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writes: My husband of 18 1/2 years left 3 months ago. We have 12 year old boy/girl twins and up until maybe a year ago I actually thought he loved me. He was a good husband and good dad. I thought his criticalness and irritability of the past year were due to his job. It turned out that he has been with a 31 year old Korean woman (he's 48). Needless to say I am distraught and heartbroken. He says he hasn't loved me in 15 years. I don't understand how this could have happened. Sometimes I feel that I will die of a broken heart. My question is: How do I comprehend this betrayal? What kind of a man could do this to his family? How do deal with him for the sake of the children when I am so incredibly hurt?
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (24 May 2005):
First and foremost, remember that he is their father. Regardless of how you feel about him, they love him. So watch what you say in front of the children; you don't want them thinking less of you for attacking thier dad. As far as he goes don't make yourself crazy trying to figure out what happened, you probably never will and he won't ( can't) tell you. You will waste even more years of your life on him, if you do and don't you think he got enough of those already?!
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