| A ,
*kash
writes: Dear sir/madamMy wife wants a divorce and we are selling our house. She is from Italy and I am from Nepal. We live in Scotland. She asked me for divorce from October and she is here because of the process of selling the house is very long. In that time she went 4 times to Italy. I know I made many mistakes in the past, like I used to say give the divorce, I leave you and we used to fight a lot for small things. I know that is the reason she wants to leave me. I am from different culture and kissing and cuddling was odd for me. Now it is May and she says she doesn't love me and will go back to Italy in June forever. I cried, begged and tried everything but she says she doesn't love me and she doesn't find me attractive. We haven't had lovemaking since and I forced her to do few time. I told her that I can do anything. We will go out like before and I will try my best to get her to love me again but she refused and she is very nasty. All the time she asks me about divorce because she knows I don't like that word. And I don't understand how can she be very nasty with me; after all, I didn't cheat on her and didn't do any major mistakes.So please help me, I don't want to lose her. Sometimes she says let me go and I will think about it, but many times she went to Italy she said she never missed me and never remembered me. She said it's over and doesn't want to go for counselling and Church.Help me please, you are my GOD because I pray every day with GOD but he didn't listen to me. Please help me.Someone in real troublexxx
View related questions:
divorce, kissing Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2005): I am from SOUTH AFRICA and my husband is an AMERICAN,once upon a long time ago we truly loved one another, passionately. Then it seems overnite our true and sometimes hurtful selves emerged and there was the constant arguing and on many occassions he hit me, even called me names infront of our 5 year old son. I have asked him for a DIVORCE, but he continuously begs me to stay, even asking me to see a counselor. The point is my troubled friend, no one can mend a broken SPIRIT, only time can tell what the future holds for a BROKEN HEART. Life is a book full of both good and bad memories, cherish the wonderful ones you had , but please set her free.Love will come knocking again and as the world turns you will learn from your past.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2005): Sir,God is listening, and he is working in your life. God is a just God who has his own timing. It may not be pleasing to us, but his timing is perfect. I recently separated from the love of my life because of simple things that can be fixed. If you pray to God, ask him to let your heart feel what needs to be felt. Ask him to lead your wife and yourself down the right path so that your lives may be perfect. The fact is that marriage is supposed to be forever. God did not intend for us to be divorced. If your wife is making this decision, then it's her decision. All you can do is ask for peace and or change for that decision. Be willing, though, to accept the fact that you're not supposed to be with her. If you ask God for help, he will answer. I am so sorry to hear about your pain. I definitely understand it. Please don't let God get out of sight with this problem. He is the ultimate provider of our lives. Please read 1 Cor. and 2 Cor. for help with many struggles in life.Your Brother in Christ,JD
...............................
|
