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writes: I am from England and am studying in America. I have been dating an American girl for 1 year and she broke it off 3 weeks before I came home for the summer. She said that it didn't seem like it was before and that I didn't seem like I wanted to be around her, that it seemed like a chore. I told her I didn't realise I was being that way and I would change but she said that she needed time to think it over. She is coming to visit me in August before we start back at school. I really want her back and love her very much. What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Christie +, writes (25 May 2005):
In this case actions will speak louder than words. If you are sure you want to be in this relationship, when she comes to visit really pay alot of attention to her. She clearly is feeling like she wants to be treated like a princess. If you do this chances are she wont be feeling neglected any more. It isnt enough to just say you will do things, you have to carry it out for it to mean anything. Good luck.
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reader, Middy7 +, writes (25 May 2005):
She may feel like since you live far away you two don't have anything in common, or maybe you aren't taking as much interest in her as you once were, or maybe that you have fallen into a routine, all you can really do is be excited when you see her tell her how much you miss her lavish her with attention, take her out for a night on the town, show her that your trying here, and she will come around if she really cares...
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