 3 years, and at first he behaved respectably and we had wonderful times together. Now its the opposite as he constantly teases me over myself, culture and even my 17 year daughter! ...

He dumped me to go live with his baby's mother. Was I just used?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7161 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I have been seeeing a guy called Mike for about 5 months now, but lately he wants to end the relationship and go back to his baby's mother, he has a two year old daughter with her. He says he doesn't want to hurt me but he misses his daughter...

We split up just months before the wedding; now he has a new girlfriend. Can we fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7162 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I am 26 years old and my ex partner is 32. We split up about ten weeks ago, two days after his birthday where we had a brilliant day and he told me that he spent it will the most important thing in his life. We had been engagement for two years ...

When he split from his ex, he also cut me out so he could "deal with it". What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7162 days ago

12 May 2005 (?) - I have been seeing a lad on and off for the past 3 years. We was both with someone when it started, we both split with our exes but we was still friends. He met someone else and we carried on having an affair. Cut a story short, a month ago he s...

If we give ourselves some time apart, is that going to kill our relationship forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7163 days ago

12 May 2005 (?) - I’m nearly 21 years old and I’ve just come out of a 3-year relationship. I met her when she was 15 and I was 18 and we live about 60 miles away from each other, which makes it harder. Since my car crash in January our relationship hasn’t been the ...

Hate the thought of breaking his heart, and he really likes me... but I don't fancy him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

12 May 2005 (?) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a few weeks and he is really romantic and does lots of gestures and he is getting obsessed with me. I don't like this and want to finish it but he is way too nice to tell him! I can't tell him to his face...

Does my guy really have no time to spend with me, or is he telling me something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7163 days ago

12 May 2005 (?) - He say's he needs a break. I have been seeing a wonderful man, who says he loves me, and I know I love him. It seems now he wants a break, he says he has a lot going on in his life right now,(work, kids and family)and does not feel he can give me ...

A misunderstanding led to a fight and now my boyfriend's moved out! How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7163 days ago

12 May 2005 (?) - On Sunday night, me and my boyfriend had a big fight because I was talking to someone we have both known for years. We were talking about our wedding next year so there was nothing for him to worry about as he was joining as well but now he's moved ...

I kicked him out after he cheated. Now I wonder if he'll ever reform his ways...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7152 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - My live in boyfriend cheated on me last year by getting a happy ending massage. I found a credit card receipt for the massage parlor hanging out of his wallet. (Obviously, he's not that witty when it comes to covering his tracks). It was deva...

My ex broke my heart. What's the secret of keeping women interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - Is it true that women only want men who treat them cruel? I was devoted to my ex-girfriend and she just broke my heart. Have I got to become a right bastard to make sure women stay with me? "Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen" sort of thing?...

If I admit I kissed my ex, it's over for sure. But would that be for the best anyway...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7164 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - hi, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years and at the beginning of the relationship I cheated on him 3 times, which I am not proud of and told him as soon as it happened. Since then, we have broken up 3 times and got back together...

His other girlfriend is pregnant with his baby. Now I want to know how to move on without him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7163 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - I started seeing my boyfriend when I was 15. I'm now 18 and he's 22. We were always seeing each other on and off 4 the last 3 and half years that we've known each other. During that time he treated me terribly, kept going off with other women, has...

While my g/f rediscovers herself, she doesn't want a boyfriend. Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7165 days ago

10 May 2005 (?) - Hi, my girlfriend broke up with me last night, because she has found a new her, and has a new, more positive view on life. She said that now she needs to rediscover herself on her own and not be with anyone while she figures herself out. She sa...

My b/f won't even try a long-distance relationship while he's away. Instead, he just broke up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7165 days ago

10 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of over two years is leaving in about a month for military training and will be gone for a year and has decided he doesn't want to try to have a long distance relationship. He told me after he broke up with me that he did somethin...

My partner cheats when he travels and I'm ready to leave him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7162 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - My partner of 3 years has been unfaithful at least six times since we have been together. These are the only times I have caught him; god only knows how many more there have been. He promised me so many times to change and seek help but hey I ca...

Now that we've broken up, what do I do with myself until he wants me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7165 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - Yesterday my boyfriend of a year told me he just wanted to be single. We had just come back from spending a perfect weekend in Wales with his grandparents. When we had got home he wanted to invite his friend out with us but I saidI didn't want him...

Once he dumped me he didn't even follow through on his promise that we'd be friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7166 days ago

7 May 2005 (?) - I used to go out with this lad and then he dumped me. He said we will always be friends and stay in touch. Three weeks later he started to come and see me, then he stopped, and I can't get over him. But he said he don't want me in his life and he ...

He wants me, then he doesn't, then he does again. What do I believe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7168 days ago

6 May 2005 (?) - I really like this boy. We went out with each other and he used to call me his Wifey, but 3 weeks down the line he dumped me. Now a couple of weeks later, I got a phone call from his friend saying that he wants me back, but I don't know whether to ...

My gf broke things off & I know I was to blame. Why did I do those things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7170 days ago

5 May 2005 (?) - My girlfriend, who I was going to marry in July, finshed our relationship because I was jealous, abusive, got drunk and tried it on with some of her friends. It happened two or three times when I was very drunk and I always felt so guilty. I didn...

If my ex thinks he was "stupid" to break up with me, should I think about us getting back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7166 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - HELP! My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago. I went out w/ him for about a year. I loved him so much, and I was really hurt when he broke up with me. He thought I would hate him, but I really didn't. I still really liked him. It made ...

My b/f puts me down in front of his friends and complains that all I do is bitch. Am I wrong to think of leaving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7172 days ago

2 May 2005 (?) - My b/f and I have been living together with my three children for almost 6 years. Our relationship is OK but I am worried that we may break up. I stay in the house because he's in our garage with his friends and doesn't want me around because hes ...

Been thinking about breaking up with my b/f... or cheating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6986 days ago

2 May 2005 (?) - Hi. I've been dating my guy for almost four years and in the beginning, I loved him a lot. I mean he was the only guy I ever wanted to be with. We broke up a few times and I got to mingle around with some of my guy friends. Now, for about the past ...