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I'm ready to forget that my guy slept with a friend, so we can move on... but how?

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Question - (19 May 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2005)
A , *weetangel writes:

I dated a guy for four years, then we split up because of various things like work and money normal stuff, but one of our so called friends decided to play on the bad stuff to break us completely. I think she was jealous of what we had. But but my partner couldn't see it, only I could see what she was doing.

We split and he kept friends with her. But while they were friends even though she had a guy and two kids, they slept together twice. Then later that year my ex partner then realised what she was and started to dislike her a bit. Also he realised that he had feelings for me still. He told me in a letter and I felt the same, so we decided to get back the beginning of this year.

He has told me everything that went on between them. But even though it happened when we had split up it still hurts bad and makes me mad knowing that she has slept with someone that I loved and knowing that she got what she wanted. How do I get rid of this feeling inside. please help me; I just want to be enjoy what we have now.

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A reader, star3482 +, writes (28 May 2005):

Obviously she's not got what she wanted, as if she had she would still have him. But seriously, he hasn't done anything wrong as you were not together. If you love him then get back with him and hold your head up high when you see her as you will then have what you want x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005):

GET OVER IT!!!......you were not his partner at the time and have NO say in what happened while you were out....If he was taken by someone else that is his problem..NO one said you had to be best friends with the woman..LEAVE THE PAST IN THE PAST...

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